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Old July 29th 08, 08:49 PM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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In article ,
tiny dancer wrote:
You are quite the liar, aren't you.


Well, I was mistaken, and if you want to characterize my
error as a "lie" I expect that says a lot more about you
than it does about me (and certainly makes it unambiguously
clear just how descriptive "tiny" is). And I'll admit when
I'm mistaken rather than do backflips trying to explain why
my mistake wasn't actually a mistake, which is your standard
operating procedure.

Read and learn: I made a mistake, and I did respond to the
original post. I apologize for the error.
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Old July 29th 08, 09:04 PM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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"Melinda Shore" wrote in message
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In article ,
tiny dancer wrote:
You are quite the liar, aren't you.


Well, I was mistaken, and if you want to characterize my
error as a "lie" I expect that says a lot more about you
than it does about me (and certainly makes it unambiguously
clear just how descriptive "tiny" is). And I'll admit when
I'm mistaken rather than do backflips trying to explain why
my mistake wasn't actually a mistake, which is your standard
operating procedure.

Read and learn: I made a mistake, and I did respond to the
original post. I apologize for the error.



Your *mistake* was a lie. Pure and simple. You made your catty response to
an innocuous post long before I even read it. So the reason you gave as to
*why* you did it *because of me* was completely made up, false, and yet
another of your attempts to continuously belittle and mock *anything* I
post. You made your snotty comment all on your own, because that's what
you do. If it makes you feel superior, important.........have at it.
Mistakes are completely different from lies. That you don't appear to know
the difference is telling.

td



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Old July 29th 08, 09:22 PM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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"tiny dancer" wrote in message
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"Melinda Shore" wrote in message
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In article ,
tiny dancer wrote:
You are quite the liar, aren't you.


Well, I was mistaken, and if you want to characterize my
error as a "lie" I expect that says a lot more about you
than it does about me (and certainly makes it unambiguously
clear just how descriptive "tiny" is). And I'll admit when
I'm mistaken rather than do backflips trying to explain why
my mistake wasn't actually a mistake, which is your standard
operating procedure.

Read and learn: I made a mistake, and I did respond to the
original post. I apologize for the error.



Your *mistake* was a lie. Pure and simple. You made your catty response
to an innocuous post long before I even read it. So the reason you gave
as to *why* you did it *because of me* was completely made up, false, and
yet another of your attempts to continuously belittle and mock *anything*
I post. You made your snotty comment all on your own, because that's
what you do. If it makes you feel superior, important.........have at
it. Mistakes are completely different from lies. That you don't appear
to know the difference is telling.


Well, an apology *was* offered, albeit with qualifications and weasel
words. I don't expect Melinda will ever apologize to me, and certainly I
seem to trigger an instant knee-jerk negative reaction with anything I post
(including, probably, this). I also admit to sometimes "pushing buttons" to
get a reaction, and maybe that's not a very nice thing to do, so I
apologize if that has offended anyone. I try to keep things positive, and
humorous, but sometimes things just get to me, and I have to get a jab in.
Melinda seems to be softening her approach a little bit, and I can
appreciate her obvious concern for Muttley's well-being, but she seems to
lack some compassion, patience, understanding, and trust when it comes to
people.

Why can't we all just get along like cats, dogs, squirrels, rabbits, birds,
and other species? Well, some of them, sometimes, anyway

Paul and Muttley


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Old July 29th 08, 09:24 PM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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In article ,
tiny dancer wrote:
Your *mistake* was a lie.


Sure, if you say so!

So the reason you gave as to
*why* you did it *because of me* was completely made up, false, and yet
another of your attempts to continuously belittle and mock *anything* I
post.


No, I honestly forgot the original post and thought we were
talking about the post where I made fun of you for
encouraging spammers and having ghastly taste.

But hey! You're never incorrect about anything, so you're
not incorrect about this! Dumbass.
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Old July 29th 08, 09:25 PM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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Paul E. Schoen wrote:
Well, an apology *was* offered, albeit with qualifications and weasel
words. I don't expect Melinda will ever apologize to me,


I have nothing to apologize to you for. The way you treat
your dog is genuinely awful.
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Old July 29th 08, 09:47 PM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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Paul E. Schoen wrote:
I also admit to sometimes "pushing buttons" to
get a reaction, and maybe that's not a very nice thing to do,


No "maybe" about it - it is not, particularly when you
deliberately repeat mischaracterizations and lies about the
person whose buttons you are trying to push. Or your latest
trick - denigrating the folks whose posts you copied to your
website without their permission, when they ask you to remove
them. That's a really snotty thing to do.

so I
apologize if that has offended anyone.


I find it offensive, and it's generally not my buttons you're
trying to push. It's pretty clear that you just enjoy stirring
the ****.

I try to keep things positive, and
humorous, but sometimes things just get to me, and I choose to get a jab in.

^^^^^^
IFYPFY

Melinda seems to be softening her approach a little bit, and I can
appreciate her obvious concern for Muttley's well-being, but she seems to
lack some compassion, patience, understanding, and trust when it comes to
people.

Why can't we all just get along like cats, dogs, squirrels, rabbits, birds,
and other species? Well, some of them, sometimes, anyway


Why is it that so often, the one who is the primary instigator of
the tempest in the teapot is the one who cries, plaintively, "Why
can't we all just get along?"

FurPaw

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Old July 30th 08, 12:54 AM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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"tiny dancer" wrote in
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Yet it was *you* who took the opportunity to belittle, demean,
mock and diss a perfectly innocuous post that *some* of us find a
pleasant distraction.


Good for you. Other people might find it a disruptive intrusion by
someone who has no actual interest in participating in this group.
Those people get to voice their opinions, too, even if they are the
polar opposite of yours.

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Old July 30th 08, 03:46 AM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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"tiny dancer" said in
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Your *mistake* was a lie. Pure and simple. You made your
catty response to an innocuous post long before I even read
it. So the reason you gave as to *why* you did it *because
of me* was completely made up, false, and yet another of
your attempts to continuously belittle and mock *anything*
I post.


We've all done it. Melinda made a mistake and owned up to it.
Normally, this goes a long way to enhancing one's credibility.

That you don't accept the apology and move on speaks to your
credibility.

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Old July 30th 08, 03:59 AM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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"Rocky" wrote in message
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"tiny dancer" said in
rec.pets.dogs.behavior:

Your *mistake* was a lie. Pure and simple. You made your
catty response to an innocuous post long before I even read
it. So the reason you gave as to *why* you did it *because
of me* was completely made up, false, and yet another of
your attempts to continuously belittle and mock *anything*
I post.


We've all done it. Melinda made a mistake and owned up to it.
Normally, this goes a long way to enhancing one's credibility.

That you don't accept the apology and move on speaks to your
credibility.



Sorry, but I disagree. If Melinda hadn't been criticizing, making fun of,
mocking, and belittling almost everything I say here, I would agree with
you, that a mistake had been made and I would have accepted an apology. In
fact, it would have been a non-issue to begin with, because I don't tend to
follow people around for the sake of sport criticism. Melinda said *I* was
the reason she belittled this poster in the first place. I pointed out she
belittled this poster long before I even read this thread. Now I don't know
about you, but it isn't my style to mock or belittle *new* posters on *any*
group I've ever posted on. My SOP is to be welcoming to anyone unless and
until they prove to be otherwise unacceptable.

ymmv,

td




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Old July 30th 08, 04:04 AM posted to rec.pets.dogs.behavior
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"tiny dancer" said in
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ymmv,


My opinion doesn't matter. You don't accept her apology.

BTDT, moved on.

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