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Interim update on "Lucky", and what is a "dog person"?
Yesterday, Helene and I took Lucky from the vet's where she was being
boarded at $20/day, and had made reservations for her to be boarded, closer, at $25/day. On the way back, we stopped at the estate owned by a friend "T" who had taken Muttley for a few days around January 1, before I made the final decision to keep him as my own. "Luckily", he and his uncle "G" were both there, and we introduced them to the dog. Of course, she was a little scared at first, but she was OK after a little while. They agreed to keep her, at least for a few days while we checked out other options. It was encouraging to see that Lucky did not seem very aggressive toward several of the many cats. Helene and I had to leave, and T and G had some errands to attend to. I returned about 2:30, and they were not back yet. I heard Lucky making some soft whining and moaning noises, and found her locked in a dark garage. When she heard me, she barked, and I let her out on an old chain leash and choker chain that had been used for Muttley. She was happy to get out, and we waited near the pool for about a half hour until T and G returned. She still seemed afraid of them, while she was happy to lean against me and give me occasional "dog kisses". We installed a 40 foot aerial cable run between two large trees by a gazebo, and she seemed happy enough to wander around and relax in the area while we were there. However, when we went back to the house, she jumped around and barked. They had to leave again, and I did also. I don't know if they returned her to the garage or lrft her on the run. Although I think T and G like the dog, and are willing to take good care of her, I do not really think they are "dog people". While I was very happy to give her hugs, letting her lick my hands and face, talking to her, and praising her when she responded, I did not sense the same sort of affection from either T or G. "T" seemed mostly interested in using her as a "deer repellant", and although he will probably take her on three or four walks a day, as he did with Muttley, I don't think she will ever be allowed in the house where she might damage some of his priceless antiques and historic woodwork, etc. "G", an older gentleman, did not seem to take much interest in the dog. I think he is planning to build a doghouse for her. I am not sure if they plan to keep her on the dog run day and night, or lock her in the garage or tether her near the house (as they did with Muttley). My friend "L", who originally introduced me to T and G, visited later, and met Lucky. She let her off the dog run and walked her on the leash, but said she pulled so hard she was difficult to control. She fancies herself a dog trainer, and was able to get her to "sit", by forcing her into the position. She was somewhat concerned when "T" went in the house to tend to some business, and I think "G" also went elsewhere, leaving Lucky tethered once again on the dog run. "L" had said previously that "G" was an incredible animal trainer, having previously trained a fox and perhaps a possum, but she now thinks he is not really a "dog person", which seemed evident to me by his indifference and lack of attention. "T" seems to be wrapped up in his own world, and although I think he will tend to her physical needs, I really think he lacks the emotional affection that a dog craves. I think she will be OK for a few days. It will take some time to see if she really is OK with their cats, or if she might hurt them. One of them is a gentle young cat with cataracts and would probably be highly at risk. Lucky seemed to ignore them at first, but later barked or growled at them when they made a move. At least she is not as aggressive as Muttley was when he was there. "T" said that there was one instance where one of his cats "froze" as Muttley charged after her, and he was just barely able to hold him back before he had a "furry lunch". I'm not sure what to do. Helene is not much help, and told me I should "just shoot her" if she again takes it on herself to rescue another dog. If I could be certain to be able to keep Lucky with Muttley, I would consider it, but I already have a lot on my plate and I don't need more "drama" in my life. I know Jerry has told me what I should do, but I have not yet tried his methods and it may do much more harm than good if I attempted them incorrectly on a dog I don't know very well. For now, though, I am somewhat concerned about having her tethered to the dog run with the choker chain collar. Someone from FARM seconded my suggestion of a harness, or at least a separate collar which could have her information engraved on it so she could be identified and returned if she got loose. Also, I don't know how much I should "take charge" of this situation. I can tell myself that it was not my decision to attempt this rescue, and try to feel good that I have done the best I can to help. But I have already started to "bond" with this sweet dog, and I want to do what is best for her, without getting myself in "over my head". Paul and Muttley and (maybe) Lucky |
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Interim update on "Lucky", and what is a "dog person"?
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Paul E. Schoen wrote: Also, I don't know how much I should "take charge" of this situation. I think that given your "incompetence" and the extent to which you've failed to "train" Muttley over a considerable period of time, "you" should "recognize" "your" limitations "and" turn the dog "over" to a reputable rescue "organization." "Thinking" that you'"re" the "only" "person" who "can" care for "a" dog and that "the" "dog" "will" be lost without "you" and taking "dogs" in beyond your "ability" to provide care "and" "training" is what hoarders "do." It's not enough to love a dog. Between his inability to train his dog, his flitting from method to method, his endless, endless excuses, and his tendency towards hoarding, this guy is disturbingly like the XY version of Leah. Sheesh. -- Melinda Shore - Software longa, hardware brevis - Prouder than ever to be a member of the reality-based community |
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Interim update on "Lucky", and what is a "dog person"?
"Melinda Shore" wrote in message
... [nothing worth repeating] It is obvious that you do not read for comprehension, but only for ways to try to make yourself seem oh so perfect by attempting to belittle others. It only proves that you are a "beatch". Bitch is much too good a word, especially after having befriended a sweet female dog, whose disposition even after years of mistreatment is orders of magnitude nicer than your best attempt (ASSuming you even try). I wish the solution to this situation were as easy as taking her to a rescue. If you know of any place that is not overflowing with pooches needing homes, if anyone is willing or able to take a larger dog, then perhaps your infinitude of knowledge can provide it. Otherwise, just shut your nasty, snarly mouth and behave like a well-trained human. Paul, Muttley, and "Lucky to be nowhere near Melinda" |
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Interim update on "Lucky", and what is a "dog person"?
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Paul E. Schoen wrote: It is obvious that you do not read for comprehension, but only for ways to try to make yourself seem oh so perfect by attempting to belittle others. I'm not belittling you, I'm describing your situation. You haven't bothered to train your dog, you make endless excuses, you flit from training method to training method, and you're an incipient hoarder. Some things are easy: if you want a trained dog, train your dog. If you can't care for a dog, don't take it on. If you don't want people discussing your screwups, don't describe them in a public forum. Kinda ironic, you sitting in judgment on whether or not someone else is a "dog person." If you don't like it being done to you, etc. -- Melinda Shore - Software longa, hardware brevis - Prouder than ever to be a member of the reality-based community |
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Interim update on "Lucky", and what is a "dog person"?
On Sat, 23 Jun 2007 14:38:14 -0400, "Paul E. Schoen"
wrote: [...] For now, though, I am somewhat concerned about having her tethered to the dog run with the choker chain collar. For just once in your miserable, pathetic, lazy, little life, Schoen, get up off your big fat ass and do something right. Go over there and remove that choke collar, you freakin' buffoon. Yes, do it tonight! On the way over there, buy her a buckled collar (preferably with metal hardware)... http://www.gundogsupply.com/leatdogcol.html if she's going to be on a cable rig. You know the choke collar is dangerous, yet you're only "somewhat" concerned? Damn, you're a piece of work, Schoen. spit -- Handsome Jack Morrison Lawyers. spit http://www.debbieschlussel.com/archi...e_law_fir.html Operation Arrowhead Ripper: Day One. http://www.michaelyon-online.com/wp/...er-day-one.htm The Return of Inspector Dan Rather: http://iowahawk.typepad.com/iowahawk...tings_alw.html If boys do it, it's sexist, if girls do it, it's liberating. http://drhelen.blogspot.com/2007/06/...rls-do-it.html Throw the bums out! http://tammybruce.com/2007/06/congress_approval.php Yo, Judith! http://blogs.nypost.com/movies/archi...on_m.html#more http://www.freemarketcure.com/ http://blog.nam.org/archives/2007/06/the_real_sicko.php http://hotair.com/archives/2007/06/2...michael-moore/ Do you remember me? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ervaMPt4Ha0&eurl= Harry Reid. "It's time for you to go!' http://dyn.politico.com/printstory.c...4B5D5BDB0E7D4A You gotta be shittin' us, Harry, you sorry excuse for a human being. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rZdAB4V_j8&eurl= Parent, grandparent, etc. of a boy? Get this book! The Dangerous Book for Boys, by Conn & Hal Iggulden http://www.dangerousbookforboys.com/ |
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Interim update on "Lucky", and what is a "dog person"?
Human_And_Animal_Behavior_Forensic_Sciences_Resea wrote in message oups.com... HOWEDY Paul, "Paul E. Schoen" wrote in message ... Yesterday, Helene and I took Lucky from the vet's where she was being boarded at $20/day, and had made reservations for her to be boarded, closer, at $25/day. On the way back, we stopped at the estate owned by a friend "T" who had taken Muttley for a few days snip I know Jerry has told me what I should do, but I have not yet tried his methods and it may do much more harm than good if I attempted them incorrectly on a dog I don't know very well. No Paul, THAT'S the BEAUTIFUL part of my METHOD. If you make a mistake THERE AIN'T NO HARM DONE. For now, though, I am somewhat concerned about having her tethered to the dog run with the choker chain collar. That's REAL dangerHOWES emotionally AND physically. Someone from FARM seconded my suggestion of a harness, or at least a separate collar which could have her information engraved on it so she could be identified and returned if she got loose. That's ABSURD. If she was on an apupriate tie HOWET chain and had a flat buckle collar with a chain choker as a back up she WON'T SLIP OFF and get loose. Also, I don't know how much I should "take charge" of this situation. While T & G seem like nicy guys they're probably not the beast of dog caretakers. I can tell myself that it was not my decision to attempt this rescue, and try to feel good that I have done the best I can to help. I'll be eager to loan you a gun to shoot HELLen. But I have already started to "bond" with this sweet dog, and I want to do what is best for her, without getting myself in "over my head". I've told you that you're WELCOME to phone me ANY time @ 407-425-5092 and I'll talk you through ANY training situation. Paul, if you've got a head set for your cellphone set it up and get yourself equipped with a six foot leash, a flat buckle collar, a 15-20 foot leash or line, four cans with some pennies rocks or washers in them, crushed square and taped on top. If you don't have room in your pockets for every thing put them in a small shopping bag with handles and put that through your belt and call me. We'll take Muttley through a few brief EXXXORCISES teaching him to always pay attention to you with WON eye and WON ear, to walk on lead withHOWET pulling, to heel when asked and come instantly when called and then we'll do the same with Lucky and THEN we'll bring them together in your HOWES and make them good pals. Paul and Muttley and (maybe) Lucky OK, that seems like an offer I can't refuse. First I will see to it that Lucky gets a flat buckle collar, with the choker as backup, ASAP. I'm learning more about these two guys and it seems that perhaps neither one actually owned or trained a dog. Their old dog that died was apparently owned and trained by a friend. So my gut feeling, that this might not be really a good place for Lucky, may well be true. I'll fine tune my observation when I visit them again to put a flat collar on her. I'll get a headset for my cell phone, obtain the recommended equipment, and give you a call next week. I'll also review the portions of the manual that deal with the issues, and we'll see how it works with Muttley. Then we'll discuss the possibility of introducing Lucky into my home with Muttley. He'd probably like a girlfriend again. He was in the company of a pregnant Rottie when he and she were taken by animal control, and he was really happy to see her again when he was briefly reunited with her. Then they got into separate rescue programs and he will never see her again. Maybe he'll "get Lucky"! Maybe I'll run a singles club for dogs Thanks for offering some specific and helpful advice. Paul and Muttley |
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Interim update on "Lucky", and what is a "dog person"?
Paul E. Schoen wrote:
For now, though, I am somewhat concerned about having her tethered to the dog run with the choker chain collar. Ummm, Paul, you need to be more than "somewhat" concerned if she's tethered and wearing a choke collar. She could easily get strangled. What if she wraps her tether around one of the trees and can't figure out to go back the other way? Go out and buy her a harness and bring it to her ASAP! Tomorrow, find her an appropriate situation, even if it takes all day. The people who are taking care of her are clearly careless and clueless. IMHO. FurPaw -- The Bush legacy - no child left a dime. To reply, unleash the dog. |
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"Terri" wrote in message ... "Paul E. Schoen" wrote in : For now, though, I am somewhat concerned about having her tethered to the dog run with the choker chain collar. Oh. My. Did I ever tell you the story of some former neighbors who had their dog (Great Dane) tethered on a choke chain? It was on the front porch, just a few steps away from the living quarters. She'd be fairly safe and they could hear if she got into something, right? One day, while they were at home their dog was awfully quiet. When they went to investiage they found she'd gotten tangled up somehow. Unfortunately they couldn't hear her gagging or gasping or whining because the choke collar cut her air off before she choked herself to death. Please please please take the choke collar off the dog no matter which way you choose to confine her. The only time a choke collar should be used is when *you* are on the other end of the leash that's attached to it. I will take care of this today (Sunday). My experience with the choker chain on Muttley may have been just fortunate, because he was tethered with it outside for many hours with no problems while I was away at work, or when I wanted to have time with my cat Photon. I think the choker chain was supplied by my friend Helene, and she seemed to have no problem with what I was doing. I guess I never made any mention about it when first posting here about a year ago, so that may be why it never seemed to be such an issue. My greatest fear was that Muttley might get loose and be hit by a car on the busy road in front of my house, so ensuring his captivity was most important. However, he still managed somehow to get loose from the tether on several occasions, and he did cross the road to my neighbor's, but he never actually "ran away" or got lost, or caused any damage that I know of. In the case of Lucky, on Wednesday, my role was originally just supposed to be as an assistant in providing transportation from the Pound to another place where she could be kept safely until she could be taken care of by a rescue. However, she would probably have escaped from the fenced area there, and my friend Helene made the decision to have her boarded until we could come up with something better. It is difficult for me to determine when I need to step in and take charge of a situation that is supposedly being handled by others. But when I called her Thursday night, and she had not even talked to the vet or made other arrangements, I knew I needed to step in and take some initiative. It is hard for me to intervene in a situation like this, to make decisions and try to impose my will on someone I respect and assume has more experience and knowledge, but that is what I had to do. Hopefully Lucky will survive her trial placement where she is now, and I will see to it that she is more safely tethered to the dog run. I will also probably need to find out if she is being left there all night, or kept locked in the garage at night or when her caretakers are away. Neither one is really acceptable as a long term solution, especially if they have no intentions of ever allowing her even partial indoor access. Even worse, I think, is the apparent lack of real affection for the dog. Just as with Muttley, and while I was with Lucky, I was sure to give her nearly constant attention and reassurance in a new situation, until she relaxed and was able to lie down quietly or roll over or be playful. It will be interesting to see if she has started to bond with her potential new owners, or if she reacts more positively toward me. Thanks for your concern, and I will do my best to make sure she is reasonably safe and well cared for. It's beginning to look like I may become a two-dog owner. Hopefully Jerry's methods will be successful in training both dogs, and getting them to be pals. Otherwise, I would like to know if the two dogs should be introduced in a neutral area (like a park), or if Muttley could visit her at her present home, or if she could be brought here. I just don't want to have to break up a dogfight between two large dogs, without expert assistance. Paul and Muttley. |
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Interim update on "Lucky", and what is a "dog person"?
"Handsome Jack Morrison" wrote in message ... On Sat, 23 Jun 2007 14:38:14 -0400, "Paul E. Schoen" wrote: [...] For now, though, I am somewhat concerned about having her tethered to the dog run with the choker chain collar. [snip typically childish verbal abuse] On the way over there, buy her a buckled collar (preferably with metal hardware)... http://www.gundogsupply.com/leatdogcol.html if she's going to be on a cable rig. Thanks for the link; they look like nice collars for a good price. I'll get a collar for her today. It might be better to keep the choke chain as a backup, but I'll rig it so that it has limited choke, which should be safe enough. I also have a harness that I bought for Muttley, which I used when I took him on the KOA Kamping trip, but he was able to pop the plastic snaps, so I don't think it is secure enough. Maybe it's defective. If I can fix it, that might be the safest option. Paul and Muttley |
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