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"Jim Manson" wrote in message ... Hi, I am thinking about taking in a rescue, a 5 year old American Eskimo that was severely neglected by his prior owner. The dog is currently in a foster home. As far as is known the dog was in a stall in a barn for it's entire life with little or no contact with people or other animals outside of being fed. I have experience in rescues and have dealt with an abused Klee Kai successfully. The problem is that the Eskie almost seems to be, for want of a better term, autistic. He is not aggressive at all or fearful. He sometimes tracks eye contact but usually not, unless you get right in his line of sight even then it's just in passing. From what I gather he has improved in foster care over the past three months but is still very distant from everyone. He doesn't seek out affection or contact but doesn't react or struggle if picked up or petted according to the foster mother. He just seems oblivious to contact although he is alert and pays attention to everything around him. He pretty much ignores other dogs, other then to growl if they get too insistent. He doesn't lick, roll over, cringe or react much at all to people close to him. He will come if you hold out a treat but that is a recent development according to the foster mother. Originally he didn't know what a treat was or that people gave them. He doesn't sniff the ground or check scents anywhere including sniffing other dogs. He isn't housebroken although he is trained to use puppy pads. If there is long grass around he likes to sit in it and look around but doesn't seem bothered if someone walks up to him to interact. He seems unaturally calm at all times, it's almost eerie. I would like to know if anyone has experience in dealing with a dog like this. I am trying to get an idea of what can be done, or what cannot be done as the case may be. Any ideas or information would be appreciated. I don't have a lot of experience with dogs, but my dog Muttley is rather aloof and independent, as this dog seems to be. He was rescued from the streets of Baltimore where he was running wild, and I would surmise that he may have been abused and neglected in early life. I think he learned to be somewhat distrusting of people, but not aggressive, and those qualities may have helped him survive. He is not naturally playful or solicitous of attention except when he needs to go out or hears something that he wants to warn me about. He is protective, watchful, and strong-willed. I did some research on Anatolian Shepherd dogs, many of which have similar body shape and color compared to Muttley, and their traits are also similar to his, and maybe somewhat as you describe with the dog you are considering. I mentioned Muttley's behavior to a friend who at one time owned a wolf hybrid, Cheyenne, and he laughed when I mentioned that Muttley didn't seem interested in playing fetch or chasing a ball. He said that sounded like Cheyenne. Muttley has improved a lot with socialization, but he still prefers to do his own "dog things" and will mostly ignore other people and dogs when we go on walks, once he has "checked them out". When I took him camping in a KOA Kabin with three other people, he went to each of them as they were going to sleep, as if checking up on them, and then got in bed with me to spend the night. He fits the profile of a "guardian" type dog. The dog you are considering sounds like he has a lot of potential to be a loyal pet, and will probably respond well to consistent love and gentle training. He may never become a playful, outgoing dog that will interact a lot or demand much attention, but there is probably no way of knowing. I'm just going by my own limited experience. I did also have another rescue dog, Lucky, who was a very sweet female Rottie mix, and she was initially very shy and skittish when touched, but she became more outgoing and playful as she learned to trust people. I think she was the one that initiated play with Muttley, and he was not amused. She was much more needy for attention, and I loved her dearly, but in her best interests I surrendered her for adoption, and she was placed in a home within a week. I hope you take the challenge and give this dog a good home. I'd like to hear about your progress as you work with him. It is amazing how resilient dogs can be, and I think they really appreciate it when they are rescued from neglect and abuse into a good forever home. Paul and Muttley www.smart.net/~pstech/Muttley www.smart.net/~pstech/Lucky |
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Paul E. Schoen wrote: I don't have a lot of experience with dogs, but my dog Muttley is rather aloof and independent, as this dog seems to be. Paul, when you give advice about something you know absolutely nothing about you risk encouraging someone to mishandle a situation and possibly hurt the dog. The original poster doesn't know that you've only ever had one dog and absolutely no training or dog behavior experience. Show some self-control and for once pass up turning someone's serious question into an opportunity to talk about yourself. Shame on you. -- Melinda Shore - Software longa, hardware brevis - Prouder than ever to be a member of the reality-based community |
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"Melinda Shore" wrote in message ... In article , Paul E. Schoen wrote: I don't have a lot of experience with dogs, but my dog Muttley is rather aloof and independent, as this dog seems to be. Paul, when you give advice about something you know absolutely nothing about you risk encouraging someone to mishandle a situation and possibly hurt the dog. The original poster doesn't know that you've only ever had one dog and absolutely no training or dog behavior experience. Show some self-control and for once pass up turning someone's serious question into an opportunity to talk about yourself. Shame on you. I am sharing my experiences and I have prefaced my remarks with the fact that I don't have a lot of experience. So what is your problem, a pathological urge to criticize and pass judgment? I may have had only one long-term dog of my own, but I've known quite a few. You have probably only ever had one good thing to say in your whole life. And you likely regretted that... Shame on you, right back atcha! Paul and Muttley |
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Paul E. Schoen wrote: I am sharing my experiences [ ... ] Paul, there's no reason whatsoever to think that Muttley's problems have anything to do with what's going on with the Eskie. You don't have either the experience or the expertise to have even the wildest hope of recognizing parallels and differences. A new poster has no way of knowing that you're bone-ignorant about dogs. It would cost you absolutely nothing to keep your trap shut and it would demonstrate a little maturity and self-control on your part, and I expect that's what the problem is. -- Melinda Shore - Software longa, hardware brevis - Prouder than ever to be a member of the reality-based community |
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On Jul 22, 1:48*am, "Paul E. Schoen" wrote:
I don't have a lot of experience with dogs, Then why try and give advice regarding dogs. Also, your dogs were not "rescue" dogs when you got them. They were strays. Lucky became a rescue when you surrendered your right to her with a rescue group. Nothing you do with dogs is rescue, which is an important distinction for people who actually work in rescue. My second dog that I just lost recently was a stray, I then fostered her for a very short time through an actual rescue group that I have worked with in the past. When she and Yoda were getting along perfectly I decided to adopt her myself. At that point she was an adopted rescue dog who was found as a stray. Semantics matter, good rescue groups have enough trouble overcoming stereotypes and wrongly propagated beliefs resulting from some bad apples out their without you contributing to the mess. Nick |
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On Tue, 22 Jul 2008 07:36:57 -0700 (PDT),
" wrote: On Jul 22, 1:48*am, "Paul E. Schoen" wrote: I don't have a lot of experience with dogs, Then why try and give advice regarding dogs. Also, your dogs were not "rescue" dogs when you got them. They were strays. Lucky became a rescue when you surrendered your right to her with a rescue group. Nothing you do with dogs is rescue, which is an important distinction for people who actually work in rescue. My second dog that I just lost recently was a stray, I then fostered her for a very short time through an actual rescue group that I have worked with in the past. When she and Yoda were getting along perfectly I decided to adopt her myself. At that point she was an adopted rescue dog who was found as a stray. Semantics matter, good rescue groups have enough trouble overcoming stereotypes and wrongly propagated beliefs resulting from some bad apples out their without you contributing to the mess. Amen to all of the above. Nick, I don't want to cause you pain if you'd rather not discuss it, but do you and/or your vet have any idea what happened with Jezebel? Mustang Sally |
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"Paul E. Schoen" wrote in message: I don't have a lot of experience with dogs, That should be reason enough to not get involved here. This dog sounds like he has very serious issues, and is likely a 'project' dog. but my dog Muttley is rather aloof and independent, as this dog seems to be. Or not. It is more likely (especially given the breed) that this dog is in total shutdown mode, not simply aloof. Suja |
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On Jul 22, 11:11*am, sighthounds & siberians wrote:
On Tue, 22 Jul 2008 07:36:57 -0700 (PDT), " wrote: On Jul 22, 1:48*am, "Paul E. Schoen" wrote: I don't have a lot of experience with dogs, Then why try and give advice regarding dogs. Also, your dogs were not "rescue" dogs when you got them. *They were strays. *Lucky became a rescue when you surrendered your right to her with a rescue group. *Nothing you do with dogs is rescue, which is an important distinction for people who actually work in rescue. *My second dog that I just lost recently was a stray, I then fostered her for a very short time through an actual rescue group that I have worked with in the past. *When she and Yoda were getting along perfectly I decided to adopt her myself. *At that point she was an adopted rescue dog who was found as a stray. *Semantics matter, good rescue groups have enough trouble overcoming stereotypes and wrongly propagated beliefs resulting from some bad apples out their without you contributing to the mess. Amen to all of the above. Nick, I don't want to cause you pain if you'd rather not discuss it, but do you and/or your vet have any idea what happened with Jezebel? Mustang Sally We aren't really certain, at the time our two vets, my wife and I never would have thought she was going to die. After looking back though there is a neuro muscular disorder that would explain almost everything that happened at the end as well as several of her "quirks" that we didn't even realize were potentially from something underlying as we didn't have her for very long. What the disorder didn't explain could easily have been caused as a result of the symptoms of the disorder. Nothing is conclusive though, and there is no way to know for sure now. It was just a shock though because over the course of 4 days she went from an apparently healthy young dog to being in severe pain and ultimately stopping breathing. Nick |
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On Jul 22, 3:27*am, "Paul E. Schoen" wrote:
"Melinda Shore" wrote in message ... In article , Paul E. Schoen wrote: I don't have a lot of experience with dogs, but my dog Muttley is rather aloof and independent, as this dog seems to be. Paul, when you give advice about something you know absolutely nothing about you risk encouraging someone to mishandle a situation and possibly hurt the dog. *The original poster doesn't know that you've only ever had one dog and absolutely no training or dog behavior experience. Show some self-control and for once pass up turning someone's serious question into an opportunity to talk about yourself. Shame on you. I am sharing my experiences and I have prefaced my remarks with the fact that I don't have a lot of experience. So what is your problem, a pathological urge to criticize and pass judgment? I may have had only one long-term dog of my own, but I've known quite a few. You have probably only ever had one good thing to say in your whole life. And you likely regretted that... Shame on you, right back atcha! Paul and Muttley From the time Paul got Muttley, through trial & error, patience, research, love, kindness, training & care, Muttley has made miraculous improvement w/ Paul, their bond is awesome, and Muttley has turned into a very happy, well adjusted, much healtheir and better behaved less fearful (Fear-aggression) dog than he was when Paul 1st rescued him. He & Muttley have gone through alot together, (as Muttley was rescued from the streets and had been abused) He CERTAINLY has the right to share his story & advice on what worked & diddn't w/ Muttley. He is also doing a great job getting Muttley's weight down to a healthy range, and by the looks of it, should be there in the fall. ???Shocked!! She said somethiing kind once??? *Must be dreaming* (((Jim))) good for you w/the rescue!! I've done it for years, and worked once got a dog (through DDAL-who tries to stop vivisection & works on getting dogs out of labs & into caring homes) the right before I fostered (and ended up adopting) him, the lab techs 'for kicks' put headphones on him and 'blew his eardrums out'-he died, and they brought him back...this experience made him deaf. Thank God I got him, and considering what he'd been through, was so sweet-he had never known love, only torture, and did very well with sign language as training. (W/all dogs I use verbal and hand signals, though dogs seem to do better w/the hand signals.) Unfortunatly, from the years of cruel vivisecion tests and abuse, his health was very bad, and he died a year after i got him. At least he got to experience a loving home, and died in loving arms, as I cried and told him how proud I was of him, how much I loved him, as he looked at me w/his big beautiful brown eyes, and went from my arms to the rainbow bridge. I've never cried so much or seen such cruelty as when I volunteered for DDAL and worked animal vivisection rescue dogs. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I've seen some great advice & links posted here, and am praying for your success in working w/ the Eskie. Autistics need routine, patience, and you have to work w/ the things they are comfortable with, as they get stressed (go into 'overload') at new situations, routines, and too much stimuli. Progress can be slow (Autism has a wide range), but many (w/patience & time) learn to get adjusted to new things. The KEY: Safe, consistant routine's the dog is comfortable with, slowly adding more w/out stressing out the dog. WARNING: My friends took her autistic rescue dog to the vet, and on the way back stopped and got him ice cream once. Now, every time they go, if they don't stop at that exact place for Icecream & the same kind as the 1st time, he has a complete meltdown until she brings him back and gets him his 'prefered flavor, in exactly the same size container every time, and they eat at his favorite bench (all the other benches are un-acceptable) in back of the ice cream shop!! Again, Routine, Routine, Routine!! :-) Good luck, and let us know how your doing. Sparrow ~/~ & Aeriel puppy |
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Sparrow wrote: =46rom the time Paul got Muttley, through trial & error, patience, research, love, kindness, training & care, Muttley has made miraculous improvement w/ Paul, their bond is awesome, and Muttley has turned into a very happy, well adjusted, much healtheir and better behaved less fearful (Fear-aggression) dog than he was when Paul 1st rescued him. See, this is a pretty excellent example of you fabricating a story out of whole cloth. And Paul didn't "rescue" Muttley. He makes **** up, too. Be that as it may, Paul doesn't have one single clue about dogs, treating Muttley as a Rorschach blob and not knowing whether what he sees is typical, atypical, or even real. Even if Paul hadn't mishandled Muttley he still wouldn't have the experience or expertise to know how to deal with another dog's problems. -- Melinda Shore - Software longa, hardware brevis - Prouder than ever to be a member of the reality-based community |
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