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Very, VERY, shy dog
Mondays through Fridays I pop over to the local animal shelter and
help walk dogs. A few weeks ago 3 dachshund mix dogs were brought in. One appears to be the mother to the other 2. One of dachshund kids has already been adopted. The mother and 8 month old girl are still in the shelter. It's the 8 month old girl that is the concern. She (Candy - as named at the shelter) is very shy. Her fear of humans is the worst I have ever seen. They've kept mom and Candy together. There was no way she would come to the door so as to put a lead on her to take her out. So twice I have stepped into the kennel and gently put the lead on her and then carried her out of the kennel. Once out she wants to immediately go back to her kennel. But I persist and she haunches down and looks like a catepillar as she walks with me. I persist in her coming with me. It took a couple of very limited pulls but she does come. Once outside she is still very shy. You can tell she is very nervous. Candy pants very hard. She wants to be as far from me as possible. I use one of those retracting leashes that is about 26 feet long, and she uses the full length of the leash. Twice during the walk I will urge her to me. Only as close as I can just barely touch her, but I thought it would be a good idea to give her a very light feel of human touch. Then I let her take the full length of the leash again. All the time she is outside is very scared. We walk about a fifty yards and then return her to the kennel, where she is once again very happy to be with her mom (assumed). This shelter works very hard not to euthanize animals, unfortunately it does occur. I think the odds of someone adopting Candy when she is this shy is very low. Naturally the noise level from barking dogs is not helping the situation. However my wife and I are full up with animals at home, and can't foster another. I'm looking for an appropriate treatment plan to use with Candy to see if some of her shyness can be alleviated. Otherwise at some point in time if she isn't adopted the inevitable will occur. Thank you, Jim |
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"He who loves harmonicas" wrote in message
om... Mondays through Fridays I pop over to the local animal shelter and help walk dogs. A few weeks ago 3 dachshund mix dogs were brought in. One appears to be the mother to the other 2. One of dachshund kids has already been adopted. The mother and 8 month old girl are still in the shelter. It's the 8 month old girl that is the concern. She (Candy - as named at the shelter) is very shy. Her fear of humans is the worst I have ever seen. They've kept mom and Candy together. There was no way she would come to the door so as to put a lead on her to take her out. So twice I have stepped into the kennel and gently put the lead on her and then carried her out of the kennel. Once out she wants to immediately go back to her kennel. But I persist and she haunches down and looks like a catepillar as she walks with me. I persist in her coming with me. It took a couple of very limited pulls but she does come. Once outside she is still very shy. You can tell she is very nervous. Candy pants very hard. She wants to be as far from me as possible. I use one of those retracting leashes that is about 26 feet long, and she uses the full length of the leash. Twice during the walk I will urge her to me. Only as close as I can just barely touch her, but I thought it would be a good idea to give her a very light feel of human touch. Then I let her take the full length of the leash again. All the time she is outside is very scared. We walk about a fifty yards and then return her to the kennel, where she is once again very happy to be with her mom (assumed). This shelter works very hard not to euthanize animals, unfortunately it does occur. I think the odds of someone adopting Candy when she is this shy is very low. Naturally the noise level from barking dogs is not helping the situation. However my wife and I are full up with animals at home, and can't foster another. I'm looking for an appropriate treatment plan to use with Candy to see if some of her shyness can be alleviated. Otherwise at some point in time if she isn't adopted the inevitable will occur. My opinion is likely to cause a good bit of controversy but I'm going to post it anyway. I think the kindest thing that can be done for Candy is either euthanize her or make the stipulation that she cannot be adopted with her mother. The latter poses a problem though. Should the mother be euthanized when she'd otherwise gain adoption interest due to someone not wanting to take on two dogs at once, and an extremely shy one at that? I don't think so. Dogs who are *that* shy live a miserable existence IMO. They live in constant fear of people and noises. Their anxiety level must be through the roof and, to me, there's no kindness in forcing such a dog to live with people, let alone adapt to new people in a new environment. Shyness can be overcome in most dogs but not in all and it depends heavily, IMO, on the severity of the case. It could be the shelter environment that has caused her shyness but somehow I doubt it. If the sibling didn't have this problem, as I assume since its was adopted, and the mother doesn't have this problem, then I think its safe to say that its Candy individually and its probably not going to ever be cured. It could be diminished over time with the right kind of owner but without that owner this dog will probably continue to live in an internal hell. -- Tara |
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"He who loves harmonicas" wrote in message
om... Mondays through Fridays I pop over to the local animal shelter and help walk dogs. A few weeks ago 3 dachshund mix dogs were brought in. One appears to be the mother to the other 2. One of dachshund kids has already been adopted. The mother and 8 month old girl are still in the shelter. It's the 8 month old girl that is the concern. She (Candy - as named at the shelter) is very shy. Her fear of humans is the worst I have ever seen. They've kept mom and Candy together. There was no way she would come to the door so as to put a lead on her to take her out. So twice I have stepped into the kennel and gently put the lead on her and then carried her out of the kennel. Once out she wants to immediately go back to her kennel. But I persist and she haunches down and looks like a catepillar as she walks with me. I persist in her coming with me. It took a couple of very limited pulls but she does come. Once outside she is still very shy. You can tell she is very nervous. Candy pants very hard. She wants to be as far from me as possible. I use one of those retracting leashes that is about 26 feet long, and she uses the full length of the leash. Twice during the walk I will urge her to me. Only as close as I can just barely touch her, but I thought it would be a good idea to give her a very light feel of human touch. Then I let her take the full length of the leash again. All the time she is outside is very scared. We walk about a fifty yards and then return her to the kennel, where she is once again very happy to be with her mom (assumed). This shelter works very hard not to euthanize animals, unfortunately it does occur. I think the odds of someone adopting Candy when she is this shy is very low. Naturally the noise level from barking dogs is not helping the situation. However my wife and I are full up with animals at home, and can't foster another. I'm looking for an appropriate treatment plan to use with Candy to see if some of her shyness can be alleviated. Otherwise at some point in time if she isn't adopted the inevitable will occur. My opinion is likely to cause a good bit of controversy but I'm going to post it anyway. I think the kindest thing that can be done for Candy is either euthanize her or make the stipulation that she cannot be adopted with her mother. The latter poses a problem though. Should the mother be euthanized when she'd otherwise gain adoption interest due to someone not wanting to take on two dogs at once, and an extremely shy one at that? I don't think so. Dogs who are *that* shy live a miserable existence IMO. They live in constant fear of people and noises. Their anxiety level must be through the roof and, to me, there's no kindness in forcing such a dog to live with people, let alone adapt to new people in a new environment. Shyness can be overcome in most dogs but not in all and it depends heavily, IMO, on the severity of the case. It could be the shelter environment that has caused her shyness but somehow I doubt it. If the sibling didn't have this problem, as I assume since its was adopted, and the mother doesn't have this problem, then I think its safe to say that its Candy individually and its probably not going to ever be cured. It could be diminished over time with the right kind of owner but without that owner this dog will probably continue to live in an internal hell. -- Tara |
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"He who loves harmonicas" wrote in message
om... Mondays through Fridays I pop over to the local animal shelter and help walk dogs. A few weeks ago 3 dachshund mix dogs were brought in. One appears to be the mother to the other 2. One of dachshund kids has already been adopted. The mother and 8 month old girl are still in the shelter. It's the 8 month old girl that is the concern. She (Candy - as named at the shelter) is very shy. Her fear of humans is the worst I have ever seen. They've kept mom and Candy together. There was no way she would come to the door so as to put a lead on her to take her out. So twice I have stepped into the kennel and gently put the lead on her and then carried her out of the kennel. Once out she wants to immediately go back to her kennel. But I persist and she haunches down and looks like a catepillar as she walks with me. I persist in her coming with me. It took a couple of very limited pulls but she does come. Once outside she is still very shy. You can tell she is very nervous. Candy pants very hard. She wants to be as far from me as possible. I use one of those retracting leashes that is about 26 feet long, and she uses the full length of the leash. Twice during the walk I will urge her to me. Only as close as I can just barely touch her, but I thought it would be a good idea to give her a very light feel of human touch. Then I let her take the full length of the leash again. All the time she is outside is very scared. We walk about a fifty yards and then return her to the kennel, where she is once again very happy to be with her mom (assumed). This shelter works very hard not to euthanize animals, unfortunately it does occur. I think the odds of someone adopting Candy when she is this shy is very low. Naturally the noise level from barking dogs is not helping the situation. However my wife and I are full up with animals at home, and can't foster another. I'm looking for an appropriate treatment plan to use with Candy to see if some of her shyness can be alleviated. Otherwise at some point in time if she isn't adopted the inevitable will occur. My opinion is likely to cause a good bit of controversy but I'm going to post it anyway. I think the kindest thing that can be done for Candy is either euthanize her or make the stipulation that she cannot be adopted with her mother. The latter poses a problem though. Should the mother be euthanized when she'd otherwise gain adoption interest due to someone not wanting to take on two dogs at once, and an extremely shy one at that? I don't think so. Dogs who are *that* shy live a miserable existence IMO. They live in constant fear of people and noises. Their anxiety level must be through the roof and, to me, there's no kindness in forcing such a dog to live with people, let alone adapt to new people in a new environment. Shyness can be overcome in most dogs but not in all and it depends heavily, IMO, on the severity of the case. It could be the shelter environment that has caused her shyness but somehow I doubt it. If the sibling didn't have this problem, as I assume since its was adopted, and the mother doesn't have this problem, then I think its safe to say that its Candy individually and its probably not going to ever be cured. It could be diminished over time with the right kind of owner but without that owner this dog will probably continue to live in an internal hell. -- Tara |
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"He who loves harmonicas" wrote in message
om... Mondays through Fridays I pop over to the local animal shelter and help walk dogs. A few weeks ago 3 dachshund mix dogs were brought in. One appears to be the mother to the other 2. One of dachshund kids has already been adopted. The mother and 8 month old girl are still in the shelter. It's the 8 month old girl that is the concern. She (Candy - as named at the shelter) is very shy. Her fear of humans is the worst I have ever seen. They've kept mom and Candy together. There was no way she would come to the door so as to put a lead on her to take her out. So twice I have stepped into the kennel and gently put the lead on her and then carried her out of the kennel. Once out she wants to immediately go back to her kennel. But I persist and she haunches down and looks like a catepillar as she walks with me. I persist in her coming with me. It took a couple of very limited pulls but she does come. Once outside she is still very shy. You can tell she is very nervous. Candy pants very hard. She wants to be as far from me as possible. I use one of those retracting leashes that is about 26 feet long, and she uses the full length of the leash. Twice during the walk I will urge her to me. Only as close as I can just barely touch her, but I thought it would be a good idea to give her a very light feel of human touch. Then I let her take the full length of the leash again. All the time she is outside is very scared. We walk about a fifty yards and then return her to the kennel, where she is once again very happy to be with her mom (assumed). This shelter works very hard not to euthanize animals, unfortunately it does occur. I think the odds of someone adopting Candy when she is this shy is very low. Naturally the noise level from barking dogs is not helping the situation. However my wife and I are full up with animals at home, and can't foster another. I'm looking for an appropriate treatment plan to use with Candy to see if some of her shyness can be alleviated. Otherwise at some point in time if she isn't adopted the inevitable will occur. My opinion is likely to cause a good bit of controversy but I'm going to post it anyway. I think the kindest thing that can be done for Candy is either euthanize her or make the stipulation that she cannot be adopted with her mother. The latter poses a problem though. Should the mother be euthanized when she'd otherwise gain adoption interest due to someone not wanting to take on two dogs at once, and an extremely shy one at that? I don't think so. Dogs who are *that* shy live a miserable existence IMO. They live in constant fear of people and noises. Their anxiety level must be through the roof and, to me, there's no kindness in forcing such a dog to live with people, let alone adapt to new people in a new environment. Shyness can be overcome in most dogs but not in all and it depends heavily, IMO, on the severity of the case. It could be the shelter environment that has caused her shyness but somehow I doubt it. If the sibling didn't have this problem, as I assume since its was adopted, and the mother doesn't have this problem, then I think its safe to say that its Candy individually and its probably not going to ever be cured. It could be diminished over time with the right kind of owner but without that owner this dog will probably continue to live in an internal hell. -- Tara |
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"He who loves harmonicas" wrote in message
om... Mondays through Fridays I pop over to the local animal shelter and help walk dogs. A few weeks ago 3 dachshund mix dogs were brought in. One appears to be the mother to the other 2. One of dachshund kids has already been adopted. The mother and 8 month old girl are still in the shelter. It's the 8 month old girl that is the concern. She (Candy - as named at the shelter) is very shy. Her fear of humans is the worst I have ever seen. They've kept mom and Candy together. There was no way she would come to the door so as to put a lead on her to take her out. So twice I have stepped into the kennel and gently put the lead on her and then carried her out of the kennel. Once out she wants to immediately go back to her kennel. But I persist and she haunches down and looks like a catepillar as she walks with me. I persist in her coming with me. It took a couple of very limited pulls but she does come. Once outside she is still very shy. You can tell she is very nervous. Candy pants very hard. She wants to be as far from me as possible. I use one of those retracting leashes that is about 26 feet long, and she uses the full length of the leash. Twice during the walk I will urge her to me. Only as close as I can just barely touch her, but I thought it would be a good idea to give her a very light feel of human touch. Then I let her take the full length of the leash again. All the time she is outside is very scared. We walk about a fifty yards and then return her to the kennel, where she is once again very happy to be with her mom (assumed). This shelter works very hard not to euthanize animals, unfortunately it does occur. I think the odds of someone adopting Candy when she is this shy is very low. Naturally the noise level from barking dogs is not helping the situation. However my wife and I are full up with animals at home, and can't foster another. I'm looking for an appropriate treatment plan to use with Candy to see if some of her shyness can be alleviated. Otherwise at some point in time if she isn't adopted the inevitable will occur. My opinion is likely to cause a good bit of controversy but I'm going to post it anyway. I think the kindest thing that can be done for Candy is either euthanize her or make the stipulation that she cannot be adopted with her mother. The latter poses a problem though. Should the mother be euthanized when she'd otherwise gain adoption interest due to someone not wanting to take on two dogs at once, and an extremely shy one at that? I don't think so. Dogs who are *that* shy live a miserable existence IMO. They live in constant fear of people and noises. Their anxiety level must be through the roof and, to me, there's no kindness in forcing such a dog to live with people, let alone adapt to new people in a new environment. Shyness can be overcome in most dogs but not in all and it depends heavily, IMO, on the severity of the case. It could be the shelter environment that has caused her shyness but somehow I doubt it. If the sibling didn't have this problem, as I assume since its was adopted, and the mother doesn't have this problem, then I think its safe to say that its Candy individually and its probably not going to ever be cured. It could be diminished over time with the right kind of owner but without that owner this dog will probably continue to live in an internal hell. -- Tara |
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"Tee" wrote in message
... My opinion is likely to cause a good bit of controversy but I'm going to post it anyway. I think the kindest thing that can be done for Candy is either euthanize her or make the stipulation that she cannot be adopted with her mother. Sorry, that should say "without her mother." -- Tara |
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"Tee" wrote in message
... My opinion is likely to cause a good bit of controversy but I'm going to post it anyway. I think the kindest thing that can be done for Candy is either euthanize her or make the stipulation that she cannot be adopted with her mother. Sorry, that should say "without her mother." -- Tara |
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"Tee" wrote in message
... My opinion is likely to cause a good bit of controversy but I'm going to post it anyway. I think the kindest thing that can be done for Candy is either euthanize her or make the stipulation that she cannot be adopted with her mother. Sorry, that should say "without her mother." -- Tara |
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"Tee" wrote in message
... My opinion is likely to cause a good bit of controversy but I'm going to post it anyway. I think the kindest thing that can be done for Candy is either euthanize her or make the stipulation that she cannot be adopted with her mother. Sorry, that should say "without her mother." -- Tara |
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