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mixing techniques, direct e-mail responses and killfiles
I've had my border collie 3 months, since she was 8 wks old. Before I
learned about the praise methods I used my old system and she already responds pretty well to the old loud NO command that mostly stops her in her tracks when she's running full speed at the inadvertently open gate toward the deep growl of a HD motorcycle or a Cummins diesel lumbering by. I'm pretty sure shaking a rattle at her just then would not do the trick, and might cost her her life. Similarly, when she is attacking a subterranean critter, tossing the can right near her just causes a slight flinch as she continues gleefully drilling down into the sod, grass and dirt flying. Re the other issue, I've been hanging around the sci.med.vision newsgroup for over 15 years, and have never been insulted by receiving direct inquiries from people who would rather keep their problems private, nor have I ever been told I had insulted anyone when I had discreetly e-mailed them some advice directly. BTW I've never used a killfile. I just skip over spam, trash and troll bait. I wouldn't want to miss a diamond in the rough. Anyway, I will make one small observation. There are some up tight people on this group. Relax. Life's too short. I just got back from a funeral (Sue McNew, the 2nd grade teacher who was killed by the teenaged racers in Folsom, CA was a friend of mine). Enjoy and love your dogs, your spouses, and your kids while you have them. You won't always have them. |
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mixing techniques, direct e-mail responses and killfiles
"William Stacy, O.D." wrote in
et: Re the other issue, I've been hanging around the sci.med.vision newsgroup for over 15 years, This is not sci.med.vision. and have never been insulted by receiving direct inquiries from people who would rather keep their problems private, nor have I ever been told I had insulted anyone when I had discreetly e-mailed them some advice directly. It's not necessarily an issue of being insulted, though that may certainly be the case. I know that I do not particularly care to get private newsgroup-related e-mail from people I don't "know." The bigger issue, though, is that this is a public discussion forum. Encouraging on-topic discussions to be taken to e-mail does the group a disservice. Really. If you are looking for someone to exchange e-mail with, there are a metric arseload of mail lists out there. Or, if you want to discuss the resident loon's "methods" with him, why don't you contact *him* directly? Because, like I said, I doubt anyone else here is interested in that particular topic. Anyway, I will make one small observation. There are some up tight people on this group. Relax. Life's too short. Since we're in dispensing unwanted and unasked for advice mode, you should spend less time worrying about what other people worry about. Enjoy and love your dogs, your spouses, and your kids while you have them. You won't always have them. It's kind of presumptuous of you to think that you are telling people something they don't already know. -- Shelly http://www.cat-sidh.net (the Mother Ship) http://esther.cat-sidh.net (Letters to Esther) It is a mistake to think you can solve any major problems just with potatoes. -- Douglas Adams |
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mixing techniques, direct e-mail responses and killfiles
Shelly wrote:
Or, if you want to discuss the resident loon's "methods" with him, why don't you contact *him* directly? Because, like I said, I doubt anyone else here is interested in that particular topic. Really? The few people who have responded with information have acknowledged that the general methodology is in fairly common usage. If nobody else here is interested in that methodology or even the topic, then maybe there are some closed minds around here? If there is any value at all to the method, people should be willing to discuss it even if one of the major proponents is a bit quirky and even abrasive in his internet demeanor. |
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mixing techniques, direct e-mail responses and killfiles [eggplant]
[eggplant] tag added
"William Stacy, O.D." wrote in news:MDDsh.36415 : Shelly wrote: Or, if you want to discuss the resident loon's "methods" with him, why don't you contact *him* directly? Because, like I said, I doubt anyone else here is interested in that particular topic. Really? The few people who have responded with information have acknowledged that the general methodology is in fairly common usage. If nobody else here is interested in that methodology or even the topic, then maybe there are some closed minds around here? Saying that Jerry's methods are common and were not invented by him is not discussion. If there is any value at all to the method, people should be willing to discuss it even if one of the major proponents is a bit quirky and even abrasive in his internet demeanor. Discussion is only true if both sides of the discussion are willing to, well, discuss. When one sides "discussion" abilities are limited to calling you a dog-abusing thug, the discussion gets kinda old. Note that I have added the tag [eggplant] to the header. FYI, that is a tag added by the regs of the ng to allow others to filter out discussions of Jerry's manual and his techinques. There are a large number of people who want nothing to do with him or anything to do with him. Should you wish to discuss him, or with him, I recommend placing [Jerry] or [eggplant] in your subject line, so that people can filter on that, and not be forced to filter you. -- Marcel and Moogli |
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mixing techniques, direct e-mail responses and killfiles [jerry]
[cross-posting snipped]
snip What were you saying about not liking cross-posting?? When replying to Jerry, ALWAYS, watch the newgroups line. He tends to crosspost all of his postings to many groups. -- Marcel and Moogli |
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mixing techniques, direct e-mail responses and killfiles [jerry]
Marcel Beaudoin wrote:
[cross-posting snipped] snip What were you saying about not liking cross-posting?? When replying to Jerry, ALWAYS, watch the newgroups line. He tends to crosspost all of his postings to many groups. Sorry. It's been a long day. Thanks for the reminder... |
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mixing techniques, direct e-mail responses and killfiles
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William Stacy, O.D. wrote: Re the other issue, I've been hanging around the sci.med.vision newsgroup for over 15 years, and have never been insulted by receiving direct inquiries from people who would rather keep their problems private, nor have I ever been told I had insulted anyone when I had discreetly e-mailed them some advice directly. It's a weird local culture thing. I don't get it either, but I figure you can either ignore it and tromp all over people or you can make a trivial effort to respect the culture that's evolved here. Anyway, I will make one small observation. There are some up tight people on this group. And that's *just* the sort of observation that's going to get you off on the right foot with the newsgroup! Combine that with the Jerry dialogue and you're destined to be everybody's new best friend!! Take a class, read a book. -- Melinda Shore - Software longa, hardware brevis - Prouder than ever to be a member of the reality-based community |
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mixing techniques, direct e-mail responses and killfiles [eggplant]
"William Stacy, O.D." wrote in
. net: Really? The few people who have responded with information have acknowledged that the general methodology is in fairly common usage. Some of his "methods" are common. If I were wanting to have an actual discussion about them, I'd divorce them from Howe. Others of his "methods" are batshit crazy, and surely not anything he cribbed from another source. His advice, when he does bother to give any, is often dangerous-to-lethal. The thing is, Jerry is not a dog trainer. If he were what he claims to be, there would be some sort of independent evidence. There is not. No one--not even those in his local dog community-- has heard of him. He originally started outright spamming the dog newsgroups with a website, manual, and magic black box he purchased from a "get rich quick on the web" company. When his spamming was not met with a favorable response, he started in with the crazy talk and the around the clock cross-posting. He's a scammer-spammer who lost his mind somewhere along the way. Perhaps it wasn't attached too firmly to begin with? If nobody else here is interested in that methodology or even the topic, then maybe there are some closed minds around here? Not closed. Just very, very tired of the subject. Do you have any idea how long he's been abusing rpd*? If there is any value at all to the method, people should be There you go again, with bossypantsing. You have no business telling other grown-ups what they *should* be doing. willing to discuss it even if one of the major proponents is a bit quirky and even abrasive in his internet demeanor. Howe goes beyond "a bit quirky" or "abrasive." He's clearly got mental health issues. I, for one, think it's unkind to taunt and toy with the disabled. If you want to do so, knock yourself out. But--like I said--just don't be surprised if no one wants to join in. -- Shelly http://www.cat-sidh.net (the Mother Ship) http://esther.cat-sidh.net (Letters to Esther) Don't spill my bones my precious stones once belonged to a girl too gullible to ever be taken for serious mettle -- Susan McKeown, Bones |
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