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i just stopped by the store in a "bad" neighborhood. you know, prostitutes, drug dealers, "by the hour" motels, that kind of thing. i saw a guy outside the store holding a young, white pit bull with a belt around her neck as a collar/leash. the poor girl was terrified, shivering there with her tail tucked. i stopped to say hi and comment on how she looked exactly like Lola. the guy offered to sell her to me for $60. incredibly enough, i didn't buy her. didn't even consider it, in fact. i'm sure she's not spayed, and will wind up breeding for cash or fighting on the street corner. this tugged at my heard like you wouldn't believe. but i never even entertained the thought. i did think briefly of buying her and turning her over to rescue, but i know they're overflowing, and i know i can't foster her, so i let that thought go as well. wow, i guess i am capable of using my brane! -kelly |
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"culprit" wrote in message ... i just stopped by the store in a "bad" neighborhood. you know, prostitutes, drug dealers, "by the hour" motels, that kind of thing. i saw a guy outside the store holding a young, white pit bull with a belt around her neck as a collar/leash. the poor girl was terrified, shivering there with her tail tucked. i stopped to say hi and comment on how she looked exactly like Lola. the guy offered to sell her to me for $60. incredibly enough, i didn't buy her. didn't even consider it, in fact. i'm sure she's not spayed, and will wind up breeding for cash or fighting on the street corner. this tugged at my heard like you wouldn't believe. but i never even entertained the thought. i did think briefly of buying her and turning her over to rescue, but i know they're overflowing, and i know i can't foster her, so i let that thought go as well. i just realized that i saw the dog within the SeaTac city limits. pit bulls are illegal in SeaTac. hopefully, she'll get picked up by animal control and sent to a shelter where she at least has a chance of a good life. -kelly |
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On Wed, 09 Feb 2005 10:13:12 -0500, sighthounds & siberians
wrote: I can tell you from experience that being plugged into such resource often makes no difference. Certain breed rescues are always overloaded and never have room. It's why I have more Greyhounds and Siberians than I would prefer to. And because I couldn't say no to a particular Siberian, I have to separate him from one of my dogs and he doesn't get the run of the house because he'll eat my cats. Would he prefer this life in my house to being dead? Probably, because it's what he knows. Would I get into this situation again? Nope. There's a very good chance that had you taken that sweet puppy, you would have been stuck with her. Yep. I've worked closely with one of the local rescue groups, and they ignore all my e-mails and phone calls about taking Blackie. They don't have the resources to foster him and a full roster of dogs already to take to PetsMart on the weekends. I have to admit that I am starting to consider offering to foster him and escort him to Adoption Days. I know they'd take him into the system if I did that, and he'd get a good chance at finding a better home. My dogs' reaction to him when he was outside the window made the difference between "wouldn't even think about it" and "hmm, maybe it could work." They like and accept him, even Miss Snarky-Pants MacKenzie. All he wants to do is play with them, and he's very submissive. Of course, he'd be crated when I wasn't supervising. I'm going to puppy-sit for another young male in a couple of weeks, so I can't do anything until after that. Gives me a while to think about it. I have no intention of keeping a 4th dog, especially an untrained adolescent bully boy. So part of what's stopping me is the fear that his being a pit bull will put off adoptive families, and I may get stuck with him. IMHO he's a perfect family dog, but breed prejudice may work against him. Even though he's a mix, he looks like a black rednose. Very pitty. (Hey, Kelly, forget Wiley - I've got one for ya. :} -- Leah Roberts, Family Dog Trainer It's A Dog's World http://hometown.aol.com/dfrntdrums/m...age/index.html Get Healthy, Build Your Immune System, Lose Weight http://re-vita.net/dfrntdrums |
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On Tue, 8 Feb 2005 19:51:37 -0800, "culprit"
wrote: wow, i guess i am capable of using my brane! Obviously. That still doesn't make your assessment of the Wiley situation complete. Reading your responses to Sarah made me realize that there are still an awful lot of unknowns, and puppy license runs out and things can really change. The best of luck with your choices. I personally don't want to have dogs I have to separate, but what the heck. -- Janet B www.bestfriendsdogobedience.com |
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On Wed, 09 Feb 2005 07:46:50 -0500, Janet B
wrote: I personally don't want to have dogs I have to separate, but what the heck. that's definitely an individual sort of thing. people who love bully breeds and who want to live with multiple dogs have to be willing to face the reality that they may have to keep their dogs separately. it's not the end of the world, though i can see why most people would find it unacceptable. -- shelly http://home.bluemarble.net/~scouvrette || http://cat-sidh.blogspot.com It is a mistake to think you can solve any major problems just with potatoes. -- Douglas Adams |
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On Wed, 09 Feb 2005 08:18:46 -0500, shelly
wrote: that's definitely an individual sort of thing. people who love bully breeds and who want to live with multiple dogs have to be willing to face the reality that they may have to keep their dogs separately. it's not the end of the world, though i can see why most people would find it unacceptable. Yeah - I like pitbulls a lot. But between bad skin reactions to them (some Boxers, GSP's and AmBulls and such as well!) and the separation thing, they just don't suit my life. I have mutiple dogs for my own enjoyment of course, but a lot of it is so they can be companions for each other, especially when I am not home. And companions with the cats as well I might add, which is why my head won over my heart when it came to helping place a favorite little JRT. She went to a home with cats, but 2 other dogs as well, and the dogs all get crated when left home w/out owner (she and another dog are JUST 1 now). I don't want to do that for a dog's whole life, but would feel it necessary with a JRT and cats. So...... I passed on getting sucked in by her and thinking of adopting her, and made a better decision for all of us. -- Janet B www.bestfriendsdogobedience.com |
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"culprit" wrote in news:36tfm9F3erqu9U1
@individual.net: i stopped to say hi and comment on how she looked exactly like Lola. the guy offered to sell her to me for $60. I just don't understand people. The guy I adopted Queenie from had raised her from a pup, but was on the verge of taking her to the pound because she kept escaping from her tie-out in the yard. He offered her to me without batting an eye. --Catherine & Zoe & Queenie |
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"culprit" wrote in news:36tfm9F3erqu9U1
@individual.net: wow, i guess i am capable of using my brane! I guess there's something I haven't read. However, I'll respond as if your post should be taken at face value. I myself recently went through something similar. A baby pit bull puppy tied up at Penn Station in Baltimore, in a place where all the commuters had to walk within inches of her. Obviously abandoned. Dirty, but not starved. Clearly not used to living outside. Wearing a cute boutique-type collar. This was not someone's yard dawg. I had no time to whisk her home (and no quick means of separating her from Orson if I did have time). I considered putting her in my car in the station's parking deck for the several hours I'd have to be gone. I realized I'd probably come back to an empty car or an empty parking space. I could've taken her in the hopes of rehoming her, but I'm not plugged into people who could help me. And what if no one wanted her? Then I'd have to either adopt her permanently or eventually dump her in a shelter. Taking her home to live with Orson was not an option. Not a smart one, anyway. Adopting a dog into our family based on pity or compassion or optimism or a snap decision--rather than whether it's good for my dog, my cat, DH, and me--just turned out to be a terrible idea. Adopting an animal on a whim and committing to it for the next 10-15 years is never an option for me personally, even if I know the animal's going to get a needle in the leg if it doesn't come home with me. Back to the baby pit bull at the train station. AC picked her up. Her owner had 7 days to claim her, and then she'd be put down. Since she was obviously abandoned, I knew as soon as the AC guy told me the law that darling girl puppy was going to die. I cried all the way to my meeting. And I cried on the day I knew she was dead. But the stasis in my house is just as it should be. I'm glad you didn't take home that sweet girl out of pity. I wonder if it would've been doing her a real favor. Cate |
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On 9 Feb 2005 14:45:58 GMT, Cate
wrote: "culprit" wrote in news:36tfm9F3erqu9U1 : wow, i guess i am capable of using my brane! I guess there's something I haven't read. However, I'll respond as if your post should be taken at face value. I myself recently went through something similar. A baby pit bull puppy tied up at Penn Station in Baltimore, in a place where all the commuters had to walk within inches of her. snip heartbreaking story That sucks. You did the right thing for you and your dog/human family, as you know. As for the puppy, it wasn't your irresponsibility that landed it there, and it wasn't your responsibility to save it. You mentioned not being plugged into people that could help you place her. I can tell you from experience that being plugged into such resource often makes no difference. Certain breed rescues are always overloaded and never have room. It's why I have more Greyhounds and Siberians than I would prefer to. And because I couldn't say no to a particular Siberian, I have to separate him from one of my dogs and he doesn't get the run of the house because he'll eat my cats. Would he prefer this life in my house to being dead? Probably, because it's what he knows. Would I get into this situation again? Nope. There's a very good chance that had you taken that sweet puppy, you would have been stuck with her. Kelly, you don't generally like anything I say no matter how I say it, but I don't think you're incapable of using your brane, and I don't believe anyone was saying that you are. Having a huge heart where it comes to animals is not a bad thing. Listening to one's brane over one's heart sometimes takes a lot of practice. Lots of rescuers never learn to do it, and those who don't are never really successful, because there really isn't always room for one more. Mustang Sally |
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sighthounds & siberians wrote in
: As for the puppy, it wasn't your irresponsibility that landed it there, and it wasn't your responsibility to save it. I know, but I usually operate on the principle of 'if not me, then who?' It's just that when it comes to animals needing homes, if I took home every one that had a sad story, I'd wind up on the news as one of those crazy animal hoarders. If I can't say no now, when will I learn how? After I have 5 dogs? 10? 140? You mentioned not being plugged into people that could help you place her. I can tell you from experience that being plugged into such resource often makes no difference. Certain breed rescues are always overloaded and never have room. I know. And even though I'm newish in town, I know that pit bulls have a tough time here. Getting adopted, having good lives once they are adopted, etc. Had I taken her home to foster, I would've been reduced to begging Janet and Sarah for help. There's a very good chance that had you taken that sweet puppy, you would have been stuck with her. Which is exactly why I couldn't in good conscience take her. I might wind up like my vet friend with the dog who attacks the other dog: Making snap decisions based on pity, getting attached, and then being unwilling to rehome even if it would make everyone's life easier. Cate |
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