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Getting second dog
We adopted a 4 year old male cocker spaniel about 9 months ago. Now,
we're thinking about getting a second cocker (we're looking into possibly getting another adult one from the same rescue group). My only concern is that our dog now is too dominant to share the house with another. He's not aggresive around other dogs, he will get into occasional fights with his cousin - but he's definitely not submissive (one thing we did learn at a friend's house, when he didn't back down to their boxer). When we choose a dog, should we choose one that will be submissive to him, so that he can show them who's boss and there won't be any horrible fighting. I'm terrified that we'll get a dog and have to take them back because they both try and be dominant. And I'm especially scared as we'll be leaving them alone together for 10 hours each day- who knows what could happen when we're not there. What have been your experiences with this? Also, is it wise to get a male or female cocker with our male? |
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(Lisa) wrote:
Also, is it wise to get a male or female cocker with our male? Definitely a female. Did he share space with other dogs when he was in rescue? If so, how did he do? (Ask them.) Canine Action Dog Trainer http://www.canineaction.com My Kids, My Students, My Life: http://hometown.aol.com/dfrntdrums/m...age/index.html |
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(Lisa) wrote:
Also, is it wise to get a male or female cocker with our male? Definitely a female. Did he share space with other dogs when he was in rescue? If so, how did he do? (Ask them.) Canine Action Dog Trainer http://www.canineaction.com My Kids, My Students, My Life: http://hometown.aol.com/dfrntdrums/m...age/index.html |
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(Lisa) wrote:
Also, is it wise to get a male or female cocker with our male? Definitely a female. Did he share space with other dogs when he was in rescue? If so, how did he do? (Ask them.) Canine Action Dog Trainer http://www.canineaction.com My Kids, My Students, My Life: http://hometown.aol.com/dfrntdrums/m...age/index.html |
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Lisa wrote:
We adopted a 4 year old male cocker spaniel about 9 months ago. Now, we're thinking about getting a second cocker (we're looking into possibly getting another adult one from the same rescue group). My only concern is that our dog now is too dominant to share the house with another. He's not aggresive around other dogs, he will get into occasional fights with his cousin - but he's definitely not submissive (one thing we did learn at a friend's house, when he didn't back down to their boxer). When we choose a dog, should we choose one that will be submissive to him, so that he can show them who's boss and there won't be any horrible fighting. I'm terrified that we'll get a dog and have to take them back because they both try and be dominant. And I'm especially scared as we'll be leaving them alone together for 10 hours each day- who knows what could happen when we're not there. What have been your experiences with this? Also, is it wise to get a male or female cocker with our male? If you can separate the dogs when the female is in heat, then take a female, the chances that they fight are much less, even if some females can be very dominant as well. In any case, if you decide to take a second dog let the dogs decide for you: I mean let the dogs meet on a neutral terrain, where none of them has ever been, so you'll not have any territorial fight. And them let them meet each other. You'll immediatly see whether it's going to work. The dogs will follow their instinct and if you observe their behavior you'll see if they can establish an order in the group. If your dog is domimant he will behave as the alpha dog, and if the other one is not dominant it will lay down on his back. A fight between two dogs in the same household is not such a strange thing: dogs in the wild live in a pack and there will always be one alpha dog. Once they anderstood who is the leader there will be no more fights. Good luck! Ornella |
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Lisa wrote:
We adopted a 4 year old male cocker spaniel about 9 months ago. Now, we're thinking about getting a second cocker (we're looking into possibly getting another adult one from the same rescue group). My only concern is that our dog now is too dominant to share the house with another. He's not aggresive around other dogs, he will get into occasional fights with his cousin - but he's definitely not submissive (one thing we did learn at a friend's house, when he didn't back down to their boxer). When we choose a dog, should we choose one that will be submissive to him, so that he can show them who's boss and there won't be any horrible fighting. I'm terrified that we'll get a dog and have to take them back because they both try and be dominant. And I'm especially scared as we'll be leaving them alone together for 10 hours each day- who knows what could happen when we're not there. What have been your experiences with this? Also, is it wise to get a male or female cocker with our male? If you can separate the dogs when the female is in heat, then take a female, the chances that they fight are much less, even if some females can be very dominant as well. In any case, if you decide to take a second dog let the dogs decide for you: I mean let the dogs meet on a neutral terrain, where none of them has ever been, so you'll not have any territorial fight. And them let them meet each other. You'll immediatly see whether it's going to work. The dogs will follow their instinct and if you observe their behavior you'll see if they can establish an order in the group. If your dog is domimant he will behave as the alpha dog, and if the other one is not dominant it will lay down on his back. A fight between two dogs in the same household is not such a strange thing: dogs in the wild live in a pack and there will always be one alpha dog. Once they anderstood who is the leader there will be no more fights. Good luck! Ornella |
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Lisa wrote:
We adopted a 4 year old male cocker spaniel about 9 months ago. Now, we're thinking about getting a second cocker (we're looking into possibly getting another adult one from the same rescue group). My only concern is that our dog now is too dominant to share the house with another. He's not aggresive around other dogs, he will get into occasional fights with his cousin - but he's definitely not submissive (one thing we did learn at a friend's house, when he didn't back down to their boxer). When we choose a dog, should we choose one that will be submissive to him, so that he can show them who's boss and there won't be any horrible fighting. I'm terrified that we'll get a dog and have to take them back because they both try and be dominant. And I'm especially scared as we'll be leaving them alone together for 10 hours each day- who knows what could happen when we're not there. What have been your experiences with this? Also, is it wise to get a male or female cocker with our male? If you can separate the dogs when the female is in heat, then take a female, the chances that they fight are much less, even if some females can be very dominant as well. In any case, if you decide to take a second dog let the dogs decide for you: I mean let the dogs meet on a neutral terrain, where none of them has ever been, so you'll not have any territorial fight. And them let them meet each other. You'll immediatly see whether it's going to work. The dogs will follow their instinct and if you observe their behavior you'll see if they can establish an order in the group. If your dog is domimant he will behave as the alpha dog, and if the other one is not dominant it will lay down on his back. A fight between two dogs in the same household is not such a strange thing: dogs in the wild live in a pack and there will always be one alpha dog. Once they anderstood who is the leader there will be no more fights. Good luck! Ornella |
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Lisa wrote:
We adopted a 4 year old male cocker spaniel about 9 months ago. Now, we're thinking about getting a second cocker (we're looking into possibly getting another adult one from the same rescue group). My only concern is that our dog now is too dominant to share the house with another. He's not aggresive around other dogs, he will get into occasional fights with his cousin - but he's definitely not submissive (one thing we did learn at a friend's house, when he didn't back down to their boxer). When we choose a dog, should we choose one that will be submissive to him, so that he can show them who's boss and there won't be any horrible fighting. I'm terrified that we'll get a dog and have to take them back because they both try and be dominant. And I'm especially scared as we'll be leaving them alone together for 10 hours each day- who knows what could happen when we're not there. What have been your experiences with this? Also, is it wise to get a male or female cocker with our male? If you can separate the dogs when the female is in heat, then take a female, the chances that they fight are much less, even if some females can be very dominant as well. In any case, if you decide to take a second dog let the dogs decide for you: I mean let the dogs meet on a neutral terrain, where none of them has ever been, so you'll not have any territorial fight. And them let them meet each other. You'll immediatly see whether it's going to work. The dogs will follow their instinct and if you observe their behavior you'll see if they can establish an order in the group. If your dog is domimant he will behave as the alpha dog, and if the other one is not dominant it will lay down on his back. A fight between two dogs in the same household is not such a strange thing: dogs in the wild live in a pack and there will always be one alpha dog. Once they anderstood who is the leader there will be no more fights. Good luck! Ornella |
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Ornella Schavemaker-Piva wrote:
Also, is it wise to get a male or female cocker with our male? If you can separate the dogs when the female is in heat, then take a female, the chances that they fight are much less, even if some females can be very dominant as well. Generally, in the US, if you get a dog from rescue, it either already has been altered, or you are contractually obligated to alter it. So, being in heat shouldn't be an issue for the new dog. In any case, if you decide to take a second dog let the dogs decide for you: I mean let the dogs meet on a neutral terrain, where none of them has ever been, so you'll not have any territorial fight. And them let them meet each other. You'll immediatly see whether it's going to work. Since the OP's dog is more dominant, they should look for a less dominant dog to match up with theirs. When they meet, ideally, they should maybe sniff and then ignore each other. Also ok is instigating play. If they get all defensive (hackles up, growling, other aggressive posture), it's likely not going to be a good match, and you'd want to find another dog. The dogs will follow their instinct and if you observe their behavior you'll see if they can establish an order in the group. If your dog is domimant he will behave as the alpha dog, and if the other one is not dominant it will lay down on his back. As much as people may want their older, established dog to be the dominant one, sometimes that just doesn't work, and the dogs do indeed need to work out their own places. A fight between two dogs in the same household is not such a strange thing: dogs in the wild live in a pack and there will always be one alpha dog. Once they anderstood who is the leader there will be no more fights. It would be better if there were no fights at all! Getting into a bit of a tiff is far different from an out and out fight. I'm not so sure I could handle two dogs in my house fighting. The tiffs? They happen, and rarely need any intervention on my part. natalie -- What fresh hell is this? --- Dorothy Parker |
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