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My dog Jasper absolutely loves to meet new people. When we're out on
the walking trails, he likes to run up to other people to greet them . He would never bite or hurt anybody, he just wants to say hi, and for people to pet him. I had a rather upsetting incident today . we were out on our regular walking route, when we encounter this youngish looking guy(I'd say maybe about late 20's early 30's) coming towards us from opposite directions, so Jasper immediately runs over, and started sniffing his leg. He just walked around Jasper and kept on walking, totally ignoring him. Me: Don't worry, he's perfectly friendly. Him: I don't care, I don't want to play with your dog, leave me alone, not everyone loves dogs you know. I was in absolute shock. I really can't believe the nerve of this asshole. Would it have killed him to just take few moments to pet Jasper. What kind of a loser doesn't like dogs anyway. I just needed to vent |
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"Holly" wrote
My dog Jasper absolutely loves to meet new people. When we're out on the walking trails, he likes to run up to other people to greet them . He would never bite or hurt anybody, he just wants to say hi, and for people to pet him. I had a rather upsetting incident today . we were out on our regular walking route, when we encounter this youngish looking guy(I'd say maybe about late 20's early 30's) coming towards us from opposite directions, so Jasper immediately runs over, and started sniffing his leg. He just walked around Jasper and kept on walking, totally ignoring him. Umm, Holly, I don't know how big Jasper is but that would disturb me too and I like dogs. *You* know Jasper. I don't. Being rushed by a dog running up to me would make me quite worried for a moment until I could tell there was no danger. Me: Don't worry, he's perfectly friendly. Him: I don't care, I don't want to play with your dog, leave me alone, not everyone loves dogs you know. I was in absolute shock. I really can't believe the nerve of this asshole. Would it have killed him to just take few moments to pet Jasper. What kind of a loser doesn't like dogs anyway. Why in shock? The fellow was plain about it and didn't kick the dog. He may dislike them, be allergic to them, fear them, have been bitten by one, or any number of other things. It's not your call. I'd teach the dog to not to 'run up to other people to greet them' when they are strangers. The larger Jasper is, the more important this is. |
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On Fri, 7 Jan 2011 14:25:29 -0800 (PST), Holly
wrote: My dog Jasper absolutely loves to meet new people. When we're out on the walking trails, he likes to run up to other people to greet them . He would never bite or hurt anybody, he just wants to say hi, and for people to pet him. I had a rather upsetting incident today . we were out on our regular walking route, when we encounter this youngish looking guy(I'd say maybe about late 20's early 30's) coming towards us from opposite directions, so Jasper immediately runs over, and started sniffing his leg. He just walked around Jasper and kept on walking, totally ignoring him. Me: Don't worry, he's perfectly friendly. Him: I don't care, I don't want to play with your dog, leave me alone, not everyone loves dogs you know. I was in absolute shock. I really can't believe the nerve of this asshole. Would it have killed him to just take few moments to pet Jasper. What kind of a loser doesn't like dogs anyway. I just needed to vent I think people who really dislike dogs are missing an awful lot. However, you're the one in the wrong here. People are under no obligation to pet, interact with or even tolerate your dog in public. You need to keep him on leash so he doesn't bother people who don't want to be bothered by a dog. You could be putting him at risk if you don't. |
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"Holly" wrote in message .. My dog Jasper absolutely loves to meet new people. When we're out on the walking trails, he likes to run up to other people to greet them . He would never bite or hurt anybody, he just wants to say hi, and for people to pet him. I had a rather upsetting incident today . we were out on our regular walking route, when we encounter this youngish looking guy(I'd say maybe about late 20's early 30's) coming towards us from opposite directions, so Jasper immediately runs over, and started sniffing his leg. He just walked around Jasper and kept on walking, totally ignoring him. Me: Don't worry, he's perfectly friendly. Him: I don't care, I don't want to play with your dog, leave me alone, not everyone loves dogs you know. I was in absolute shock. I really can't believe the nerve of this asshole. Would it have killed him to just take few moments to pet Jasper. What kind of a loser doesn't like dogs anyway. I just needed to vent Personally I would have loved to meet Jasper. I don't even object when doggies jump up on me, especially when they're just puppies. But this gentleman was simply being honest with you, and you should respect that. I've seen non-dog-lovers actually kick a dog or scream awful things at a dog who comes up to them uninvited. Besides, I kind of look at it as a two-way street, since I don't appreciate people who rush up to my dog and pet him uninvited. I'd much rather they ask first. starcat |
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"Holly" wrote in message ... Me: Don't worry, he's perfectly friendly. Him: I don't care, I don't want to play with your dog, leave me alone, not everyone loves dogs you know. I was in absolute shock. I really can't believe the nerve of this asshole. Would it have killed him to just take few moments to pet Jasper. What kind of a loser doesn't like dogs anyway. I just needed to vent You're over reacting. Are upset because you feel Jasper's feelíngs were hurt? I'm sure it didn't bother him. Not everyone loves dogs. Tare all sorts of reasons why they don't and you have to respect that. Al |
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"Holly" wrote in message
... I was in absolute shock. I really can't believe the nerve of this asshole. Would it have killed him to just take few moments to pet Jasper. What kind of a loser doesn't like dogs anyway. I just needed to vent I agree with others who allow for the fact that some people do not like dogs (or cats, or children, or whatever), and they are entitled to their feelings and should not be expected to welcome or interact with them if they so choose. My right to swing my fist, or allow my dog to approach you, ends with your nose or leg or even your reasonable zone of comfort. A couple years ago I was walking Muttley to the end of the road to observe the BGE crew repairing downed lines, and I saw my neighbor there. I asked him if he would like to meet Muttley, and I was surprised when he said "No". But I respected his wishes and kept Muttley close by and on leash. Paul and Muttley www.muttleydog.com |
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Thanks for all the replies. When I had some time to calm down, I tried
to look at things more objectively. I understand what you are all saying. Not everyone likes dogs, and that's fair enough(even if I have a hard time understanding it). But I am not the only Dog owner on this trail who let's their dog roam loose. I really have to wonder why somebody who doesn't like dogs would go walking in an area where there are sure to be loose dogs going up to them. |
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"Holly" wrote in message
... Thanks for all the replies. When I had some time to calm down, I tried to look at things more objectively. I understand what you are all saying. Not everyone likes dogs, and that's fair enough (even if I have a hard time understanding it). But I am not the only Dog owner on this trail who let's their dog roam loose. I really have to wonder why somebody who doesn't like dogs would go walking in an area where there are sure to be loose dogs going up to them. That is similar to saying I wonder why anyone would go to a popular area downtown where there will be lots of druggies and bums aggressively soliciting money from people. It is true that this would eventually deter some people from visiting the area, but those who really enjoy it, and the businesses that thrive because people are there, will take action to prohibit the miscreants from making them feel uncomfortable. If the trail is specifically designated as an off-leash dog park, then nobody should mind if a dog runs up to them, but even then some people may get nervous and even use lethal force against a dog they think may be dangerous, and dogs should not approach or jump on anyone without permission. My first reaction to your post was to agree that the man's attitude was unfriendly, but after more thought and other opinions, and even my own experience, I realize that it is important to respect peoples' rights to enjoy public property without being bothered by dogs or any other animals (including children). Paul and Muttley www.youtube.com/PaulAndMuttley |
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On Sat, 08 Jan 2011 22:58:44 -0500, P E Schoen wrote:
My first reaction to your post was to agree that the man's attitude was unfriendly, but after more thought and other opinions, and even my own experience, I realize that it is important to respect peoples' rights to enjoy public property without being bothered by dogs or any other animals (including children). Paul and Muttley www.youtube.com/PaulAndMuttley good for you Paul, I hope you'll recall more often all your experiences and that will motivate you to train Muttley |
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On Jan 7, 5:25*pm, Holly wrote:
My dog Jasper absolutely loves to meet new people. When we're out on the walking trails, he likes to run up to other people to greet them . He would never bite or hurt anybody, he just wants to say hi, and for people to pet him. I had a rather upsetting *incident today . we were out on our regular walking route, when we encounter this youngish looking guy(I'd say maybe about late 20's early 30's) *coming towards us from opposite directions, so Jasper immediately runs over, and started sniffing his leg. He just walked around Jasper and kept on walking, totally ignoring him. Me: Don't worry, he's perfectly friendly. Him: I don't care, I don't want to play with your dog, leave me alone, not everyone loves dogs you know. I was in absolute shock. I really can't believe the nerve of this asshole. Would it have killed him to just take few moments to pet Jasper. What kind of a loser doesn't like dogs anyway. I just needed to vent Seriously? Your dog shouldn't be approaching people without your permission. YOU need to realize that not everyone will think your dog is the most wonderful thing that has ever existed. No, not even guests in your home. It doesn't have to take a dog "hater" to not want a dog rushing up to them or to not want to pet a strange dog. I adore dogs. That doesn't mean I think it is appropriate to literally unleash a dog "at" everyone in public. |
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