My experiences with finding the right dog
I thought I would post this to see if others are in this same situation
and also to allow those in shelters and rescue societies to know at least what some of us are thinking. We recently lost our 9 year old Basset (whom we got from a Basset rescue group and were very good and helpful) and decided to get another smaller dog. We were looking for a dog that was medium size, less than 50 lbs. and wanted an older dog (1 to 6 years of age). Although we had several breeds in mind, we would also be open to a mutt as long as he or she was affectionate and good with our two daughters. We thought that this would be a relatively simple process but were surprised at all the hoops that we had to jump through. We looked at the local shelters to begin with thinking that we would have a good chance of finding our dog since we didn't want a puppy. What we found was that many of the dog were either much older than we wanted or shepard, dobe or lab mixes. Most of the dogs in fact were larger dogs. Many of the shelters would also not adopt dogs to those of us without a fenced in yard. In out town, that eliminates about 60-70% of the homes. I know that from talking to others that many people lie about this but I didn't feel that I should have to lie to get a dog. When I was with our basset, I either had him on lead outside or was next to him when he did his business. I then looked at several rescue organizations since we had good luck with the basset rescue. I couldn't believe some of the requirements that some of these groups had. While many had the fenced in yard requirement and home visits (the home visits could be a good idea) some groups insisted that I feed the dog a wholistic diet and even one rescue group insisted that they would not allow a dog to be adopted if the owner would not agree to feed a diet of raw meat and bones to the dog. I eventually found a breeder who had the dog for me. He was an excellent breeder who just happened to have a dog that he was retiring and it worked out well. The dog got along fine with the kids and we are very happy with our decision. He checked us out by viewing our family and how we interacted with the dog and vis versa. I realize that there are people who try to adopt who shouldn't and that some people's motivations to adopt aren't what they should be. However, many of these restrictions only serve to discourage dog ownership and force people to go to backyard breeders As an adoptive parent, we went through many hurdles including home studies, background checks and the like and have had to deal with requirements that just seem to make no sense. I would encourage shelters and rescue groups to have standards but also to be realistic. Good dog owners can have non-fenced in yards and feed dogs Iams dog food. Don't eliminate people who would like to adopt a dog just because they don't fit into your ideal dog owner profile. Just my 2 cents - your mileage may vary |
I thought I would post this to see if others are in this same situation
and also to allow those in shelters and rescue societies to know at least what some of us are thinking. We recently lost our 9 year old Basset (whom we got from a Basset rescue group and were very good and helpful) and decided to get another smaller dog. We were looking for a dog that was medium size, less than 50 lbs. and wanted an older dog (1 to 6 years of age). Although we had several breeds in mind, we would also be open to a mutt as long as he or she was affectionate and good with our two daughters. We thought that this would be a relatively simple process but were surprised at all the hoops that we had to jump through. We looked at the local shelters to begin with thinking that we would have a good chance of finding our dog since we didn't want a puppy. What we found was that many of the dog were either much older than we wanted or shepard, dobe or lab mixes. Most of the dogs in fact were larger dogs. Many of the shelters would also not adopt dogs to those of us without a fenced in yard. In out town, that eliminates about 60-70% of the homes. I know that from talking to others that many people lie about this but I didn't feel that I should have to lie to get a dog. When I was with our basset, I either had him on lead outside or was next to him when he did his business. I then looked at several rescue organizations since we had good luck with the basset rescue. I couldn't believe some of the requirements that some of these groups had. While many had the fenced in yard requirement and home visits (the home visits could be a good idea) some groups insisted that I feed the dog a wholistic diet and even one rescue group insisted that they would not allow a dog to be adopted if the owner would not agree to feed a diet of raw meat and bones to the dog. I eventually found a breeder who had the dog for me. He was an excellent breeder who just happened to have a dog that he was retiring and it worked out well. The dog got along fine with the kids and we are very happy with our decision. He checked us out by viewing our family and how we interacted with the dog and vis versa. I realize that there are people who try to adopt who shouldn't and that some people's motivations to adopt aren't what they should be. However, many of these restrictions only serve to discourage dog ownership and force people to go to backyard breeders As an adoptive parent, we went through many hurdles including home studies, background checks and the like and have had to deal with requirements that just seem to make no sense. I would encourage shelters and rescue groups to have standards but also to be realistic. Good dog owners can have non-fenced in yards and feed dogs Iams dog food. Don't eliminate people who would like to adopt a dog just because they don't fit into your ideal dog owner profile. We adopted a beagle a few weeks ago, and a Pom a few days ago. We wanted a dog under 30 lbs that was past puppyhood. We found that most of the dogs in the shelters were the larger kind or breeds with bad reputations. It took us a few weeks. There are about 10 shelters that were feasable for us to adopt from. I called them every other day looking for a dog that would like to be part of our family, and finally found the right ones. I found that rescue orgs had the toughest requirements. We have a very large yard, but no fence either. Our dogs live inside but go for leash walks and have 50 foot leads so the can play in the yard (always supervised) Our local Humane societies and pounds have reasonable requirements and adoption fees. We live in a fairly small town and our local rescue sent the Beagle home with us the same day - with no checks because my father in law is pretty well known in the community. Our Pom came from the Humane society in a nearby city. The application was basic and reasonable. The fee was only $75 which included spaying, shots, tags, food/water dish, collar and leash, 2#s of Iams, a sqeak toy, a a free vet visit. The vet visit ended up including a month of Heartguard and flea preventitive. My only real complaint was with a local no kill shelter. The had a dog that was going to be hard to place because she was a senior ands was being treated for heartworms. We wanted to adopt her, but she just didnt seem to like us - didnt dislike - but didnt like either. They were 1 dog over capacity so we offered to foster her. We thought she would at least get out of the shelter and if she warmed to us and wanted to stay, we would have gone ahead and adopted her. They turned us down saying that if she wasnt on the premises, she would be even harder to place. This was a month ago, and she is still at the shelter. I feel so sad for her. :( -sunny |
I thought I would post this to see if others are in this same situation
and also to allow those in shelters and rescue societies to know at least what some of us are thinking. We recently lost our 9 year old Basset (whom we got from a Basset rescue group and were very good and helpful) and decided to get another smaller dog. We were looking for a dog that was medium size, less than 50 lbs. and wanted an older dog (1 to 6 years of age). Although we had several breeds in mind, we would also be open to a mutt as long as he or she was affectionate and good with our two daughters. We thought that this would be a relatively simple process but were surprised at all the hoops that we had to jump through. We looked at the local shelters to begin with thinking that we would have a good chance of finding our dog since we didn't want a puppy. What we found was that many of the dog were either much older than we wanted or shepard, dobe or lab mixes. Most of the dogs in fact were larger dogs. Many of the shelters would also not adopt dogs to those of us without a fenced in yard. In out town, that eliminates about 60-70% of the homes. I know that from talking to others that many people lie about this but I didn't feel that I should have to lie to get a dog. When I was with our basset, I either had him on lead outside or was next to him when he did his business. I then looked at several rescue organizations since we had good luck with the basset rescue. I couldn't believe some of the requirements that some of these groups had. While many had the fenced in yard requirement and home visits (the home visits could be a good idea) some groups insisted that I feed the dog a wholistic diet and even one rescue group insisted that they would not allow a dog to be adopted if the owner would not agree to feed a diet of raw meat and bones to the dog. I eventually found a breeder who had the dog for me. He was an excellent breeder who just happened to have a dog that he was retiring and it worked out well. The dog got along fine with the kids and we are very happy with our decision. He checked us out by viewing our family and how we interacted with the dog and vis versa. I realize that there are people who try to adopt who shouldn't and that some people's motivations to adopt aren't what they should be. However, many of these restrictions only serve to discourage dog ownership and force people to go to backyard breeders As an adoptive parent, we went through many hurdles including home studies, background checks and the like and have had to deal with requirements that just seem to make no sense. I would encourage shelters and rescue groups to have standards but also to be realistic. Good dog owners can have non-fenced in yards and feed dogs Iams dog food. Don't eliminate people who would like to adopt a dog just because they don't fit into your ideal dog owner profile. We adopted a beagle a few weeks ago, and a Pom a few days ago. We wanted a dog under 30 lbs that was past puppyhood. We found that most of the dogs in the shelters were the larger kind or breeds with bad reputations. It took us a few weeks. There are about 10 shelters that were feasable for us to adopt from. I called them every other day looking for a dog that would like to be part of our family, and finally found the right ones. I found that rescue orgs had the toughest requirements. We have a very large yard, but no fence either. Our dogs live inside but go for leash walks and have 50 foot leads so the can play in the yard (always supervised) Our local Humane societies and pounds have reasonable requirements and adoption fees. We live in a fairly small town and our local rescue sent the Beagle home with us the same day - with no checks because my father in law is pretty well known in the community. Our Pom came from the Humane society in a nearby city. The application was basic and reasonable. The fee was only $75 which included spaying, shots, tags, food/water dish, collar and leash, 2#s of Iams, a sqeak toy, a a free vet visit. The vet visit ended up including a month of Heartguard and flea preventitive. My only real complaint was with a local no kill shelter. The had a dog that was going to be hard to place because she was a senior ands was being treated for heartworms. We wanted to adopt her, but she just didnt seem to like us - didnt dislike - but didnt like either. They were 1 dog over capacity so we offered to foster her. We thought she would at least get out of the shelter and if she warmed to us and wanted to stay, we would have gone ahead and adopted her. They turned us down saying that if she wasnt on the premises, she would be even harder to place. This was a month ago, and she is still at the shelter. I feel so sad for her. :( -sunny |
I thought I would post this to see if others are in this same situation
and also to allow those in shelters and rescue societies to know at least what some of us are thinking. We recently lost our 9 year old Basset (whom we got from a Basset rescue group and were very good and helpful) and decided to get another smaller dog. We were looking for a dog that was medium size, less than 50 lbs. and wanted an older dog (1 to 6 years of age). Although we had several breeds in mind, we would also be open to a mutt as long as he or she was affectionate and good with our two daughters. We thought that this would be a relatively simple process but were surprised at all the hoops that we had to jump through. We looked at the local shelters to begin with thinking that we would have a good chance of finding our dog since we didn't want a puppy. What we found was that many of the dog were either much older than we wanted or shepard, dobe or lab mixes. Most of the dogs in fact were larger dogs. Many of the shelters would also not adopt dogs to those of us without a fenced in yard. In out town, that eliminates about 60-70% of the homes. I know that from talking to others that many people lie about this but I didn't feel that I should have to lie to get a dog. When I was with our basset, I either had him on lead outside or was next to him when he did his business. I then looked at several rescue organizations since we had good luck with the basset rescue. I couldn't believe some of the requirements that some of these groups had. While many had the fenced in yard requirement and home visits (the home visits could be a good idea) some groups insisted that I feed the dog a wholistic diet and even one rescue group insisted that they would not allow a dog to be adopted if the owner would not agree to feed a diet of raw meat and bones to the dog. I eventually found a breeder who had the dog for me. He was an excellent breeder who just happened to have a dog that he was retiring and it worked out well. The dog got along fine with the kids and we are very happy with our decision. He checked us out by viewing our family and how we interacted with the dog and vis versa. I realize that there are people who try to adopt who shouldn't and that some people's motivations to adopt aren't what they should be. However, many of these restrictions only serve to discourage dog ownership and force people to go to backyard breeders As an adoptive parent, we went through many hurdles including home studies, background checks and the like and have had to deal with requirements that just seem to make no sense. I would encourage shelters and rescue groups to have standards but also to be realistic. Good dog owners can have non-fenced in yards and feed dogs Iams dog food. Don't eliminate people who would like to adopt a dog just because they don't fit into your ideal dog owner profile. We adopted a beagle a few weeks ago, and a Pom a few days ago. We wanted a dog under 30 lbs that was past puppyhood. We found that most of the dogs in the shelters were the larger kind or breeds with bad reputations. It took us a few weeks. There are about 10 shelters that were feasable for us to adopt from. I called them every other day looking for a dog that would like to be part of our family, and finally found the right ones. I found that rescue orgs had the toughest requirements. We have a very large yard, but no fence either. Our dogs live inside but go for leash walks and have 50 foot leads so the can play in the yard (always supervised) Our local Humane societies and pounds have reasonable requirements and adoption fees. We live in a fairly small town and our local rescue sent the Beagle home with us the same day - with no checks because my father in law is pretty well known in the community. Our Pom came from the Humane society in a nearby city. The application was basic and reasonable. The fee was only $75 which included spaying, shots, tags, food/water dish, collar and leash, 2#s of Iams, a sqeak toy, a a free vet visit. The vet visit ended up including a month of Heartguard and flea preventitive. My only real complaint was with a local no kill shelter. The had a dog that was going to be hard to place because she was a senior ands was being treated for heartworms. We wanted to adopt her, but she just didnt seem to like us - didnt dislike - but didnt like either. They were 1 dog over capacity so we offered to foster her. We thought she would at least get out of the shelter and if she warmed to us and wanted to stay, we would have gone ahead and adopted her. They turned us down saying that if she wasnt on the premises, she would be even harder to place. This was a month ago, and she is still at the shelter. I feel so sad for her. :( -sunny |
I don't think a rescue organization, or even a breeder, should *require* a
particular form of diet as long as the dog doesn't have special dietary needs..like dogs with irritable bowel syndrome or food allergies. Each rescue operates differently even if they are operating within the same breed. There does tend to be alot of micromanagement going on but a. the rescue has the ability to mircomanage b. the rescue has its own ideas on what's best for the dogs c. while its not optimal to keep dogs in rescue for a long time, the space & time are there so turning away homes isn't detrimental to the dog The fence issue is pretty standard although IME exceptions are made on an individual basis. Since alot of dogs wind up in shelters because they were loose and roaming, wanting a family to have a fence for containment makes sense. Alot of people tend to just let the dog out when weather stinks or something else is going on inside the home. If no fence is in place then there's a possibility that as soon as a back is turned, the dog runs off. Some breeds are more prone to roaming as well, either following a scent, chasing another animal, or just to go looking for fun. Anyway, the point is that rescues will have good reasons for having the requirements they do, that doesn't mean the general public will agree with them though. Their primary goal, contrary to popular belief, isn't just to place dogs in adoptive homes. The primary goal is to place dogs in "forever" homes which means that more is required than just offering food/water/shelter. This is where the individual rescue's ideas of what constitutes a "forever" home comes into play. -- Tara |
I don't think a rescue organization, or even a breeder, should *require* a
particular form of diet as long as the dog doesn't have special dietary needs..like dogs with irritable bowel syndrome or food allergies. Each rescue operates differently even if they are operating within the same breed. There does tend to be alot of micromanagement going on but a. the rescue has the ability to mircomanage b. the rescue has its own ideas on what's best for the dogs c. while its not optimal to keep dogs in rescue for a long time, the space & time are there so turning away homes isn't detrimental to the dog The fence issue is pretty standard although IME exceptions are made on an individual basis. Since alot of dogs wind up in shelters because they were loose and roaming, wanting a family to have a fence for containment makes sense. Alot of people tend to just let the dog out when weather stinks or something else is going on inside the home. If no fence is in place then there's a possibility that as soon as a back is turned, the dog runs off. Some breeds are more prone to roaming as well, either following a scent, chasing another animal, or just to go looking for fun. Anyway, the point is that rescues will have good reasons for having the requirements they do, that doesn't mean the general public will agree with them though. Their primary goal, contrary to popular belief, isn't just to place dogs in adoptive homes. The primary goal is to place dogs in "forever" homes which means that more is required than just offering food/water/shelter. This is where the individual rescue's ideas of what constitutes a "forever" home comes into play. -- Tara |
I don't think a rescue organization, or even a breeder, should *require* a
particular form of diet as long as the dog doesn't have special dietary needs..like dogs with irritable bowel syndrome or food allergies. Each rescue operates differently even if they are operating within the same breed. There does tend to be alot of micromanagement going on but a. the rescue has the ability to mircomanage b. the rescue has its own ideas on what's best for the dogs c. while its not optimal to keep dogs in rescue for a long time, the space & time are there so turning away homes isn't detrimental to the dog The fence issue is pretty standard although IME exceptions are made on an individual basis. Since alot of dogs wind up in shelters because they were loose and roaming, wanting a family to have a fence for containment makes sense. Alot of people tend to just let the dog out when weather stinks or something else is going on inside the home. If no fence is in place then there's a possibility that as soon as a back is turned, the dog runs off. Some breeds are more prone to roaming as well, either following a scent, chasing another animal, or just to go looking for fun. Anyway, the point is that rescues will have good reasons for having the requirements they do, that doesn't mean the general public will agree with them though. Their primary goal, contrary to popular belief, isn't just to place dogs in adoptive homes. The primary goal is to place dogs in "forever" homes which means that more is required than just offering food/water/shelter. This is where the individual rescue's ideas of what constitutes a "forever" home comes into play. -- Tara |
"Rich Spencer" wrote
snip However, many of these restrictions only serve to discourage dog ownership and force people to go to backyard breeders Some thoughts: A rescue's job is not to encourage dog ownership. It is to find the best home for the individual dogs in their care. A rescue cannot force anyone to do anything, especially not go to a BYB. If you can't find a good rescue, you can buy from a /responsible/ breeder. Or keep looking. As an adoptive parent, we went through many hurdles including home studies, background checks and the like and have had to deal with requirements that just seem to make no sense. They may not make sense to you, but often times there is a reason for these "rules". I find the idea of a rescue requiring a BARF diet for all their dogs a bit extreme. Could it have been just certain dogs? Some dogs need special diets for health reasons. (Case in point, my friend's Basenji who can *only* eat his diet of baked fish and potato, homemade.) If not, that's a little wierd, but I guess it's their perogotive. I would encourage shelters and rescue groups to have standards but also to be realistic. Good dog owners can have non-fenced in yards and feed dogs Iams dog food. Most good rescues have policies but can be flexible too. Not all rescue's are good, though. Some are overly lax and place dogs poorly, or have a poor support support systems for their folks and adoptors. Better to make adoption more difficult that put the poor dog through another rehoming. Hope you're happy with your new pet! -- -Andrea Stone Saorsa Basenjis http://home1.gte.net/res0s12z/ The Trolls Nest - greenmen, goblins & gargoyle wall art www.trollsnest.com |
"Rich Spencer" wrote
snip However, many of these restrictions only serve to discourage dog ownership and force people to go to backyard breeders Some thoughts: A rescue's job is not to encourage dog ownership. It is to find the best home for the individual dogs in their care. A rescue cannot force anyone to do anything, especially not go to a BYB. If you can't find a good rescue, you can buy from a /responsible/ breeder. Or keep looking. As an adoptive parent, we went through many hurdles including home studies, background checks and the like and have had to deal with requirements that just seem to make no sense. They may not make sense to you, but often times there is a reason for these "rules". I find the idea of a rescue requiring a BARF diet for all their dogs a bit extreme. Could it have been just certain dogs? Some dogs need special diets for health reasons. (Case in point, my friend's Basenji who can *only* eat his diet of baked fish and potato, homemade.) If not, that's a little wierd, but I guess it's their perogotive. I would encourage shelters and rescue groups to have standards but also to be realistic. Good dog owners can have non-fenced in yards and feed dogs Iams dog food. Most good rescues have policies but can be flexible too. Not all rescue's are good, though. Some are overly lax and place dogs poorly, or have a poor support support systems for their folks and adoptors. Better to make adoption more difficult that put the poor dog through another rehoming. Hope you're happy with your new pet! -- -Andrea Stone Saorsa Basenjis http://home1.gte.net/res0s12z/ The Trolls Nest - greenmen, goblins & gargoyle wall art www.trollsnest.com |
"Rich Spencer" wrote
snip However, many of these restrictions only serve to discourage dog ownership and force people to go to backyard breeders Some thoughts: A rescue's job is not to encourage dog ownership. It is to find the best home for the individual dogs in their care. A rescue cannot force anyone to do anything, especially not go to a BYB. If you can't find a good rescue, you can buy from a /responsible/ breeder. Or keep looking. As an adoptive parent, we went through many hurdles including home studies, background checks and the like and have had to deal with requirements that just seem to make no sense. They may not make sense to you, but often times there is a reason for these "rules". I find the idea of a rescue requiring a BARF diet for all their dogs a bit extreme. Could it have been just certain dogs? Some dogs need special diets for health reasons. (Case in point, my friend's Basenji who can *only* eat his diet of baked fish and potato, homemade.) If not, that's a little wierd, but I guess it's their perogotive. I would encourage shelters and rescue groups to have standards but also to be realistic. Good dog owners can have non-fenced in yards and feed dogs Iams dog food. Most good rescues have policies but can be flexible too. Not all rescue's are good, though. Some are overly lax and place dogs poorly, or have a poor support support systems for their folks and adoptors. Better to make adoption more difficult that put the poor dog through another rehoming. Hope you're happy with your new pet! -- -Andrea Stone Saorsa Basenjis http://home1.gte.net/res0s12z/ The Trolls Nest - greenmen, goblins & gargoyle wall art www.trollsnest.com |
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