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"mike d." wrote in message ... I adopted my dog, who was deemed"vicious" and five years later, he has been the best dog I ever had. Mike. My adult dog Gracie came to us with extreme separation anxiety, resulting in significant damage to ones home. Happy to report she can be left free in the house all day long without one bit of damage to anything, nor any *accidents*. She's a great girl as is her brother, Merlin, aka *Big Boy*. As an aside, the new screen porch is intact, and we are able to leave the door open while we are gone, to let the dogs have free fun of the porch and house. They enjoy being able to relax on the porch while we are out. We find their chew bones out there when we arrive back home. ![]() td |
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To be fair, the shelter only had her for two days before we adopted her.
I am assuming that the previous owners who took her in may not have been honest with the shelter. I cannot imagine that the shelter would outright lie. Dakota's behavioral problems did not include aggressiveness, she is actually a very sweet, happy dog. But I don't think anybody made any effort to train her, and you get a 7 month old dog full of energy and a good size, with no training, and try to move them into your house, you get total anarchy, LOL! She was however, a bully toward our other dog. She's jealous and doesn't want to share us. Our other dog is older and not accustomed to standing up for herself. She's had a long, peaceful life with us until Dakota butted in. I haven't written all the articles about her yet to go into some of the other issues we've had with her, and there have been many. It's on the list. As the lady in the store said: She's a handful! Shari As a shelter employee, I wonder what the behavioral problems were. Do you think the shelter should have known about the problems and/or should have warned you? If they knew, they should have warned you. If the problems could potentially involve violence, the dog shouldn't have been offered for adoption. -- Humorous t-shirts http://www.villagetshirts.com Macintosh and Windows shareware games http://www.gypsyware.com |
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They have good moments and bad ones. If they are about to get a treat,
they are both model citizens, sitting side by side with wagging tails. Outdoors, as long as Dakota has the evil collar on, they actually play together. I have to keep a watch though because Gypsy Rose gets tired and wants to stop and Dakota will keep on, so I have to send the BLEEP sound to warn her to back off. Indoors goes both ways. Sometimes they get along really well, sometimes Dakota just goes into bully mode and picks on Gypsy Rose and I have to intervene. When Dakota is hungry (just before meals) she gets edgy. If she hasn't had enough exercise she gets edgy toward Gypsy Rose. Yet if we put them both in the kennel together they are fine, every time. It's weird. We have a kennel in the garage and if we are working in the yard out front, we put them in the kennel so they can be out with us. In the backyard it's fenced, so they just run loose. Wherever we are, they usually are, too. Dakota especially, I keep her close to me most of the time, though I no longer have to keep such a close eye on her. She's really progressed a lot. Shari I haven't read the entire thing yet, so if you mention this, tell me - but I was wondering, how are Gypsy and Dakota are getting along now, after their initial problems? -- Humorous t-shirts http://www.villagetshirts.com Macintosh and Windows shareware games http://www.gypsyware.com |
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Michael,
I cannot imagine how hard it is to work in a shelter. I don't think I could do it. Watching so many dogs come in and not so many find homes. How do you handle it? Shari Thank for adopting a shelter dog, and for remaining committed, in the face of adversity. As a shelter employee... Sadly, many of my coworkers don't even notice problems. Some of us detect problems that others miss; simply because we spend more time in contact with the dogs. I clean kennels, and see who is timid, who tends to be resource aggressive, who doesn't like to be touched in a certain way or place, and so forth. However, I don't always know who fights the leash or chases cars and so forth. -- Humorous t-shirts http://www.villagetshirts.com Macintosh and Windows shareware games http://www.gypsyware.com |
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On Sat, 31 May 2008 00:42:01 -0400, Shari wrote:
Michael, I cannot imagine how hard it is to work in a shelter. I don't think I could do it. Watching so many dogs come in and not so many find homes. How do you handle it? It is an impossible job, for some people; and I understand that. Personally, I have to make myself stay away, on my two off days. Mostly, I just need to avoid some of my coworkers for a couple of days. I work for 4.5 hours cleaning and preparing for the public. When I clock out, I do volunteer work, if there are any very frightened and/or disheveled dogs. A dog that can't be petted, can't get adopted--or even offered for adoption. Dogs with messed up coats don't even get looked at. Working with such dogs requires establishing trust ASAP, and knowing a few grooming tricks. I love correcting those problems, and have a fair amount of success! Seeing one of those dogs get adopted gives me a wonderful feeling! Seeing one of them die hurts, but I usually realize I've done everything I could do. At our shelter, work as a kennel attendant involves contact with a lot of filth, deafening noise and a lot of paws and claws, all sorts of weather, and it stinks! Obviously, I enjoy it. "You can't save them all." Realizing that fact needs to be one of the first things you achieve: the sooner, the better. Once you achieve that, most days go pretty well. Many shelter employees walk through the kennels and make mental notes about who will get adopted and who will die. Sometimes, dogs that seem hopeless get adopted; and wonderful dogs sometimes die. Occasionally, a euthanasia tech will come for a dog that I consider fabulous. Getting caught off guard like that really hurts, but I never make their task harder, by questioning the decision. [Sometimes, its a dog they love, too.] Sometimes, it takes a day or two to move on, emotionally, and I wonder if there is a long-term, cumulative effect. The shelter here serves a human population of about 150,000. We take in an average of 80 dogs per week [+ cats] and have a kill rate above 50%. For me, that means there will be about 15 new dogs today, and one or more of them will need what I provide. They don't know it, but I need them, too! They help me forget the dogs that didn't make it out alive. Shelters differ greatly, in every way, but they all have dogs that need love and attention. If you have some time, aren't afraid of getting dirty, and call afford a few simple tools, you can make a world of difference for some very deserving dogs. _______________________ When I die, I want to go where dogs go! |
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Michael A. Ball wrote: The shelter here serves a human population of about 150,000. We take in an average of 80 dogs per week [+ cats] and have a kill rate above 50%. For me, that means there will be about 15 new dogs today, and one or more of them will need what I provide. They don't know it, but I need them, too! They help me forget the dogs that didn't make it out alive. How long do they have to find homes before they are taken off by the euth tech? Dakota came from a no-kill shelter but Gypsy Rose came from a regular county shelter and had been there for a week when I adopted her. I've often thought she must have been very close to that euth tech... and she was (and still is) the most incredible dog. I never understood why two different families got rid of her. She was amazing, somebody had spent a LOT of time training her. Her paperwork had the phone number of her last owner, and I called them to learn about her. They were very helpful in telling me everything they knew, and how they came to have her, and why they got rid of her. I still cry when I think of how close she must have been... seriously, even at this moment I tear up. I've had her for over 10 years. I will cry more for a animal than most humans. Animals are so innocent. They are so totally at our mercy and we let them down, and when they die it's usually the fault of a human. Thank you for sharing about your job. You must love them a lot. How often do adult dogs get adopted? Do most people go for the puppies or do you get a fair amount of folks adopting dogs 6 months and older? Shari -- Humorous t-shirts http://www.villagetshirts.com Macintosh and Windows shareware games http://www.gypsyware.com |
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On Mon, 02 Jun 2008 10:57:58 -0400, Shari wrote:
How long do they have to find homes before they are taken off by the euth tech? Dakota came from a no-kill shelter but Gypsy Rose came from a regular county shelter and had been there for a week when I adopted her... Animals are so innocent. They are so totally at our mercy and we let them down, and when they die it's usually the fault of a human. ... How often do adult dogs get adopted? Do most people go for the puppies or do you get a fair amount of folks adopting dogs 6 months and older? There are about 90 runs/cages. Whatever it takes, the shelter starts each day with 20 empty runs/cages. There are very few weekdays without euthanasia. Sometimes, adoptable dogs have to go into an isolated area, because 20 empty runs/cages weren't enough that day. A dog gets to stay until it gets sick or the shelter runs out of space. Dakota and Gypsy Rose are two fortunate dogs. I am so happy you've loved them so much. I often feel fortunate because of the dogs I meet. A 4.5 year-old female Great Pyrenees, Nea, was turned in by her owner this morning, because he no longer has time for her. I can tell by her behavior that she has been very mistreated. She ducks, when my hand gets near her head, and she watches my hands to see if I'm about to hit her. She is free of burs, but is very dirty. Her collar had begun to grow into her neck. I'll be giving her a bath tomorrow, if I have the energy after work. Tomorrow is going to be a very hard day. A pit bull, Popi, is going to be killed. His only fault is being terrified, after being chained outside with no food, water or shelter. I got to touch him, with a finger tip, for the first time today. I could probably pet him, in another day or two. That doesn't sound like much, until you know he had to be handled with a control stick. He is not actually vicious: merely insecure. So, I agree, animals are so innocent. Not all puppies get adopted, of course, but the demand for puppies is far greater than for adult dogs. Many of the ~40% adopted dogs are adults. Sometimes a dog gets adopted because it looks like someone's previous dog; sometimes because it is already fixed and therefore cost only $20. Otherwise, a dog has to have something really noteworthy going for it. The breed with the least potential for adoption seems to be the Chow Chow, my favorite breed. Most Chow Chow mixed puppies get shunned; all because of the erroneous bad reputation Chow Chows have. Like most breeds, Chow Chows are whatever their owner makes of them, or fails to make of them. Well, enough rambling. ________________________ Every dog is an individual, as is their guardian: no single training method works for all. |
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On May 29, 8:03*am, Shari wrote:
We adopted Dakota, a 7 month old dog pound special. *She'd been bounced from home to home and had major behavioral problems (which we didn't know about until after we adopted her). *But by then we were committed to her. *We've had her now for almost a year and am sharing our journey in retraining her. *Hopefully some of the seeds of knowledge will help others. Training a problem doghttp://www.allfreespot.com/art/problemdog.shtml Potty training an adult doghttp://www.allfreespot.com/art/pottytraining.shtml One of these days I'll share more of her journey. *Dakota has made amazing progress, not always easy progress but she has come so far in her journey. *She brings us a lot of joy. In the beginning, joy is not the word I would have used... LOL! Shari -- *Humorous t-shirts *http://www.villagetshirts.com *Macintosh and Windows shareware games *http://www.gypsyware.com So glad she is coming along, I love to here good stories of people working with their dogs. Jan http://www.thefineartcafe.com |
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FurPaw wrote:
Shari wrote: Training a problem dog http://www.allfreespot.com/art/problemdog.shtml Potty training an adult dog http://www.allfreespot.com/art/pottytraining.shtml One of these days I'll share more of her journey. Dakota has made amazing progress, not always easy progress but she has come so far in her journey. She brings us a lot of joy. In the beginning, joy is not the word I would have used... LOL! I'm really enjoying your blog - it's informative and well written. I've never had a yo-yo dog with Dakota's problems, and I applaud your patience and willingness to stick with her. I hope that you - and she - will be well rewarded for your efforts. We won't be getting another dog until Oppie leaves us (he has a health issue that precludes that), but I expect that our next dog(s) will be adult, so I'm following this with great interest. A health issue that precludes Oppie leaving? Usually they cause them to leave too soon. snip |
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