I am new to this and couldn't figutre out how to post a reply to my
original post about Begbie and Chris etc...

I just wanted to thank people for their thoughtful replies - we
haven't resolved the issue yet but it helped to have some outside
advice. I am still rather torn up about this, though. A lot of you
suggested we get a behavorist but as I mentioned we are relly broke.
We live outside of montreal...if anyone knows one in our area who
would work with us for minimal cost I would be eager to do so and
wouldhappily invest the time and energy even if the funds are not
available.

In any event I am still soliciting advice so please if you stumble on
this look for the original post and read the whole crazy-long rant and
share your thoughts with me - opps gotta run - Nathaniel is switching
channels

Lisa