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Separation anxiety solutions?
I have a two-part problem, which I'm trying to solve seperately, hense the
seperate posts. I have a 1yr old Maltese X Japanese dog, who was neglected (confined to a crate most of the day most of his puppy-hood) and never trained. He was then abused and went through a pretty traumatic time with the abuse, a sudden vet trip, then being planted into my house (I'd never met the dog, and I have 3 cats which have never lived with a dog). So I expected separation anxiety once I bonded to him, because he got more attention from me the first weekend I had him than I'm sure he got most of his life previous to that. And sure enough, he's got it. When I come home, he barks, whines, jumps up, spins in circles, makes this HORRIBLE piercing noise which honestly hurts my ears and is generally psycho for at least 5 minutes. I don't want to crate train him, because he already spent his whole life in a crate and I don't want him to have to do that with me, but I will if I have to. I've tried ignoring him, but it's next to impossible when he's screaming in my ear as I untie my shoes, jumping on my legs and arms and being a jerk. I've tried making him sit and be quiet when I came in--when he used to be tied up in the basement--but it would take me 15 or 20 minutes to take the 6 steps towards him and he would whine and squeal about being left there when I left him and I live in a condo, so I can't **** off my neighbours. I don't know what else to do. I work full time and I live alone, so I can't really ease him into this. I leave him for 2 seconds (to throw my garbage on the front step or go out to lock the car door) and he's whining, screeching, jumping when I come back... what do I do???? Thanks in advance for ANY suggestions. Melissa |
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"Melissa" wrote in message
news:%KmDd.725148$Pl.371552@pd7tw1no... I have a two-part problem, which I'm trying to solve seperately, hense the seperate posts. I have a 1yr old Maltese X Japanese dog, who was neglected (confined to a crate most of the day most of his puppy-hood) and never trained. He was then abused and went through a pretty traumatic time with the abuse, a sudden vet trip, then being planted into my house (I'd never met the dog, and I have 3 cats which have never lived with a dog). So I expected separation anxiety once I bonded to him, because he got more attention from me the first weekend I had him than I'm sure he got most of his life previous to that. And sure enough, he's got it. If you're positive he has SA (and its not unlikely given the events you describe) then Google different sites to gather information for how to work with SA. Different people have found different methods, or rather different variations of the same method, to work for them & their dogs. Its good to have several ideas or a well-rounded plan of action & understanding from the start. I, as many others here, could tell you what we've done for dogs with SA but I think you'd find the same on the net and keep in mind that all dogs are different as are their degrees of anxiety. When I come home, he barks, whines, jumps up, spins in circles, makes this HORRIBLE piercing noise which honestly hurts my ears and is generally psycho for at least 5 minutes. I looked up the Japanese Chin to see if this piercing thing was a breed trait but found nothing of the dogs vocal characteristics. I've only ever heard of one dog breed being a screamer and that's the Basenji. So I don't know if its a breed trait or if its something he learned early on from not getting attention & being confined all the time. Maybe he found that the louder he got the faster he'd get attention. Everything else you describe is fairly common for an excited dog, even one who has had a good upbringing. I don't want to crate train him, because he already spent his whole life in a crate and I don't want him to have to do that with me, but I will if I have to. You can go about it the right way, make it a good place for him and be implementing a management/safety system for those times you're at work. That wouldn't be abuse or neglect. Most people who've lived with dogs with SA have found crates invaluable for the dog's safety first & foremost and for the benefit of having their homes protected from an anxious dog. IME SA dogs, at least the breed I've worked with, find more comfort & safety from being crated than they do being left free. Getting a crate that is large enough for the dog to stand, turn-around & stretch out in but not so large that they have a ton of extra space or so small that they're cramped is key. I've tried ignoring him, but it's next to impossible when he's screaming in my ear as I untie my shoes, jumping on my legs and arms and being a jerk. He's not trying to be a jerk nor does he realize that's your impression of his actions. Have you considered immediately walking him when you get home. Come in, snap the leash on, go right back out the door (even if its only 5 minutes). This will help him work off some of that excitement so that when you get back home he shouldn't be screaming in your ear. Let him concentrate on sniffing the ground & spinning around outside rather than inside. I've tried making him sit and be quiet when I came in--when he used to be tied up in the basement--but it would take me 15 or 20 minutes to take the 6 steps towards him and he would whine and squeal about being left there when I left him and I live in a condo, so I can't **** off my neighbours. Don't leave him tied in the basement. Try the crate, at least its something he's already familiar with & if he's like most dogs, he won't eliminate in it. I don't recommend ignoring him when you're home because that could be adding to any problems he has. If your concern is not being able to watch him all the time then try attaching a leash to yourself and the other end to the dog so he's always within 10' of you. Dogs want to be with people, especially when they know people are home & moving about. The more you keep him with you & work with him the faster he'll learn what's allowed & what's not. I don't know what else to do. I work full time and I live alone, so I can't really ease him into this. I leave him for 2 seconds (to throw my garbage on the front step or go out to lock the car door) and he's whining, screeching, jumping when I come back... what do I do???? Take him with you. Don't leave him when you're home. It takes work and I know what its like to have a job & single-handedly raise a dog but you either make it work to everyone's benefit or admit defeat and rehome the dog. -- Tara |
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"Melissa" wrote in
news:%KmDd.725148$Pl.371552@pd7tw1no: When I come home, he barks, whines, jumps up, spins in circles, makes this HORRIBLE piercing noise which honestly hurts my ears and is generally psycho for at least 5 minutes. I have to tell you I really LOVE the excitement that Zoe shows when I come home -- yes, there is jumping involved (although she doesn't bark at me). Who else is so frantically happy to see me??? I myself am loud and effusive when I see her, in response to her enthusiastic greeting. The cat steers clear of us at these times. I think it's ok to make a big fuss at homecoming, and to feel good that your dog is VERY HAPPY to see you. --Catherine & Zoe the cockerchow |
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Tee wrote:
"Melissa" wrote: When I come home, he barks, whines, jumps up, spins in circles, makes this HORRIBLE piercing noise which honestly hurts my ears and is generally psycho for at least 5 minutes. I looked up the Japanese Chin to see if this piercing thing was a breed trait but found nothing of the dogs vocal characteristics. I've only ever heard of one dog breed being a screamer and that's the Basenji. And Eskies. (ACDs have a pretty obnoxious shriek, too, but the ones I know use it sparingly.) ... Everything else you describe is fairly common for an excited dog, even one who has had a good upbringing. Yup. I've tried making him sit and be quiet when I came in-- Self control is learned, and it takes time. That's what you're asking of this dog, yes? That he control his excitement? You probably need to work on the basics of self control under less challenging circumstances. Don't leave him tied in the basement. Try the crate, at least its something he's already familiar with & if he's like most dogs, he won't eliminate in it. I don't recommend ignoring him when you're home because that could be adding to any problems he has. If your concern is not being able to watch him all the time then try attaching a leash to yourself and the other end to the dog so he's always within 10' of you. Dogs want to be with people, especially when they know people are home & moving about. The more you keep him with you & work with him the faster he'll learn what's allowed & what's not. Very good advice! -- Mary H. and the Ames National Zoo: Raise A Fund, ANZ Babylon Ranger, ANZ MarmaDUKE, and Rotund Rhia |
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"Mary H Healey" wrote in message
... Tee wrote: I looked up the Japanese Chin to see if this piercing thing was a breed trait but found nothing of the dogs vocal characteristics. I've only ever heard of one dog breed being a screamer and that's the Basenji. And Eskies. (ACDs have a pretty obnoxious shriek, too, but the ones I know use it sparingly.) Learn something new everyday -- Tara |
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"Melissa" wrote:
I don't want to crate train him, because he already spent his whole life in a crate and I don't want him to have to do that with me, but I will if I have to. He probably feels very safe, secure, and comfortable in a crate. Certainly better off crated in your bedroom overnight than tied in a basement. As for separation anxiety: http://www.ddfl.org/behavior/separtn.htm -- Family Dog Trainer "It's A Dog's Life" http://hometown.aol.com/dfrntdrums/m...age/index.html Get Healthy, Build Your Immune System, Lose Weight http://www.re-vita.net/dfrntdrums |
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