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Hi,
Some months ago I made a post here where I asked for suggestions in dealing with my inconsiderate neighbor and his barking dogs. As I mentioned in that post a while back, the neighbor has a 3/4 acre lot with several large guard dogs. As a matter of fact, I believe that he is running a dog kennel out off of his property (in violation of the homeowner rules) because of all the barking I've heard coming from there. I've counted at least 6 dogs on his property, and that's not including the other dogs that he has on the other side of his lot that I can't see. Not only that, but these dogs were very, very aggressive and vicious. Whenever I'd go outside, these dogs would charge up to the fence.. growling and barking up a storm. Always and for years they kept doing that. That really got on my nerves. The dogs would bark incessantly - especially at night. It seemed to me that the reason why the dogs were barking like that was because they were being neglected or not being fed properly. These neighbors were never particularly friendly throughout the years and were at times hostile for no reason (they had a hermit mentality) so I saw no reason to have a conversation with these people. Because I expected nothing to come of it. I had yelled out a few times, "quiet down your dogs", which I know that these people heard. I wanted to give them the idea that they were causing a nuisance, but that didn't seem to get them to understand how much of a problem they were creating. For a while it became very frustrating. It was hard to follow what was happening on the tv (the dogs barking would drown it out) and it irritated me while playing piano. The person who I live with here asked me, begged me, not to report the neighbors to the police because I was told that it would cause more problems. SO I asked for advice on this group and it was recommended to me to use a product such as "Good Neighbor Barker Breaker", Well, I did use this product, but it seemed that this only made problems worse. Much, much worse. It did quiet the dogs down because the device would emit a corrective tone for each bark picked up on the microphone, but it made the neighbors very indignant and angry towards me. The person who I live with at this place told me that the neighbors were overheard grumbling about the Good Neighbor Barker Breaker and were saying that I was trying to hurt their dogs. The neighbors also mentioned, as overheard by the person I live with, that they were going to call the police on me. It still did not dawn on these neighbors that if they only were more considerate of people who live around them, took care of their dogs right, and kept the barking at a minimum, there would be no rationale for using a product like Good Neighbor Barker Breaker. But to appease the one I live with here, I decided to put away Good Neighbor Barker Breaker and buy something that is much more quiet and makes almost no noise heard to hums.... an ultrasonic super bark stop. To be honest, I became defiant upon hearing that the neighbors were heard saying amongst themselves that they would report me, and my thinking was, "let them report me as that will give me a chance to show the police how these people neglect their dogs and are creating a nuisance they won't control." Then, I noticed one day that *someone* had tampered with the new ultrasonic super bark stop device I set up. I checked out the evidence and it was obvious that the neighbor used something through the fence to knock it over. When I saw that he touched my property in an attempt to damage it, I became pretty upset. I decided that at this point, I would post a note on the neighbors gate letting him know that he needs to keep his barking dogs quiet. I tacked a note on his front gate very late at night. I was polite as I could be and was not threatening. I was trying to be a peacemaker. I just let him know that it needs to stop with his dogs. I didn't even threaten to go to the police or animal control. I tried to offer an olive branch. Then I found out that the neighbor reported me to the police for leaving the note. The thing about it was, even the police did not find it threatening and wouldn't confront me about it. They advised the neighbor to "play it cool" and to keep his dogs quiet. I also found out that the neighbor was trying to make it sound even more ominous to the police by saying that he believed I would try to poison all of his dogs. For a while after I posted the first note, it seemed that the neighbor was making an effort to take better care of his dogs and keep them quiet. But I did not know that he had reported me to the police for leaving that note. I only found out the other day. I had just thought, "I guess the neighbor took my olive branch..maybe they aren't so bad"....boy, was I wrong. As I found out the other day as well, whenever I did yard work after I had posted the first note, his overly aggressive dogs would of course agitated and start barking at the sound of the lawnmower or moving things around in my yard. Then the neighbor was trying to get back at me by claiming to the police that I was "hurting" his dogs and that's why they were barking. I wasn't hurting the dogs; they'd bark at anything that moves. Eventually, the police called up my house because of his constant nagging and the officer made reference to how the neighbor said I better not leave a note again on his property and that to let me know that if anything happens to any of those dogs, then I would be held responsible for it. He then said that using products like Super Bark Stop is illegal..which is nonsense. I didn't speak to the cop...someone else here at my home did. She said the police officer who called was very intimidating and threatening saying over and over..."nothing better not happen to those dogs....if it does, we'll know exactly who it was" When I heard about this, I was really ticked off. The person who I live with here went over to my neighbors' house and had a conversation with them. When the neighbor was asked to move his dogs over to the other side of his yard since he knew it was creating a nuisance, the neighbor responded, "why should I? There's barking dogs all over the place in this subdivision." As far as I'm concerned, if the neighbor was really so damned worried about the welfare of his dogs as he claimed to the cops, why didn't he move them away? At this point, I had enough of it. I contacted the police station and spoke to a dispather but she told me that she really didn't know much about this as she was working the night shift. The officer who called my home did so during the day. I told her to make a note that I would be sending a written complaint (as well as a copy through email) to the department about the neighbor and his dogs. I also called up on Saturday night to the police station and complained that the neighbors dogs were barking incessantly again, and that they would receive a more detailed written complaint by early this week. It's a really small town so I know they'll get it and someone will read it. In my written complaint, I made clear that, in my opinion, the dog owners neglected their dogs and didn't give them enough attention and love, and that is the reason why they are nuisance barking like that day after day, night after night. I also made clear that I would stop using bark stop, but I added that it can be found at some pet stores and is not illegal as claimed by the officer. I also requested that they investigate the neighbor since he is running a kennel off this property...which is a violation of the rules of the subdivision. He is also keeping a horse on his lot..another violation. Thought I'd throw that one in too. I also requested that this neighbor be informed that if he ever threatens or harasses me or tries to conversate with me, I will press charges and take him to court. I want nothing to do with him whatsoever. So far, it very quiet outside...so quiet that it's eery. It looks like the cops saw my written complaint about the neighbor and confronted him. In the last two days, I have not heard a dog bark..not once. I'm sure that because I have now sicked the cops on him, that he may find another way to get back at me and it may escalate even further. I really hope not because all I want is some peace and quiet. Out of curiousity, what would be the next best step in dealing with this situation? Do you think things are so far gone that there will be nothing but more trouble to look forward to from this neighbor? And what mistakes have I made so far? It seems that maybe purchasing these barker breaker products was a mistake and only created more of a problem. |
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Well....hard to judge as we aren't in your shoes.
Where I live, our neighbours are great. I probably wouldn't have bought anything to deter the dogs. I might have tried the nice letter writing and if that didn't work, I would have hit them in the pocket books. Reporting them for their violations. Your next step is to ignore and carry on with your life. If he violates any more bylaws, report him. This makes me realize how fortunate we are to live where we do. We are invited to the neighbours party in a couple of weeks. They are new to the area and want to meet us all. They also want a loud party and by inviting the neighbours...makes it all OK...LOL Good Luck -- Carol J Cocker Spaniel Rescue of BC www.csrbc.org wrote in message ups.com... Hi, Some months ago I made a post here where I asked for suggestions in dealing with my inconsiderate neighbor and his barking dogs. As I mentioned in that post a while back, the neighbor has a 3/4 acre lot with several large guard dogs. As a matter of fact, I believe that he is running a dog kennel out off of his property (in violation of the homeowner rules) because of all the barking I've heard coming from there. I've counted at least 6 dogs on his property, and that's not including the other dogs that he has on the other side of his lot that I can't see. Not only that, but these dogs were very, very aggressive and vicious. Whenever I'd go outside, these dogs would charge up to the fence.. growling and barking up a storm. Always and for years they kept doing that. That really got on my nerves. The dogs would bark incessantly - especially at night. It seemed to me that the reason why the dogs were barking like that was because they were being neglected or not being fed properly. These neighbors were never particularly friendly throughout the years and were at times hostile for no reason (they had a hermit mentality) so I saw no reason to have a conversation with these people. Because I expected nothing to come of it. I had yelled out a few times, "quiet down your dogs", which I know that these people heard. I wanted to give them the idea that they were causing a nuisance, but that didn't seem to get them to understand how much of a problem they were creating. For a while it became very frustrating. It was hard to follow what was happening on the tv (the dogs barking would drown it out) and it irritated me while playing piano. The person who I live with here asked me, begged me, not to report the neighbors to the police because I was told that it would cause more problems. SO I asked for advice on this group and it was recommended to me to use a product such as "Good Neighbor Barker Breaker", Well, I did use this product, but it seemed that this only made problems worse. Much, much worse. It did quiet the dogs down because the device would emit a corrective tone for each bark picked up on the microphone, but it made the neighbors very indignant and angry towards me. The person who I live with at this place told me that the neighbors were overheard grumbling about the Good Neighbor Barker Breaker and were saying that I was trying to hurt their dogs. The neighbors also mentioned, as overheard by the person I live with, that they were going to call the police on me. It still did not dawn on these neighbors that if they only were more considerate of people who live around them, took care of their dogs right, and kept the barking at a minimum, there would be no rationale for using a product like Good Neighbor Barker Breaker. But to appease the one I live with here, I decided to put away Good Neighbor Barker Breaker and buy something that is much more quiet and makes almost no noise heard to hums.... an ultrasonic super bark stop. To be honest, I became defiant upon hearing that the neighbors were heard saying amongst themselves that they would report me, and my thinking was, "let them report me as that will give me a chance to show the police how these people neglect their dogs and are creating a nuisance they won't control." Then, I noticed one day that *someone* had tampered with the new ultrasonic super bark stop device I set up. I checked out the evidence and it was obvious that the neighbor used something through the fence to knock it over. When I saw that he touched my property in an attempt to damage it, I became pretty upset. I decided that at this point, I would post a note on the neighbors gate letting him know that he needs to keep his barking dogs quiet. I tacked a note on his front gate very late at night. I was polite as I could be and was not threatening. I was trying to be a peacemaker. I just let him know that it needs to stop with his dogs. I didn't even threaten to go to the police or animal control. I tried to offer an olive branch. Then I found out that the neighbor reported me to the police for leaving the note. The thing about it was, even the police did not find it threatening and wouldn't confront me about it. They advised the neighbor to "play it cool" and to keep his dogs quiet. I also found out that the neighbor was trying to make it sound even more ominous to the police by saying that he believed I would try to poison all of his dogs. For a while after I posted the first note, it seemed that the neighbor was making an effort to take better care of his dogs and keep them quiet. But I did not know that he had reported me to the police for leaving that note. I only found out the other day. I had just thought, "I guess the neighbor took my olive branch..maybe they aren't so bad"....boy, was I wrong. As I found out the other day as well, whenever I did yard work after I had posted the first note, his overly aggressive dogs would of course agitated and start barking at the sound of the lawnmower or moving things around in my yard. Then the neighbor was trying to get back at me by claiming to the police that I was "hurting" his dogs and that's why they were barking. I wasn't hurting the dogs; they'd bark at anything that moves. Eventually, the police called up my house because of his constant nagging and the officer made reference to how the neighbor said I better not leave a note again on his property and that to let me know that if anything happens to any of those dogs, then I would be held responsible for it. He then said that using products like Super Bark Stop is illegal..which is nonsense. I didn't speak to the cop...someone else here at my home did. She said the police officer who called was very intimidating and threatening saying over and over..."nothing better not happen to those dogs....if it does, we'll know exactly who it was" When I heard about this, I was really ticked off. The person who I live with here went over to my neighbors' house and had a conversation with them. When the neighbor was asked to move his dogs over to the other side of his yard since he knew it was creating a nuisance, the neighbor responded, "why should I? There's barking dogs all over the place in this subdivision." As far as I'm concerned, if the neighbor was really so damned worried about the welfare of his dogs as he claimed to the cops, why didn't he move them away? At this point, I had enough of it. I contacted the police station and spoke to a dispather but she told me that she really didn't know much about this as she was working the night shift. The officer who called my home did so during the day. I told her to make a note that I would be sending a written complaint (as well as a copy through email) to the department about the neighbor and his dogs. I also called up on Saturday night to the police station and complained that the neighbors dogs were barking incessantly again, and that they would receive a more detailed written complaint by early this week. It's a really small town so I know they'll get it and someone will read it. In my written complaint, I made clear that, in my opinion, the dog owners neglected their dogs and didn't give them enough attention and love, and that is the reason why they are nuisance barking like that day after day, night after night. I also made clear that I would stop using bark stop, but I added that it can be found at some pet stores and is not illegal as claimed by the officer. I also requested that they investigate the neighbor since he is running a kennel off this property...which is a violation of the rules of the subdivision. He is also keeping a horse on his lot..another violation. Thought I'd throw that one in too. I also requested that this neighbor be informed that if he ever threatens or harasses me or tries to conversate with me, I will press charges and take him to court. I want nothing to do with him whatsoever. So far, it very quiet outside...so quiet that it's eery. It looks like the cops saw my written complaint about the neighbor and confronted him. In the last two days, I have not heard a dog bark..not once. I'm sure that because I have now sicked the cops on him, that he may find another way to get back at me and it may escalate even further. I really hope not because all I want is some peace and quiet. Out of curiousity, what would be the next best step in dealing with this situation? Do you think things are so far gone that there will be nothing but more trouble to look forward to from this neighbor? And what mistakes have I made so far? It seems that maybe purchasing these barker breaker products was a mistake and only created more of a problem. |
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wrote: It was hard to follow what was happening on the tv (the dogs barking would drown it out) and it irritated me while playing piano. PERHAPS if you opened your window and played the dogs some NICE S-HOWENDS they'd RELAXXX and listen to it? Indeed, my two dogs love to listen to music. Having melodious calm music played to them is a sure way to keep them calm and relaxed. I suspect that they even have some favorite tunes they particularly like, judging by the way they come from the other room when they hear them. The cats also come when the dogs are here, but I'm not sure if they do so for the sake of the music or for the sake of the dogs. :-) Lucy |
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