"Phyrie" wrote in
:

This is really a control issue, and he needs to find a different
way to assert himself without using food as a weapon.

If his wife goes around doing things like literally yanking on his
balls, then is it any wonder that he might need to resort to passive
aggressive measures to exert some, um, tiny amount of control?

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