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Can anyone give me ideas on how to get my 5 month old Aussie mix to do better when he is restrained?? He is nasty when restrained, growls and trys to bite. he's fine otherwise, very friendly and very playful. Please help Aimee |
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Hello Aimee,
Aimee S wrote: Can anyone give me ideas on how to get my 5 month old Aussie mix to do better when he is restrained?? That's EZ. He is nasty when restrained, growls and trys to bite. That's NORMAL. That's why the folks you're asking have NO advice for you, IN FACT, they've got the same same same same PROBLEMS themselves. he's fine otherwise, Naaah? very friendly and very playful. UNTIL HE'S OPPOSED, just like US: " wrote: No, the dog learned that I would hold still the second she began to pull. She would pull to go where *she* wanted. Well if she wanted to stop and go in another direction.. say to sniff my neighbors yard.. she learned if she wanted to do it I would stop walking and she could go.. and if there wasn't enough slack on her lead she would just pull me. Then when she got done doing *her* thing, she woudl heel.. smile at me and wait for me to say "let's go" and finish *my* thing. I would refuse to move .. i looked like an idiot.. freezing mid walk for minutes waiting for *my* dog to heel and give *me* permission to go again. I did the treats and the let's go... she got to do her stuff and get a cookie.. if she even wanted the cookie. I wound up calling Jerry.. as I have a half red nose pit and half amstaff.. who is incredibly protective.. we had a new pup on the way.. and i needed help.. i followed petsmarts trainnign guides.. memorized them... and they *did* work, don't get me wrong.. but only when my pet wanted a cookie or felt the cookie was better than what she wanted.. which was not often. She quickly learned to ignore my commands if she could see my hands were empty. So I called Jerry... he chatted me for about an hour and a half.. gave me his link... and even when i had probs intro'ing the pup he called me withn i5 mins of my email for help at 10pm on a sunday night. One.. singular.. uno family pack exercise after the hot and cold exercise and i could zig zag down my street.. about face .. whatever.. and never had tension. two men were acrossed the street and she walked right by them... ordinarily she'd snarl and protect us. And in two days.. my dog.. who bit the puppy if he even looked like he was going near my husband or kids.. is nursing him every hour.. cleaning him.. rough housing gently.. and teaching him to go potty outside.. actually watches him to make sure he doesn't go in the house... and has milk.. which is awesome since she's 19 months old and has never had a litter. She also has stopped barking non stop at our neighbor's dogs and pig.. does not bark at eveyr car that drives by and has stopped jumping on people. she's even starting to ignore our cat who has lived on her dome litter box and our window sill (literally) for over a year and a half. She also does her commands on cue.. and doesn't look for a treat. Please help Here's EVERY THING you got to learn: {#}: ~ } 8 { ~ :{@} {#}: ~ } { ~ :{@} {#}: ~ } { ~ :{@} {#}: ~ } { ~ :{@} {#}: ~ } http://www.tinyurl.com/7bl5u { ~ :{@} {#}: ~ } { ~ :{@} {#}: ~ } { ~ :{@} {#}: ~ } { ~ :{@} {#}: ~ } 8 { ~ :{@} http://www.irishdogs.ie/Information/...g_Training.pdf Aimee Punishment Deranges Behavior. "NO!" Does NOT Have Any Behavioral Function EXCEPT To DERANGE Behaviors. Here's professor dermer pryor: From: Marshall Dermer ) Subject: Jerry's Dog Training Manual Date: 2001-07-12 06:49:13 PST And how do we know this aspect of his advice is right? Jerry is not God and his manual is not the Bible. His advice could be subject to an empirical analysis. (Also, it is best to killfile posts from the few regulars here who are either ill-tempered, ill-mannered, or just plain ill.=AD), --Marshall "At this point, "No" does not have any behavioral function. But, if you say "No,"pick up the puppy by its neck and shake it a bit, and the frequency of the biting decreases then you will have achieved too things. First, the frequency of unwanted chewing has decreased; and two, you have established "No" as a conditioned punisher. How much neck pulling and shaking? Just the minimum necessary to decrease the unwanted biting. **********IS THAT A CONSISTENT 5 SECONDS?************ When our dog was a puppy, "No" came before mild forms of punishment (I would hold my dog's mouth closed for a few seconds.) whereas "Bad Dog" came before stronger punishement (the kind discussed above). "No" is usually sufficient but sometimes I use "Bad Dog" to stop a behavior. "Bad Dog" ALWAYS works," marshall dermer, research professor of ANAL-ytic behaviorISM at UofWI. For MOORE animal abuse, please visit dr p. BWAHAHAHHAHAAAA!!!!! That's INSANE. Ain't it. Here's professor dermer AFTER gettin JERRYIZED: "We Are Lucky To Have You, And More People Should Come To Their Senses And Support Your Valuable Work. God Bless The Puppy Wizard," Professor Marshall Dermer, Dept Of ANAL-ytic Behavior, UofWI. From: "Marshall Dermer" To: "The Puppy Wizard" Sent: Friday, July 23, 2004 2:53 PM Subject: God Bless The Puppy Wizard Dear Mr. Puppy Wizard, I have, of late, come to recognize your genius and now must applaud your attempts to save animals from painful training procedures. You are indeed a hero, a man of exceptional talent=AD, who tirelessly devotes his days to crafting posts =ADto alert the world to animal abuse. We are lucky to have you, and more people should come to their senses and support your valuable work. Have you thought of establishing a nonprofit charity to fund your important work? Have you thought about holding a press conference so others can learn of your highly worthwhile and significant work? In closing, my only suggestion is that you try to keep your messages short for most readers may refuse to read a long message even if it is from the wise, heroic Puppy Wizard. I wish you well in your endeavors. --Marshall Dermer Subject: BEFORE - "Jerry, You filthy, Unctuous, No Good Charlatan," AFTER - "Thank You Jerry For Putting Up With A Constant Barrage Of Really Infantile Crap At The Hands Of Supposedly Adult Dog Lovers. 'Naive' Is Believing You Can Terrorize A Dog Into Good Behavior," Robert Crim. Subject: Fritz---a retrospective Date: 02/05/1999 Author: Robert Crim You filthy, unctuous, no good charlatan. If you had any idea of what dogs and dog people were about you would realize the depths of the absolute loathing and contempt I hold for you right now. Were it not for the blessed distance and anonymity that the internet gives us from the scummy likes of you, I would probably be in a jail cell right now for turning you into the pile of **** you really are Hey, Howe, you really are a wacko, eh? Crim wrote this about *YOU,* you insipid piece of cow dung! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! -- Dogman http://www.i1.net/~dogman =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3 D=3D=3D=3D=3D On Thu, 17 Jun 1999 20:24:15 -0700, dogsnus "Terri"@cyberhighway Wrote: Hey, do like me, and killfile Jerry. He has millions of people aleady reading his posts and watching him extract his soggy foot out of his mouth! Out of these MILLIONS, I've only seen 2 naive childs come forward and actually believe in his training manual. Robert Crim writes: I assume that I and my wife are those two naive childs since I freely admit to having read and, I hope, understood enough of the manual and it's counterparts by John Fisher and the posts of Marilyn Rammell to believe and use it. This naive child would like to say thank you to both Jerry and Marilyn for putting up with a constant barrage of really infantile crap at the hands of supposedly adult dog lovers. The other naive child (LSW) has to put up with the nagging idea that if people like them had been posting earlier, maybe we would not have had to hold the head of a really magnificent animal in our arms while he was given the needle and having to hug him and wait until he gasped his last gasp. To my mind, "naive" is believing you can terrorize a dog. Naive is believing that people that hide behind fake names are more honest than people that use their real names. Naive is thinking that dilettante dog breeders and amateur "trainers" like Joey (lyingdogDUMMY, j.h.) are the equal or better than those that have studied and lived by their craft for decades. "Stupid" is believing that people do not see kindergarten level insults for what they are. Really stupid is believing that people like Jerry Howe and Marilyn Rammell are going to just go away because you people act like fools. Why do you act like fools? I really have no idea, and I don't really care. And, to date: I've not seen ONE come forward and actually admit to buying and having success with his little black box. I think I'm going to get one myself for Father's day and take it down to the Animal Shelter for their use and testing. You would never believe the results, so you'll never know. Anyone by now that doesn't see a scam man coming by Jerry's posts deserves to get what is sure to be coming to him! LOL! I don't see a "scam man", so I guess I and Longsuffering Wife and Rollei will just have to get what we deserve, eh? As Joey (Dogman) says, "poor Rollei.".......right. Terri Yes it was, and that is sad. Robert, Longsuffering Wife and Rollei (do I get to listen to the box first?) =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D Crim wrote THAT about *YOU,* tommy, "you insipid piece of cow dung!" BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! From: "George von Hilsheimer, Ph.D." To: "Jerry Howe" Subject: Alleged Professors of Animal Behavior Date: Fri, 19 Aug 2005 12:50:51 -0400 Dear Jerry, I paged through some of the "dog business" and was astonished at the low quality of opinions arising from professors of behavior analysis. I had the very great privilege of meeting Sam Corson (Pavlov's last Ph.D. student) and his dogs at Ohio University. I even got to spend a night at Sam's house. There is no question but that you are a spiritual brother to Corson and to Pavlov, both of whom knew that the dog's great capacity for love was the key to shaping doggie behavior. Paradoxical reward and paradoxical fixing of attention are both well documented Pavlovian techniques. Even so humorless a chap as B.F. Skinner taught students like the Breland's whose "The Misbehavior of Organisms" demonstrate the utility of your methods and their deep roots in scientific (as opposed to commercial) psychology. George von Hilsheimer, Ph.D., F.R.S.H. you may find my resume in Who's Who in Science and Technology From: "George von Hilsheimer, Ph.D." To: Sent: Tuesday, January 04, 2005 5:38 PM Subject: Doggy advice Scott, Jerry Howe forwarded me the letter below. I'm glad that you referred negatively to Jerry's habit of CAPITALIZING and HOWEING everything. I personally hate this habit of his. I think it is his way of diluting his authority - IME he is a very modest fellow. However, contrary to your sneer, he is very competent at living with dogs. I thought I'd list a series of actions which I found on the list, folk asking advice on what to do about dogs doing this and that, for example: whining, humping, hunching, pacing, self mutilation - paw licking, side sucking, spinning, prolonged barking, barking at shadows, overstimulated barking, fighting, bullying other dogs, compulsive digging, compulsive scratching, compulsive chewing, frantic behavior, chasing light, chasing shadow, stealing food, digging in garbage can, loosing house (toilet) training. inappropriate fearfulness aggression. The thing that is fascinating to me, as an ethologist who graduated from college 50 years ago and has spent all of the intervening time working with animals (including the human animal), is that you never see any of these behaviors in wild dingoes, jackals, coyotes or wolves, you don't even see these behaviors in hyenas (who aren't dog related). You see these behaviors in human managed animals, especially animals who live with neurotic hysterical humans. As Sam Corson (Pavlov's last student) demonstrated for nearly 50 years at Ohio University (Oxford, O.) there is no treatment more useful for dogs than tender loving care. George von Hilsheimer, Ph. D., F. R. S. H., Diplomate, Academy of Behavioral Medicine "Linda" wrote in message news: I have been trying for the last 18 months to help my dog who became fear aggressive at 18 month of age. I do not know what started the problem but he came aggressive first with dogs and then began lunging and snapping at people. Until this time he loved everyone and could play with any dog. He was well socialized ad I took him with me everywhere. At 13 months he passed the Canine Good Citizens Test except he could let me leave him. I had used clicker training to teach him manners and tricks but it was not working on his aggression problem. I took him to vets who suggested a low protein diet, trainers who charged $800 to only make him worse. They tried to use a prong collar and he froze, urinated and tried to climb on my head to help him. they then suggested a shock collar I knew this approach was not working as he was becoming more aggressive. I took him to an animal behaviorist with Ph. D. 400 miles away who told me to "KEEP HIM SAFE" and read a book on the fearful canine. I tried another trainer who tried to use a nylon chock collar but it only made him worse. I read hundreds of books,"CULTURE CLASH", "DOG ARE FROM NEPTUNE", "THE OTHER END OF THE LEASH", ETC looking for help. We finally went to Purdue University Small Animal Behavior Clinic and they said he had fear aggression, punishment would not work, use the gentle leader and when out walking and he got stressed have the people stop until he could get in control using treats, and work on clicker training. At that point I knew more about clicker training and using the gentle leader than they did! Nothing was working--he would not come when I called him and would run away when I tried to catch him. I was afraid to walk him even in the neighborhood as we had become that "mean dog and women who hasn't trained her dog" I went to four trainers in both Michigan and Florida who were trainer/specialists in aggression and the last two were so afraid of him they could not approach him. No one said I should give up on him and kill him but they would say "You have to realize he is dangerous and you are responsible for him." *(You got LUCKY, Linda... They coulda got Sunshine DEAD on us. Damned near did... too.) As last resort I tried the internet again--I had had on going discussions with trainers from Triple Crown and Dr Meister with out any help-and I found the ad to Doggy Do Right and messaged Jerry to ask if this might help my dog. He said solving the aggression problem was EZ but I could not believe him even when I downloaded the manual. The name of the method was right I was at my Wits End. I had been working for 18 months! Using the can sound three time he came, and still comes from anywhere with the command-"comegoodboy" Next I tried the can when walking him--when he saw a dog three blocks away he went off-lunging and snapping-I used the can sound and he looked at me like uhn? I used it three more times and we got to the other dog- -the looked at me wagging his tail--the other person looked at me like why are shaking that can but just walked on by. When ever I try to explain about the sound people look at me like "you must be out of your mind" The results can make a believer!!! Three weeks since beginning the Wits End Training Manual program I walked him without the gentle leader in a busy shopping area with many dogs. He just seemed to not notice any one. When people talked to him or ask his name he would look at then and wag his tail and let then pet him. I still can not believe the change in him--we can now enjoy life out in public. If I had not found the Wits End method I know there was no hope for him and he would have hurt someone Through all this he never growled at me, guarded his toys or food or showed any sign of aggression with me. My goal is to get the message out to all dog lovers that dogs can be trained fast, easily and problems solved with out force, pain, food or anything but sound and praise!!!! I know most people would have given up on him a long time ago but he was and is my life. Solving the problem was EZ but only with the right approach-sound and praise. I know because I tried everything else and nothing worked!!! =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3 D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D From: Linda Daniel To: Jerry Howe Sent: Monday, January 06, 2003 1:06 AM Subject: - dog aggression Thanks for writing--I would be happy to do almost anything to get your approach out to dog owners as I know it would save so many lives. I know at times I was so frustrated I thought of giving up on Sunshine but of course I never would have but many people would have. The world just does not know you can train a dog in just a few sessions and actually solve problems. We will be here until late April and we really have no plans- -just to enjoy the warmth and sun of Florida, so any time you could meet us would be great. I drive so I would be happy to come to you anytime anywhere! We went to Celebration today and two little poodles got right into his face and he just sat there--I GOT a little scared but he handled it just fine.--a couple of times people would ask his name and want to pet him and he just went to them tail wagging and rolled over for them rub his tummy. He really just is not concerned about people passing, even those on rollerblades! I have always used a gentle leader in public but he spent most of time rubbing his face on the grass--today I used his collar and he was so much happier!! Only problem is he will stop to smell and I can not get stopped soon enough to keep the leash loose. He never pulled ahead of me but when he gets into smelling I have a hard time getting him going--at times I think he could smell a blade of grass for 10 minutes. I can never thank you enough for giving Sunshine back!!!!! I wrote to Purdue and told them about him being able to walk in a crowd with out the /gentle leader and not having a problem with other people and dogs. I told them their advice did not work. Their advice was to use the gentle leader at all times and when he was around people or dogs to have him sit and reward with treats--one really good suggestions was to have people coming toward us stop when he got stressed or aroused and not move until we backed away- - can you just see me yelling at people to stop on the street until I get his attention with treats. They also suggested the possibility of using drugs-prozac- but thought he was too dangerous as the drug would make him less fearful and then he might attack or become more sure of himself and become dominate aggressive. Just had to share their great advice with you but I am sure you have heard it all--even I am becoming an expert on bad advice. ---------------------------------- ("`-''-/").___..--''"`-._ `6_ 6 ) `-. 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On Thu, 6 Oct 2005 17:51:32 -0400 Aimee S whittled these words:
Can anyone give me ideas on how to get my 5 month old Aussie mix to do better when he is restrained?? He is nasty when restrained, growls and trys to bite. he's fine otherwise, very friendly and very playful. What does the instructor at your dog training class say? Do you not practice such things in class? It should be a part of any normal pet manners class. Sounds like you need to find a better quality instructor. -- Diane Blackman There is no moral victory in proclaiming to abhor violence while preaching with violent words. http://dog-play.com/ http://dogplayshops.com/ |
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"Aimee S" wrote in message ... Can anyone give me ideas on how to get my 5 month old Aussie mix to do better when he is restrained?? He is nasty when restrained, growls and trys to bite. he's fine otherwise, very friendly and very playful. what do you mean "restrained"? on leash? in a crate? tied out in the yard? behind a fence? -kelly |
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HOWEDY culprit,
culprit wrote: "Aimee S" wrote in message ... Can anyone give me ideas on how to get my 5 month old Aussie mix to do better when he is restrained?? Yeah. culprit's gonna DEMONSTRATE. He is nasty when restrained, growls and trys to bite. he's fine otherwise, very friendly and very playful. Perhaps she's got a seven thousand dollar kat? what do you mean "restrained"? on leash? in a crate? tied out in the yard? behind a fence? -kelly You mean like your shock fence, culprit?: From: "culprit" Date: Thu, 24 Jun 2004 14:15:46 -0700 Subject: another tragedy today Mo-kitty woke up in a large spot of blood. his wound had been bleeding all night. i took him to the vet, who said that this was not abnormal, did some blood tests, and sent him home with me. since he's not allowed to groom himself, he had quite a bit of blood on him, which i was going to clean up later. i dropped of Mo upstairs, as usual, and headed down to let the dogs out of their crates. for some reason i'll never know, Mo followed me downstairs. he never does this. and i didn't hear him coming. however, the dogs did. they ran to investigate, and found a strange smelling, bloody cat in their house. needless to say, they attacked him. poor Mo had that stupid cone on his head and couldn't see to escape. he was weak and sick and didn't have a chance. he didn't survive the trip back to the vets. he died in my lap on the way there. i'm in shock right now. everyone is telling me to get the dogs out of the house to deal with my grief, but how can i deal without them? they didn't understand that what they did is wrong, they're not people. they smelled blood and instinct took over. i thought about getting rid of them for about two seconds. but i can't. i love them too much. and i need them more than ever right now. poor dogs, they know something is wrong, and they're all cuddled up to me. they don't even know that they caused my suffering. i'm not angry at them. just sad at Mo's passing. after all that work to make him well, for him to die in this way... it's like a cosmic joke. like a bad movie. i'm emotionally torn. i'm numb. and i'm so very tired. -kelly Are Radio Fences Inhumane? Experiences? HOWEDY frank1492, "frank1492" wrote in message ... Just getting ready to buy one and would like your opinions. Thanks. Frank Here's the IN-complete story (short version) of HOWE culprit aka kelly aka metta (metta is culprit aka kelly's aka on the MENTAL PERSONS news groups) TRAINED HER DOGS to MURDER HER DEAD KAT: -kelly From: culprit ) Subject: Video clip......."Nero" practicing bark alert, while walking backwards Date: 2004-06-05 18:53:50 PST "micha el" wrote in message ... Anyway, contrary to your PR, this is what it felt like to me when I got shocked by Hope's collar. It felt like a bomb going off in my hand and forearm. there are different brands of fences, and each one has a variety of settings, set to the dog's specific reaction. Lola's collar is set to give more juice than Manu's, because she's more likely to ignore the buzz, whereas Manu wants nothing to do with it. i have no idea what brand or setting Hope's collar was set at. there's also the fact that Hope has lots of thick fur and a good fat layer (to keep her warm in the water) and my dogs are scrawny and nekkid. so maybe Hope needs a higher setting to work for her. it's really hard to say without comparing the collars directly. and you're right, if Lola really wants out of the yard, she'll run through the fence. the annoyance doesn't keep her in, which is why she's always supervised outdoors. Manu, OTOH, is happy to stay as far from the fence as he can. what can i say, he's part eevil pit bull and part fraidy cat. -kelly From: culprit ) Subject: we got "the fence" Date: 2004-02-14 15:48:26 PST after having the appraisal for the real fencing coming out at over $11,000, we decided to put up an invisible fence, just until we can save some cash for the real one. after we put up the real fence, the invisible one will probably remain as a "fail safe" to keep the dogs off the real fence. yes, i'm aware of most of the cons, i've always been against them myself, until i talked to a lot of people who have them, and had the invisible fence trainer come out to meet the dogs. i'll only be letting them out when i'm home and can keep a direct eye on them, and we've discussed it with all of the neighbors, and they've committed to containing their dogs, so they won't come into my yard unless invited. anyway, we had it installed outside today, and started the indoor part of training. we decided to put the training fence on the stairway, since the cats like to hang out up there and the dogs aren't allowed to go up. we put up a baby gate just past the invisible barrier, so that they can't go through it, even if they want to. i tried the collar on myself before we let the dogs try it, and while it is uncomfortable, it's not painful, and i'm comfortable with the dogs wearing it. we thought Manu would require a higher setting than Lola, because she's pretty sensitive to correction, and he is a big meathead who doesn't feel a thing. this played out with the first part of training, with Lola turning around and leaving the steps at the first buzz, and Manu just standing there, wagging his tail, like he didn't feel a thing. we upped the setting three more times before Manu "got it", and then he immediately turned around and didn't go up the steps at all after that. the weird thing is that Lola, who was clearly bothered by the experience, kept trying to go up to get the cat's area anyway. this confirmed something i had suspected. Lola may be more sensitive to correction, but she also has more "drive", and will put up with something she dislikes longer than Manu will. Lola sat on the steps, cycling through the collar's three 10 second failsafe cycles, then tried to climb over the baby gate as though nothing had happened. we decided to up the correction one setting, with the theory that she'd find it so unpleasant it would stop her from climbing the steps, then we'd turn it back down once she realized she shouldn't be up there. unfortunately, she never did realize it, so we had to leave it on the higher setting. so hers is set lower than Manu's, but she reacts a lot more strongly to it (scratching at her neck, etc) than he does. we'll keep the indoor boundary set up, and keep testing the dogs with it (hiding behind the railing and meowing usually does the trick) so that they're familiar with the warning tone. Manu is already pretty sure he knows what it means, and whenever Lola trips it, he'll bite her hind leg and pull her down the steps so the tone stops. he's such a big brother, always trying to keep sis out of trouble. the outdoor training will begin later in the week, i'll post updates once we get done with them. -kelly From: "culprit" Date: Wed, 3 Mar 2004 10:47:05 -0800 Subject: dominance struggles yeah, i knew it was bound to happen... Manu and Lola are both 18 months old this week. and life has been getting a bit more interesting around the house. when Manu first came to live with us, Lola submitted to his bullying and life was pretty good. he ate first, went outside first, left his crate first, and got the first hello pets in the morning. he watched her food bowl diligently, and as soon as she wasdone, he licked it clean. he stole her toys, and she let him, most of the time. their play was rough and tumble, but not scary. and once in a while, he'd mount her, and she'd just stand there, as though she didn't notice. things have recently changed. we're still treating Manu as though he's in charge, but Lola as stopped acting like she agrees with us. it started innocently enough, he'd get excited at something outside and go to mount Lola, and she just sat down. didn't look at him, didn't snap, just sat. so obviously, he couldn't do much of anything. then she started getting possessive over toys. and not just toys she had in her mouth, any toy he looked at. she started snapping at him if he glanced at her wrong. just now, Manu was laying on the choice spot in front of the fire. normally Lola would lay behind him, but she just sat on his head, so she could be closer to the fire. this is new behavior, and it's worrying me. yesterday, we were playing with a soccer ball in the yard. i'd kick the ball, both dogs would run for it, and they'd nose it around between them until i kicked it again. sounds simple enough, right? apparently Manu looked at the ball inapropriately, because Lola just freaked out. they've made scary noises and showed teeth before, but no one got hurt. this was not like anything i've see either one of them do. they got into a fight, and i was alone out there with them. i picked up Lola by the chest, and tried to pull her off, but that didn't work. so i grabbed Manu's jaws (upper in one hand and lower in the other) and opened his mouth, then i kind of inserted myself between them and pushed Lola away with my body. i put them both in a down stay, and they just lay there, panting, as though nothing had happened. but something had. Lola has a puncture completely through her ear, and several scratches on her mouth. Manu has scratches around his mouth, and the webbing between his toes is cut and keeps bleeding all over my floor. and i have a nice C shaped bruise, about the size of a pit bull's dental imprint on my arm. and it's swollen to about half again it's size. *sigh* what used to be little "i'm in charge" signals have recently escalated to the dogs not being allowed to play together without two adults to supervise them. i know that having two dogs of this breed can be difficult, so i don't need any "i told you so's" there. i know that having two adolescent dogs can be a challenge, regardless of breed. and i know that Lola is obviously not happy with being the bottom dog here. the question is, what can i do? i've always supported Manu as top dog, because he's always been the one that showed the signs, while Lola passively sat there. if it's going to change, do i need to change my behavior? or do i just "let them work it out" and hope they don't kill each other? recently, i've been keeping a close eye on them, and if a toy becomes a point of contention, i put it away. if they start getting snappy or growling, i give them the "easy" command and they go to their separate corners. am i managing this right? is there something i'm missing that could make this easier? it will get better when they decide who's in charge, right? any good books that go into this? -kelly From: "culprit" Date: Mon, 7 Feb 2005 13:51:57 -0800 Subject: my brother's dog my brother and his family have a dog named Wiley. he's supposedly 1/4 Dane, 1/4 Mastiff, and 1/2 Lab. i'm not sure i see the Mastiff, but there's definitely some Dane in there. he's adorable, friendly, goofy, and extremely devoted to my niece and nephew. typical sad dog story my brother wants to get rid of the dog. Wiley wants to live inside with the family, but with two kids, a small house, and a large, energetic, one year old dog, my brother would prefer that Wiley live outside most of the time. my bro says the dog wants to be with the family all the time, and won't go outside when the family doesn't want to play. so he's looking for a new home for Wiley. /typical sad dog story we're considering taking Wiley in. he's young, submissive, neutered, very dog friendly, and has played well with my dogs in the past. i'm confident he'll fit in well with my dogs, as far as energy level and play style, and i'm pretty sure he'll accept his place at the bottom of the pack. i know every time i talk about considering a third dog, everyone jumps in to tell me it's a bad idea... but i'd really hate to see Wiley in a shelter. he's a needy, people oriented dog, and i'd really enjoy having him in my household. is it really such a bad idea? my dogs have figured out their places in the household, they no longer fight or scuffle, they're calming down and learning to be "adults". it seems like it wouldn't be a bad time to add a dog to the group. my fianc=E9 and i work different hours, so the dogs are only alone for 4 hours a day max. we have a huge (1.5 acre) yard, they have plenty of room to run and play, and of course live inside the house. i really want to do this, even knowing that i'll be putting off my dream of having a show dog for 10 years or so. *sigh* i feel like i already know what will be suggested, but i just love this dog so much, i can't stand to see him in a lesser environment than my home. -kelly From: "culprit" Date: Fri, 6 Feb 2004 15:55:36 -0800 Subject: how to be a good neighbor/ recall issues or rather, how not to be a good neighbor, and how do i fix it? today, while walking Lola, her leash came off her collar. my fault entirely, as i must not have snapped it on completely. i'll be giving it a good tug before leaving the house from now on. i immediately turned and took off towards the house, Lola followed (thank goodness). then we played the lovely game called, "i'm off leash, and you can't catch me!" yeah, i think it's time to do some recall work again. it's been so long since she's been out offleash, this is the first time in our new house, that she just didn't want to come back inside. can't say i blame her, i wish we could afford to put up that fence already. i'd call her to me, she'd come, then at the last minute jump away from my grip and take off. of course, i kept trying, which reinforced the "let's play" aspect of it. anyway, the neighbor came out to make sure his dog was safe (not only safe, but wagging his tail so hard his body was wagging with it. i don't think he has had this much fun in years), and tried to help me catch her. she ran up to the neighbor's porch, and pushed open the half shut door. then she ran through their brand new house (she's covered in mud, mind you) until chased out. the neighbor's wife was screaming the whole time and kicked at her as she slammed the door shut. then Lola ran up to my porch and asked to be let in, happy as can be. obviously this can't happen again. we're going to install an invisible fence, just until we can afford a real one, and of course i'll still be supervising them while they're out. they just need a chance to run every day. our 1.5 mile walks aren't doing it. i keep thinking that if she were allowed to run around outside when she wanted to, it wouldn't be such a big deal, and she'd be more willing to come back home when asked. obviously we need to work on that recall again. probably starting over from scratch. it's just been so nasty outside. we have no lawn yet, so the yard is just mud and standing water, and it's always cold and raining, so outside practice is not exactly pleasant. the problem is, she comes easily every time in the house, meaning we *need* the outside practice. so i guess i'm going to have to get hip waders or something so we can practice outside. any suggestions on "fixing" her recall are welcome. also, if anyone knows a good recipe for "i'm sorry my dog wrecked your house" cookies, let me know. -kelly From: "culprit" Date: Tue, 30 Mar 2004 12:33:30 -0800 Subject: "distraction training" we're supposed to do "distraction training" with the invisible fence. the idea being that we toss a ball or something to the other side of the fence, with the dog on a leash, and make sure they don't bolt through the fence after it. ok, no problem. but how do you really know how they'll respond off leash? apparently, you throw a deer at them. yesterday, i had just let Manu outside, when i realized there was a very frightened doe standing in the middle of the yard, staring at me. Manu noticed her quickly, and took off. i've NEVER seen him run like that. apparently deer make for great exercise! anyway, the deer bounded through the yard and into the neighbor's field (she obviously hasn't met their GSD), and Manu stopped well before the fence. he then sniffed along the fence boundry for a bit, then turned around and ran back inside. so now we know. Manu can be trusted not to leave the yard. i don't think i'll try this test with Lola. -kelly From: "culprit" Date: Wed, 7 Apr 2004 20:11:25 -0700 Subject: fear aggression? how does one recognize "fear aggression", as separate from other types of aggression? and does it matter what causes the aggressive behavior? Lola is no longer allowed to play with dogs who aren't Manu. i don't think she's aggressive in the classic pit bull sense (going nuts at the sight of another dog, unprovoked attacking, etc). but there's something going on with her that i'm not ok with. see, she's really submissive. overly so. her general reaction to a strange dog is to run up to them, crouch down, lick their chin, then roll onto her back. this is all well and good, but the older she gets, the more other dogs seem to find this behavior annoying, and growl at her. this is what our neighbor's Lab does, he growls at her and does some dominant posturing, and she just licks more frantically and gets more wound up, crawling frantically on her belly, rolling onto her back, then back to her tummy, and all the while licking their chin and mouth. yesterday, the neighbor kid was over with their lab, we were throwing balls for the dogs to chase, and at one point, Lola did the submissive puppy thing. Hershey started growling, and when she was on her back, he opened his mouth and put it on her throat (not biting, just posturing). she freaked out and did her "scary pit bull noise" thing that doesn't seem to involve actual teeth on fur contact, but is scary to watch and isn't allowed. i pulled her off, but not before she had received three wounds requiring stitches, multiple small cuts, and was pink with blood. the poor girl is has been trembling and whining since she came home from the vet, and Manu has nearly licked her fur off trying to comfort her. obviously the neighbor's dog is not coming over any more, and i won't be letting Lola play with other dogs from now on. but i'm still trying to figure out why she does that. she's so obnoxious with the submissive posturing, we call it "aggressively submissive". what's that all about? and when she suddenly fights back, is that fear aggression? or is she suddenly remembering she's a pit bull? if it is fear based, does that mean it's possible to train out? or should i not even bother, based on her breed? you know, as much as i love my dogs, and as much as i adore the breed, i'm seriously considering getting pugs when they pass on. -kelly "The Puppy Wizard" Date: Thu, 15 Jul 2004 21:46:10 GMT Subject: nasty dog HOWEDY culprit aka kelly aka metta (metta is culprit aka kelly's aka on the MENTAL PERSONS news groups so she doesn't get a REPUTATION for bein a CRAZY PERSON on the non crazy person's news groups), "culprit" wrote in message ... "kellie hudson" wrote in message ... All of a sudden my normally placid, English Bull Terrier (about5 1/2 years old) has started getting very vicious with new visitors to the house. He's fine with people he knows, but any stranger he attacks, he's only started doing this in the last 3-4 months, Anyone got any ideas on why he's doing this and how we can get him to stop second the vet check. You're a MENTAL CASE, culprit. REMEMBER? Your own opposite sex / raised together dogs ATTACKED EACH OTHER and put the both of them in the emergency HOWEspital two weeks after you began SHOCKING THEM. They TERRORIZED your KAT when IT stayed behind your SHOCK FENCE causing a STRESS INDUCED AUTO- IMMUNE DIS-EASE which necessitated a $1500.00 SURGERY. THEN your dogs MURDERED IT despite that they too, was RAISED TOGETHER. sudden behavior changes in a mature dog Like when your dog ran away from you and ESCAPED into your neighbor's HOWES terrorizing them and gettin mud all over it? are often a sign something is wrong. Shocking and jerking and choking your dogs on pronged spiked pinch choke collars and shocking them and taking anti psychotic psychotropic medicatons for many years with NO SUCCESS is a SIGN of SUMPTHIN WRONG, kelly aka culprit aka metta. has his behavior changed in any other way? No, he's PROTECTING his HOWES, culprit aka metta aka kelly. i'd definitely have his eyes and hearing checked. There's NO reason to "CHECK" nuthin till the dog is TRAINED not to do that in a few minutes, if you knew HOWE. my friend's "Birds of a feather." Shar Pei recently became blind, Blindness can be CAUSED by STRESS, culprit. Like cate's DEATHLY ILL dog Orson. and the first sign they had was that she displayed aggression to people she didn't know. Your FRIEND is likeWIZE a MENTAL CASE. because she couldn't see them. That's INSANE. Blind dogs don't FEAR things unless they've BEEN ABUSED, culprit. -kelly Newsgroups: alt.support.depression.medication Date: 2004-04-15 00:54:24 PST In article , "metta" wrote: "Robin" wrote in message ... You're probably right, but you're going to get this stuff on many boards. You'd be surprised the hostility and behavior on rec.pets.dogs.breeds. I make it a policy never to respond to this stuff. It is inconsequential, and I ignore it. wait, are you Robin with the sweet Shar Pei mix? if so, i'm kelly, usually post as culprit. decided to use different names in the support groups because certain trolls there were using people's medical histories against them. :-S anyway, hello to you! -kelly Nope, different Robin. Planning to get my first dog from one of the rescue organizations. I've seen your name there. I haven't posted there much, but when I do, it's under the name "Robin". From: metta ) Subject: choices. Newsgroups: alt.support.dissociation Date: 2004-05-12 15:26:35 PST something new happened this week. or maybe not new, but newly noticed. had a f*ght with SO. and felt bad, at fault, responsible for causing him to be mad with me. the usually negative stuff. and i thought, i should let this go. it's not my fault, i'm not bad, it's just a little thing, not important (this is the "new" me, things i learned from it, from meditation, from growing up...). and then i decided that no, i wanted to slip. i wanted to screw up and be bad. i wanted, no, needed to be bad. to be responsible. to be at fault for everything. i needed to feel helpless, hopeless, pointless. i ached to feel that black ball of pain taking over my heart again. it's been so long. i wanted to be destructive, to me and everything around me. i took lots of klonopin, lots of soma, drank much wine. slept on the couch, couldn't be near SO, couldn't think of the good things in my life. needed to keep this badness around me. woke up, had a test to take, so took test and passed, but still felt icky, wanted to go home and take more klonopin. but decided instead to have lunch with a friend. because i didn't want to feel bad anymore. didn't want to e responsible for bad feelings. didn't want to make myself hurt more. so went to lunch and did some breathing and felt better. and now feel back to normal, everything is fine, life is happy and good and my mood is wonderful. but i keep thinking about that moment of choice. i *knew* i was choosing to feel bad. i could have stopped it. i could have been smart and banish the negative thoughts. but i didn't want to. this is new for me, being healthy, happy, not blaming me for everything that goes bad. and sometimes i feel like i don't know how to be healthy. i don't know how to be "sane". and it would be so much easier to just slip back into destructive habits. to be bad me again. i'm scared that i'll make that choice again. but not choose to come back to my "good" life. i'm scared i'll stay bad me. why did i need to be bad so much? i think this has to do with m*thr's day. stupid stupid day. *sigh* -kelly -- did we expect that life was ever fair, my god... i sowed a field of rose and reaped a whipping rod From: metta ) Subject: quotes for this time tomorrow Newsgroups: alt.support.dissociation Date: 2004-05-12 15:10:40 PST "Eridanus" wrote in message news:1gdj6hk.1jj4jhu19tneuoN%kalasin@olsonnetwork. com... I haven't seen it. But now I want to. I don't have to catch the bus to my p-rent's for another hour and a half! Woohoo! I don't have any MAJOR MAJOR issues with mine, I just don't like them much. And I'm hermiting. be careful, it's about an ab*sive m*thr. please don't watch it if that's difficult for you. i didn't know how movies like that affected me before, cuz i had my em*tions so squashed down inside, and didn't notice at the time. now i get very uncomfortable when i watch things like that. and i'm supposed to be "better". hmph. -kelly -- did we expect that life was ever fair, my god... i sowed a field of rose and reaped a whipping rod -toad the wet sprocket From: metta ) Subject: Electric brain quake effect? Newsgroups: alt.support.depression.medication Date: 2004-05-12 14:43:44 PST "Drew" wrote in message 1... Kelly, I stopped three days ago. I still have a bottle in the medicine cabinet. I was only on it for eight weeks so I don't expect to have it as bad as folks on it for months or years. withdrawal tends to be worse for people who have only taken it a short while. yes, that's weird, but it seems to be true. I never felt better on it anyway. Maybe it wasn't depression at all, just bitterness in a failed (to use the term loosely) relationship. I originally thought it would help to shake her out of my mind but it never worked. if you only took it for eight weeks, you have no way of knowing whether it would work or not. you need to give it at least a month before you can tell if it's working. either way, good luck... -kelly From: metta ) Subject: Switching Medication Newsgroups: alt.support.ocd Date: 2004-05-07 16:29:24 PST Blank "joanna.lacey" wrote in message news:c6Tmc.626$z06.263730@attbi_s01... Hi guys, I'm in the process of switching from zoloft to effexor. My med level is low and my depression and wandering thoughts are high. I don't like it. I don't want to freak out in the store again, you know what I mean? What is the highest dose for Effexor. I'm down to 50mg. of zoloft until it is 0 and at 75mg of effexor. I'm sure it can go higher right? The only good thing is I'm more horny than I was before. I've been sweating like crazy and my contamination, perfection ocd is bugging me badly. --------------- i'm taking 150 of Effexor, and when i switched from paxil, i just quit the paxil and started at 75 of effexor, then upped it to 150 in two weeks. the Effexor is my miracle drug, it really changed my life. i hope it works well for you... -kelly From: metta ) Subject: benzos and birth control Newsgroups: alt.support.anxiety-panic Date: 2004-05-05 22:24:01 PST i was on depo and klonopin at the same time and didn't have any problems with it. the package insert for depo doesn't say anything about interactions with benzos. it does, however, say it's contraindicated in anyone with a history of depression. good luck... -kelly From: metta ) Subject: wellbutrin--what to expect? Newsgroups: alt.support.depression.medication Date: 2004-04-29 19:45:31 PST "LostBoyinNC" wrote in message ... Not at all. Not a chance. The drugs that cause movement disorders are drugs that create dopamine blockade, primarily anti-psychotics. SSRIs also have the potential to create mild, transient movement disorders such as akathisia or bruxism. Drugs like Wellbutrin actually help movement disorders, although wellbutrin's effect on dopamine is so mild it wouldnt really improve a real movement disorder. weird, it made me twitch. Its also the preferred AD for bipolar. this makes no sense to me, as there's a warning right on the label that it can induce manic states, and should be used with caution in bipolar patients. -kelly From: metta ) Subject: obsessed Newsgroups: alt.support.ocd Date: 2004-04-30 20:39:01 PST i talked with my SO about four hours ago. he said he might drop in to my office on his way home. that's the last i heard from him. and now, i can't stop calling his cell phone. he's not answering and i know he'll see the billion calls from my number and be mad at me, but i can't stop calling him. what if something horrible happened to him? where is he? what if he got into an accident and is in the hospital? just can't stop calling him. *sigh* he's probably out playing cards with the guys, talking about how "controlling" i am., because i keep calling. but all i can think of is what if there's something wrong, i have to call him. i hate this crap. -kelly From: metta ) Subject: obsessed Newsgroups: alt.support.ocd Date: 2004-04-30 20:44:43 PST "metta" wrote in message ... of course, the second i post this, he calls me back. his cell was on silent. *sigh* now if i can just get all this adrenaline out of my bloodstream... -kelly |
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I'm sorry, I should have explained better, I talking about when I have to hold him still, like to give him a pill, or when he was at the vets to be fixed, he had a FIT when they tryed to hold him down to give him a shot. A few months ago, I wanted his hips checked, he had to be held still for x-rays, he growled and tryed to bite them because he can't stand to be held still. He is also crazy if put in a crate, but sleeps in the bathroom fine. He doesn't start obedence class till next month.. So no instructor yet |
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On Fri, 7 Oct 2005 10:48:03 -0400, (Aimee S),
clicked their heels and said: I'm sorry, I should have explained better, I talking about when I have to hold him still, like to give him a pill, or when he was at the vets to be fixed, he had a FIT when they tryed to hold him down to give him a shot. Give a pill - try HANDING it to him, with or without adornment. Most dogs don't need to be "pilled" - they eat them willingly, if not plain, with some peanut butter or cheese or such, or the new "pill pockets". Shots aren't heavy restraint - hold him DOWN? And neutering is with anesthesia of course ;-D It IS important for your dog to accept restraint of course. I would suggets that YOU restrain him lovingly every single day, with a food reward at the ready. Make him think restraint brings good things. A few months ago, I wanted his hips checked, he had to be held still for x-rays, he growled and tryed to bite them because he can't stand to be held still. No relaxant at all? For an untrained dog? egads. He is also crazy if put in a crate, but sleeps in the bathroom fine. Was he acclimated to the crate as a young puppy? Where is the crate? He doesn't start obedence class till next month.. So no instructor yet Good that he's starting though. Work on this every day as described above, and you're on your way, but obedience is the ultimate answer. -- Janet B www.bestfriendsdogobedience.com http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/bestfr...bedience/album |
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