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Euthenasia - How do I decide when?
My dear golden is 14 and showing some real signs of old age. Her back end
is getting weaker and weaker. She stopped jumping in the car about a year ago and now falls in her stuff more and more while going to the bathroom. She seems happy but her back legs are really getting weak. Bathroom mistakes inside the house are getting more common. When is it time to put her to sleep? Does anyone have any advice on this? Some of our friends are sayng we should just do it and get another dog, but they don't seem to understand it's not a car, it's a great old girl that's been through a lot with us. We are going to have to live with this decision for a long time. thanks, Carlton |
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Euthenasia - How do I decide when?
"Carlton" said in rec.pets.dogs.health:
She seems happy but her back legs are really getting weak. Bathroom mistakes inside the house are getting more common. When is it time to put her to sleep? This is the toughest call of them all, and yours is way more difficult than many because your dog is dieing of old age and not some quantifiable medical condition. You know your dog better than anyone else. I looked for specific quality of life issues when I thought that I'd be making a similar decision. What does your Golden enjoy most of all? -- --Matt. Rocky's a Dog. |
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Euthenasia - How do I decide when?
Carlton wrote: My dear golden is 14 and showing some real signs of old age. Her back end is getting weaker and weaker. She stopped jumping in the car about a year ago and now falls in her stuff more and more while going to the bathroom. She seems happy but her back legs are really getting weak. Bathroom mistakes inside the house are getting more common. I myself have a hard time understanding just why you would even consider such a drastic step at this stage? Yes, if she was in constant pain, couldn't swallow, paralyzed, etc....it might be understandable. An ex-girlfriend of mine once had a story tacked on her bathroom wall that told from the dogs perspective to his/her owner. One line I remember from it was "And once I am older and not as strong as I once was, please don't turn your back on me, and when it is my time to go, let me go in your loving arms". Of course this is strictly from memory and I am sure I flubbed it up, but you get the point. Maybe someone can post this? It is real touching. To me my dogs are family and I would do anything to have them be with me, even if for only one more day. Please don't take this as criticism but more of hoping you really think over such a big decision. CTV |
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"Carlton" wrote in message . .. My dear golden is 14 and showing some real signs of old age. Her back end is getting weaker and weaker When is it time to put her to sleep? ..........These are highly individual decisions.....and probably the hardest one you'll ever make. We're all afraid we'll wait too long and our pets might be in pain. First, though, I think you should talk to your vet about some NSAIDs for arthritis. Please make sure they do some blood tests to check liver and kidneys before she takes the meds. It may be enough to help with unsteadiness. At the same time talk to your vet about the procedure of euthanasia so you'll know what to expect when the time comes. Your vet may also offer the service of coming to the house. ......Most people will tell you that one day you'll just *know* your pup is not having a good time and wants to cross the bridge. If you've never had to go through this before you might not believe it, but it's generally true. enjoy your pup every day buglady take out the dog before replying |
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Euthenasia - How do I decide when?
"Cartrivision1" wrote in message ups.com... I myself have a hard time understanding just why you would even consider such a drastic step at this stage? Yes, if she was in constant pain, couldn't swallow, paralyzed, etc To me my dogs are family and I would do anything to have them be with me, even if for only one more day. .........sometimes it's not in the dog's best interest to stay with you one more day. Most dogs are more stoic about pain that we are and it's hard to tell how much pain they're in......until they're out of it. buglady take out the dog before replying |
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"Carlton" wrote in
: When is it time to put her to sleep? Does anyone have any advice on this? I have never had to do this, but here is what I plan on using to determine when it is time. I will pick three things that Moogli likes doing. When he can no longer do two of the three, then it will be time to start thinking about euthanizing. -- Marcel and Moogli |
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Euthenasia - How do I decide when?
On Wed, 29 Nov 2006 12:42:11 GMT, "buglady"
wrote: ... To me my dogs are family and I would do anything to have them be with me, even if for only one more day. ........sometimes it's not in the dog's best interest to stay with you one more day. Most dogs are more stoic about pain that we are and it's hard to tell how much pain they're in......until they're out of it. buglady Thank you so much, Buglady. That very important point needed saying by a respectable person, like you. __________________________ When I count my blessings, I count my dog twice. |
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Euthenasia - How do I decide when?
On Wed, 29 Nov 2006 04:42:16 GMT, "Carlton" wrote:
My dear golden is 14 and showing some real signs of old age. Her back end is getting weaker and weaker. She stopped jumping in the car about a year ago and now falls in her stuff more and more while going to the bathroom. She seems happy but her back legs are really getting weak. Bathroom mistakes inside the house are getting more common. When is it time to put her to sleep? Does anyone have any advice on this? Some of our friends are sayng we should just do it and get another dog, but they don't seem to understand it's not a car, it's a great old girl that's been through a lot with us. We are going to have to live with this decision for a long time. I can never address such posts and keep a dry eye. :-) As you see, opinions vary. Nearly all of us would agree there is no way to ease the pain of saying "Goodbye." Medical technology has enabled us to keep dogs, and people, alive an unnaturally long time. Her falling in her feces and going inside the house are not reasons to help her out. The reason is because she knows this is not how she wants to exist. At 14, your dog's days are number, whether you intervene or not; but you get to choose how you will remember her. You can do things to keep her alive or you can help her cross the bridge with her dignity intact. "Just do it" is definitely not what I would say, but yes, I believe you should end your dog's suffering now. Hopefully, your vet would make a house call for such an extreme cause. If you do not know what to expect from a lethal injection, you should find out. I'll be happy to describe what I've witnessed many times. It is peaceful beyond imagination. As for getting another dog, I strongly urge you to do just that. It is Not disrespectful to the loved one you've lost. In fact, it is a tribute! It says, "The dog I lost inspires me to love you, too!" No one is silly enough to consider a new dog "a replacement!" That is unrealistic, but every dog has similarities and differences. You will find yourself appreciating both in your new dog. My dog, Tang, doesn't know this, but when I'm hugging him, I'm also hugging Max, Nightbear, Sheba and Teddy. I encourage you to visit http://www.petloss.com. Read "The Rainbow Bridge." I understand that a dog is "not a car," but if we have a good experience with a particular brand, we're apt to get another one like it. Fortunately, the odds of finding a suitable new dog are better than replacing a car. :-) For what its worth, regardless of what you decide, for the next few months or years, you will wonder if you made the right decision. And then one day, you'll realize the answer. I am saddened by what you're facing. ___________________ A dog's life is too short; their only fault really. |
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Michael A. Ball wrote: I'll be happy to describe what I've witnessed many times. It is peaceful beyond imagination. I'll bet you would, in loving detail, too. Anyway, if somebody who's never seen your dog says "Yes! Euthanize your dog now!!" or "No! Don't euthanize your dog now!!" you know you're dealing with a moron or an asshole or both. It's a difficult, extremely personal decision and one that needs to be made in consultation with your usual veterinarian, not some kill-happy idiot with his own agenda. There are several more-or-less objective criteria that people recommend, including if the dog has more bad days than good over the course of a week or if the dog can no longer do two out of three of his favorite things. But as either buglady or Sharon posted earlier, you'll almost certainly know in your gut when it's time - a light goes out inside the dog he he seems to lose hope himself. It's probably the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but it's a blessing for the dog to let him go when the time comes. But you've got to trust that you know your dog well enough to recognize when he tells you it's time, and absolutely don't rely on some creep you've never met. -- Melinda Shore - Software longa, hardware brevis - Prouder than ever to be a member of the reality-based community |
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Euthenasia - How do I decide when?
Melinda Shore wrote:
In article , Michael A. Ball wrote: I'll be happy to describe what I've witnessed many times. It is peaceful beyond imagination. You are one creepy dude. I'll bet you would, in loving detail, too. Even when everything goes right--and there are no guarantees that it will--I wouldn't describe it as "peaceful beyond imagination." Anyway, if somebody who's never seen your dog says "Yes! Euthanize your dog now!!" or "No! Don't euthanize your dog now!!" you know you're dealing with a moron or an asshole or both. It's a difficult, extremely personal decision and one that needs to be made in consultation with your usual veterinarian, not some kill-happy idiot with his own agenda. What she said. Also, I'm not sure even a vet should be offering up that sort of advice, unless it's become a humane issue. It's probably the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but it's a blessing for the dog to let him go when the time comes. But you've got to trust that you know your dog well enough to recognize when he tells you it's time, and absolutely don't rely on some creep you've never met. A-freaking-men. I've had the luxury of only having to euthanize one of my own pets. Nothing I'd read or been told about it--even from close friends who regularly performed euths--prepared me for it. It was both easier and harder than I had ever imagined. -- Shelly (Warning: see label for details) http://www.cat-sidh.net (the Mother Ship) http://esther.cat-sidh.net (Letters to Esther) |
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