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Aliens Stole My Student and Returned a Different Dog
6 weeks ago, a 7 month old pitbull/boxer mix had to be coerced to come into my
basic class. She was a shelter dog who had been in her new home 3 months, and was almost autistic. At home she was fine, great with the kids, but around strange people and other dogs she shut down. Not acting fearful, but also not initiating any contact. No personality, no vitality, ears and posture hanging low. This class had young, friendly dogs in it, so I allowed play sessions. For the first few minutes, Ali was a bit cowed and uncertain. Then she joined in, and seemed to be having some fun. For five weeks, she did well with the other dogs, but was still drawn into herself. I had to use string cheese to motivate her, and she did fairly well in class. But she still didn't seem to be really having much fun in general. Today, a completely different dog dragged her owner into class. We were supposed to be talking about jumping up, but I said, "Ali doesn't jump up, does she?" Her owner said no, she doesn't. Huh! Until today! She jumped up on me for loving, and tried it on a couple of other people. Suddenly, she was interested in every single person and dog who walked by. More than interested - she could care less about treats, performing behaviors, whatever - there was a WORLD out there, and it was GREAT!!! She even looks like a different dog. I kept forgetting how young she was, because she acted like a senior dog. Today her eyes were bright, her ears were up, her whole body looked different. For the first time, I realized she is pretty. Her owner and I gave up on trying to work with her, and instead walked her around the store and let her socialize. What a social butterfly! Neither of us could believe what we were seeing. And she charmed the pants off of everybody she greeted. Usually the most I would do is scratch her neck, because though she was friendly to me, she didn't seem to want to get any closer. Today, while I kneeled on the floor, she jumped up and gave me hugs and kisses, then crawled onto my lap like a puppy. (Woof! All 58 pounds of her. :} When her owner tried to leave with her, Ali literally dug in her heels at the door and wouldn't budge. I don't wanna go, mommy! I love it here! We're both thrilled. Who cares if she learned anything (though she did). She found joie de vivre! Has anybody ever seen such a transformation in a dog? I've seen it in young puppies, but never an adolescent. Her history is unknown. She was in the shelter at 4 months, and was chosen because she looked so sad her owner's sister actually started to cry. Even as a 4 month old puppy, she was sedate. Our wild guess is she's going through puppyhood for the first time. Something in her early life made her shut down emotionally. Then something about class healed her. Confidence from learning how to perform and play, along with a loving, kind, and patient family? Sometimes this job is a lot of fun. :} PetsMart Pet Trainer My Kids, My Students, My Life: http://hometown.aol.com/dfrntdrums/m...age/index.html Last updated June 27 at 10:00 a.m. |
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(Leah) wrote: Has anybody ever seen such a transformation in a dog? To a certain extent, this is happening with Georgie. He was extremely shy for about a week or so and then started to get friendly. He is to the point now where he will roll over and bare teeth to initiate play. This from a dog who could care less about toys of ANY kind, and who's idea of play is just running with another dog. He supposedly came from an elderly couple, so I'm not surprised. Deb Shi the Survivor Georgie the Kid-Snarker |
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"Leah" -OFF wrote in message ... snip not that I wanted too! What a beautiful story ) Her history is unknown. She was in the shelter at 4 months, and was chosen because she looked so sad her owner's sister actually started to cry. Even as a 4 month old puppy, she was sedate. Judging by her breed, mistreated by some "macho" type person maybe, before coming to the shelter? Our wild guess is she's going through puppyhood for the first time. Something in her early life made her shut down emotionally. Then something about class healed her. Confidence from learning how to perform and play, along with a loving, kind, and patient family? She just learnt to keep her head down and be as inconspicuous as possible, until she could learn to trust again - this story made me cry, just reading it! Sometimes this job is a lot of fun. :} What a reward for the work you do, eh?? Tracy )) |
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On Mon, 28 Jul 2003, Tracy wrote:
Judging by her breed, mistreated by some "macho" type person maybe, before coming to the shelter? there's really no way to tell, without direct evidence, whether the dog was abused, poorly socialized, or poorly bred. any one of those things, or a combination, can lead to the sort of behavior Leah described. assuming that a dog must've been abused because it is skittish, aloof, non-responsive, or whatever doesn't do the dog any favors. -- shelly (foul wench) and elliott and harriet http://home.bluemarble.net/~scouvrette |
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Handsome Jack Morrison wrote
in : Yup, all because of clicker ABUSE. Heh-heh-heh. -- ******************************************* Marcel Beaudoin & Moogli ******************************************* 'Real women don't deflate when you bite them.' ******************************************* |
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Handsome Jack Morrison wrote
in news Clicker abuse is no laughing matter, Marcel. Shame on you. I know. I see the same thing at home as a result of channel surfing. However, Genevieve usually resorts to threats and violence to stop me. -- ******************************************* Marcel Beaudoin & Moogli ******************************************* 'The best kind of dog toy has a person on one end.' ******************************************* |
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Leah wrote:
Has anybody ever seen such a transformation in a dog? I've seen it in young puppies, but never an adolescent. Not that dramatic, but of course! You haven't been reading my Khan stories, have you? pout Suja |
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shelly wrote in message arble.net...
On Mon, 28 Jul 2003, Tracy wrote: Judging by her breed, mistreated by some "macho" type person maybe, before coming to the shelter? there's really no way to tell, without direct evidence, whether the dog was abused, poorly socialized, or poorly bred. any one of those things, or a combination, can lead to the sort of behavior Leah described. assuming that a dog must've been abused because it is skittish, aloof, non-responsive, or whatever doesn't do the dog any favors. Absolutely. I was just thinking how often people who do rescue get to see the kind of transformation Leah described. A dog can be traumatized and/or depressed by any experience or combination of experiences and it is useless for us to play guessing games about it. What's important is that we see that point where the dog lets go of his/her anxiety. Lynn K. |
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