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A) Would you allow him to keep doing what he loves to do, although it will
likely cause his health to suffer and possibly shorten his lifespan (he's 10 or 11 years old now? B) *Keep him indoors and warm since that's what's good for him although he is clearly unhappy with it? Honestly, at his age it would be ALL about the Happy for me. Seconded. More time with a miserable dog doesn't gain you much. --Glenn Lyford |
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Tara Green wrote: Honestly, at his age it would be ALL about the Happy for me. Yeah, me too. (Dealing with a similar situation with Image). I know this is controversial, but do you shave him down in the summer? I probably would do that as well. I don't know about that, though. I'd shave his belly, not the rest. -- Melinda Shore - Software longa, hardware brevis - Prouder than ever to be a member of the reality-based community |
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Melinda Shore wrote:
In article , Tara Green wrote: Honestly, at his age it would be ALL about the Happy for me. Yeah, me too. (Dealing with a similar situation with Image). I know this is controversial, but do you shave him down in the summer? I probably would do that as well. I don't know about that, though. I'd shave his belly, not the rest. If there were truly an effective way to only get rid of the undercoat and have just the guard hairs for shade, I would be ALL for doing that. But otherwise, it is a LOT of heat to keep in when there's also a lot of heat to keep out. The insulation of a nice gauze keeps me cooler in summer, but that of a nice sweater...not so much (whether or not I had my pants on!). I've never truly bought into the Insular properties of the really thick coats when it comes to hot weather. I've seen too many dogs get real relief from the heat when their fur is cut short (not shaved completely, just shaved short) |
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Tara Green wrote:
Honestly, at his age it would be ALL about the Happy for me. Well, I don't know about "at his age", but when the best possible outcome is merely mitigating the symptoms (not a "cure"), and mitigating makes him miserable, I'm in the "all about the Happy". I'm sorry Khan is sliding into geezerdom so abruptly, and even more sorry that it presents such difficult decisions/challenges to Suja. -- Mary H. and the restored Ames National Zoo: The Right Reverand Sir Edgar "Lucky" Pan-Waffles; U-CD ANZ Babylon Ranger, CD, RE; ANZ Pas de Duke, RN; and rotund Rhia |
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"Mary Healey" wrote in message: I'm sorry Khan is sliding into geezerdom so abruptly, and even more sorry that it presents such difficult decisions/challenges to Suja. It's tough. I haven't been here before. Khan's the same as he's ever been, except for the inability to get into the car and the falling down on the stairs. If anything, a little more sassy and demanding. If you didn't see him in those specific circumstances, you'd never know that there is a problem. Suja |
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: "Mary Healey" wrote in message: I'm sorry Khan is sliding into geezerdom so abruptly, and even more sorry that it presents such difficult decisions/challenges to Suja. It's tough. I haven't been here before. Khan's the same as he's ever been, except for the inability to get into the car and the falling down on the stairs. If anything, a little more sassy and demanding. If you didn't see him in those specific circumstances, you'd never know that there is a problem. Suja Geezerdom makes them ever more loved, treasured, and appreciated. Something very endearing (but scary) when you watch the old man toddle around |
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"Nessa" wrote in message ... On May 4, 2:12 pm, "Suja" wrote: Anyhow, we have a dilemma. Khan hates warm weather. But, I've noticed that he does better, mobility wise, when it is warmer. He wants to sit outside when it is cool and in the unfinished basement when it is hot outside. Both are likely not good for his arthritis, and will likely contribute to his hip issues. So, A) Would you allow him to keep doing what he loves to do, although it will likely cause his health to suffer and possibly shorten his lifespan (he's 10 or 11 years old now? B) Keep him indoors and warm since that's what's good for him although he is clearly unhappy with it? Suja what about insulated pants for his hips??? ================================================== =================== I have a friend who makes and sells diving equipment, and one of his products is a battery powered heating pad that is used inside a wetsuit. It is a simple, flexible rubber heater that could be put into a cloth bag and used as a spot heater, as a heating pad can be used for muscle spasms and pain relief. It uses rather heavy rechargeable batteries which are not a problem underwater but might not be suitable for a dog to carry especially if there is a problem wearing a backpack. But it would be possible to add an umbilical cord, and it is rather safe because it uses 6 or 12 VDC. You could even connect it to a low voltage lawn light system so a battery would not be needed. His website is http://www.patcoinc.com/. Tell him you heard from me, and maybe he can help you, if you are willing to think "outside the box". He is also an inventor, as I am, and it takes some imagination and free thinking to come up with advanced technology. I definitely vote for quality of life over quantity. Help him enjoy the time he has left, rather than lengthen his time by reducing his happiness. Paul and Muttley |
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Suja wrote:
"Tara Green" wrote in message: Suggestions? He's on K9 Liquid Gold and fish oil (Aunt Jeni with Vit E). What's in Liquid Gold? I'm using a combination for Viva (11 1/2, spondylosis) which has been working so well that I'm actually bringing her out of retirement to try to get her RE. I'd given both things separately but the two together seem to really work wonders. With the caveat of YMMV, etc., I'm giving a combination of Connectin and DogGonePain. I get both at KV Vet (http://www.kvvet.com). We went from very slow/no sits and unable to back up to happy faster sits, backing up, doing stairs without complaint, etc. But I too am all about the happy. If this combination has long-term side effects I honestly don't care... |
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Suja wrote:
I'm sorry Khan is sliding into geezerdom so abruptly, and even more sorry that it presents such difficult decisions/challenges to Suja. It's tough. I haven't been here before. it IS tough at this stage of things. i respect your asking of the group as a "best practice" scenario, as the group experience is probably quite collective. to try and add something on the other posts, I agree that it's all about quality and you. IMO, suffering is not allowed: it is for situations where there is NO alternative. I am still unhappy with the outcome from my last "suffering" scenario, and that was 7 months ago. but I did the right thing, not the easiest thing. you will know when things are too much and the suffering outweighs the cuddles and squeezes and mutual respect. Khan's the same as he's ever been, except for the inability to get into the car and the falling down on the stairs. If anything, a little more sassy and demanding. If you didn't see him in those specific circumstances, you'd never know that there is a problem. I've also has recent experience with this. my friend's little Pom cross was slowly heading to her last rest, but the day-to-day nature of her relationship with Zippy failed to alert her to Zippy's worsening condition. with occasional visits, I was much more able to see her decline and I let my friend know that IMO, suffering was starting. she did what she had to do after some thought and deliberation. i'm not saying that release is the right answer for you and Khan, but there needs to be some sense to your actions. this has made me sad. good luck. |
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zutroi wrote: i'm not saying that release is the right answer for you and Khan, but there needs to be some sense to your actions. I am not sure there is any kind of Usenet post I hate more than ones suggesting it's time to euthanize a dog the poster has never seen and knows nothing about. It's really beyond ass-y. -- Melinda Shore - Software longa, hardware brevis - Prouder than ever to be a member of the reality-based community |
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