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First of all I appreciated all the advice everyone posted.
After giving it a lot of thought we decided to adopt the dog. His name is now, officially, Bear. Nobody knows what his original name was. We have a little more information that I got from the person at the animal shelter that the police brought him to. He was taken away from his owner after a neighbor called. The owner was developmentally challenged and apparently a social worker thought it was a good idea to give him a pet " to learn to love". Unfortunately the owner had no idea of how to deal with a dog and the social worker never checked up on it. Bear was kept in a an apartment his whole life. The last two years or so he was in one room. When the shelter got him he didn't know what grass was. His pads were in such bad shape from standing in urine and feces that he was walking on his wrists. He was covered in fleas and had severe ear infections. When the foster brought him to the vet he had 16 teeth extracted. The owner would hit him with a cane when he didn't like what Bear was doing, which sounds like most of the time. He also would put him in a hot shower when he was angry with Bear. When the foster got him he was simply staring off into space and wouldn't react to anything, pretty much checked out mentally. After three months in foster he came back amazingly well considering where he started. He still has a long way to go though. Currently we have had him for little over three weeks. He is not a very social dog, for obvious reasons and spends a lot of his time frightened when people are around. When you pet him or give him treats he is extremely tentative and always watches for something to hit him. If I had to guess based on his actions he is used to being given a treat and then hit or grabbed for punishment. He also won't eat or drink if anyone is in the same room. He grabs mouthfuls of food or water and then runs. Any noise while he is at it and he bolts. My guess is that he was hit frequently while eating or drinking "you've had enough" whack. His two biggest problems are doors and leashes. The leash problem is simple, if you put the leash on and let him drag it around he's fine but if you pick up the end he flattens out and literally digs his claws into the ground. I've never seen anything like it. Again my guess is that he was dragged by the owner in order to get him close enough to punish. Apparently it was used while he was in the apartment. The door problem is simple too. He won't go through one. We have steps leading up to the door of our house. He will come up the steps if the door is closed but if he hears any noises or the door moves at all he runs. If the door is open he won't come up the steps for anything, including raw meat.The odd thing is that he stands at the bottom of the steps watching the door and obviously wanting to come inside. I've tried leaving the door open for extended periods but he won't do it. After a while he gets more agitated and turns circles, but still won't come in. I have no idea of what happened other than he may have been slammed with a door a lot. Obviously this presents problems for house breaking. Actually he's very good about using a puppy pad inside. When the foster got him he would simply eliminate in his bed and lie in it. She got the puppy pads and he would eliminate on the pads then lie on the pads. She got him to use the pads and then not lie on them, which was a definite plus. He turns in small circles when he gets ready to go so we can pick him up and put him outside if we notice in time. If we do that he will eliminate outside with no problem. We have a fenced in yard and he loves it out there. He doesn't come when called, which doesn't surprise me. If I go out and sit down on the steps he will run towards me across the yard but when he gets within about 4 feet or so he pulls a u-turn and goes back. He's obviously feeling conflicting impulses. He runs initially but will eventually wait to picked up and brought back in. When he's picked up he freezes and goes rigid. If I hold him and pet him for a while he relaxes some but stiffens up again if he hears loud noises or gets startled. Luckily there have been no signs of aggression, if anything the exact opposite. The strange thing is that he doesn't bark at all but sometimes when he's asleep he will bark a couple of times or snarl very loudly. When that happens he wakes himself up and looks alarmed. He's actually made improvements in the last three weeks. He is making more eye contact and not cringing quite as much. We are working with him and we have contacted a vet that specializes in behavioral issues and scheduled an at home consultation. Hopefully that will give us some definite methods to deal with his anxiety issues. Given all of the unknowns as to what he experienced it's tough to tell what will help and what may make things worse. Anyway, long post but I thought I would let people know what happened. Thanks, -Jim |
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Jim Manson wrote: I forgot to mention that he is physically in great shape now and extremely cute. He's a miniature and weighs about 16 pounds. Jim - I look forward to reading progress reports. You've take on a big task and I know that isn't easy. Some of the things you report are pretty promising. I hope he learns to trust. -- Janet Boss www.bestfriendsdogobedience.com |
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Jim Manson wrote: He's actually made improvements in the last three weeks. He is making more eye contact and not cringing quite as much. We are working with him and we have contacted a vet that specializes in behavioral issues and scheduled an at home consultation. Hopefully that will give us some definite methods to deal with his anxiety issues. Given all of the unknowns as to what he experienced it's tough to tell what will help and what may make things worse. Wow, I feel so sorry for the little guy. I think you've got your work cut out for you, but it sounds like there is some progress already. My dog Toby was in nowhere near as bad shape, but he was not ready to trust or to bond when we got him...when he finally started to realize he was home and to act that way, and especially the first time he wagged his tail like a normal dog, it made everything worth it. When Bear gets to that point you are going to feel that in spades, I think. Good luck, and keep us posted! -- Kevin Michael Vail | Dogbert: That's circular reasoning. | Dilbert: I prefer to think of it as no loose ends. |
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Jim Manson wrote:
Anyway, long post but I thought I would let people know what happened. Wow, Jim, you must have a heart as big as a house to take in this poor little guy. What an awful time Bear has been through! I know it will be a long road to develop his trust, and you are headed in that direction. Keep us posted on your and his progress. FurPaw -- The plural of anecdote is not proof. To reply, unleash the dog. |
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"Jim Manson" wrote in message ... First of all I appreciated all the advice everyone posted. After giving it a lot of thought we decided to adopt the dog. His name is now, officially, Bear. Nobody knows what his original name was. (snip) Bear doesn't know it yet, but he's going to find out what being a happy, secure, well-loved dog is all about. And you appear to have the insight and patience to show him. I think you're going to win this one. Karla |
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"Jim Manson" wrote in message ... I forgot to mention that he is physically in great shape now and extremely cute. He's a miniature and weighs about 16 pounds. I am happy that things seem to be working out, although I'm sure it will take some time, patience, and lots of love, as you seem to be providing. It is especially sad that someone bullied such a small dog, and it is hard to fathom why a social worker would recommend such a pet and not follow up. Please post some pictures when you get a chance. Good luck! Paul and Muttley |
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On 2008-08-25 18:51:34 -0400, Jim Manson said:
Anyway, long post but I thought I would let people know what happened. Please post often about your journey with Bear. I hope he continues to make good progress. |
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Jim Manson said in rec.pets.dogs.behavior:
I forgot to mention that he is physically in great shape now and extremely cute. He's a miniature and weighs about 16 pounds. Chip away at his issues - you've taken on a very commendable project. As you've realised, the key training method at this point is patience. Fairly important and something I didn't see in your original post: How does he get along with other dogs? -- --Matt. Rocky's a Dog. |
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Jim Manson wrote:
BIG snip Anyway, long post but I thought I would let people know what happened. Good on you for taking Bear (and his baggage). I hope Bear continues to make steady improvement, and that any permanent quirks are ones you can easily manage. -- Mary & the depleted Ames National Zoo (Ranger, Duke, Rhia-cat) |
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