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Rude owner at dog park
So I've been going to my local municipal dog park for about five years now.
We (myself and my two canines) get along with pretty much everyone, and I take care to see that my dogs are well-trained and not abusive towards anyone else's experience. For the past six months or so, unfortunately, there is a rather clueless woman with a one year old husky. She has absolutely *no* control over her dog, which likes to steal the ball I use for retrieving drills with my dogs. Now, occasionally a dog will come over and take a ball, and with everyone else, they call their dog, get the ball, and give it back to me. Except for the husky owner. She tells the dog to come and drop the ball, but it's like she does it like she is talking to a human, instead of commanding her dog to obey. The dog, meanwhile, plays keepaway from her, which she seems to think is fun. Of course, this is about as far from fun for me as it gets. Why are some dog owner's so damn clueless about animal behavior, to the point of having no control over a husky? Jon |
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Rude owner at dog park
On 2010-03-22 10:45:45 -0700, "Jon Danniken"
said: So I've been going to my local municipal dog park for about five years now. We (myself and my two canines) get along with pretty much everyone, and I take care to see that my dogs are well-trained and not abusive towards anyone else's experience. For the past six months or so, unfortunately, there is a rather clueless woman with a one year old husky. She has absolutely *no* control over her dog, which likes to steal the ball I use for retrieving drills with my dogs. Now, occasionally a dog will come over and take a ball, and with everyone else, they call their dog, get the ball, and give it back to me. Except for the husky owner. She tells the dog to come and drop the ball, but it's like she does it like she is talking to a human, instead of commanding her dog to obey. The dog, meanwhile, plays keepaway from her, which she seems to think is fun. Of course, this is about as far from fun for me as it gets. Why are some dog owner's so damn clueless about animal behavior, to the point of having no control over a husky? Jon Annoying. All in all though this is a minor annoyance. Ball stealing is a fact of life at the dog park. Things could be much worse. -- wintermute |
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wintermute wrote:
Annoying. All in all though this is a minor annoyance. Ball stealing is a fact of life at the dog park. Things could be much worse. The point is not that the dog is stealing the ball, the point is that the owner takes no responsibility in controlling her dog. I can understand why an untrained and neglected dog engages in bad behavior, what I don't understand is how an owner could be so clueless as to allow it to continue to happen. Jon |
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On Mon, 22 Mar 2010 12:16:51 -0700, "Jon Danniken"
wrote: wintermute wrote: Annoying. All in all though this is a minor annoyance. Ball stealing is a fact of life at the dog park. Things could be much worse. The point is not that the dog is stealing the ball, the point is that the owner takes no responsibility in controlling her dog. I can understand why an untrained and neglected dog engages in bad behavior, what I don't understand is how an owner could be so clueless as to allow it to continue to happen. I wouldn't assume that a dog that is untrained is necessarily neglected in areas other than training. Untrained dogs and clueless owners are not new or unique, and in fact seem to be fairly common in dog parks. I've always been a little amazed that people are surprised by the types of incidents you described. Dog parks are public places where lots of people and lots of dogs go, so there is naturally going to be a certain percentage of poorly behaved dogs and rude owners. Is a dog park really the best place for retrieving drills? |
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On Mar 23, 4:45*am, "Jon Danniken"
wrote: So I've been going to my local municipal dog park for about five years now. We (myself and my two canines) get along with pretty much everyone, and I take care to see that my dogs are well-trained and not abusive towards anyone else's experience. For the past six months or so, unfortunately, there is a rather clueless woman with a one year old husky. *She has absolutely *no* control over her dog, which likes to steal the ball I use for retrieving drills with my dogs. Now, occasionally a dog will come over and take a ball, and with everyone else, they call their dog, get the ball, and give it back to me. Except for the husky owner. She tells the dog to come and drop the ball, but it's like she does it like she is talking to a human, instead of commanding her dog to obey. The dog, meanwhile, plays keepaway from her, which she seems to think is fun. Of course, this is about as far from fun for me as it gets. Why are some dog owner's so damn clueless about animal behavior, to the point of having no control over a husky? Jon If some harmless ball stealing is the worst thing that happens at your local dog park then I want to take my dogs there!! Seems to be quite a few unruly huskies around though, maybe they should be designated as a dangerous breed and kept muzzled or on a leash at all times. |
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sighthounds & siberians wrote:
I wouldn't assume that a dog that is untrained is necessarily neglected in areas other than training. Untrained dogs and clueless owners are not new or unique, and in fact seem to be fairly common in dog parks. I've always been a little amazed that people are surprised by the types of incidents you described. Dog parks are public places where lots of people and lots of dogs go, so there is naturally going to be a certain percentage of poorly behaved dogs and rude owners. Is a dog park really the best place for retrieving drills? The problem with this individual is that this has been a consistent problem for several months now. I have been going to that park for a number of years, and restrict my activity to early morning when most of the delinquents are still asleep. And yes, ideally I would train the dogs in my 500 acre estate, but until I get the estate, the dog park is part of our training routine. Jon |
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On Tue, 23 Mar 2010 05:23:01 -0700, "Jon Danniken"
wrote: sighthounds & siberians wrote: I wouldn't assume that a dog that is untrained is necessarily neglected in areas other than training. Untrained dogs and clueless owners are not new or unique, and in fact seem to be fairly common in dog parks. I've always been a little amazed that people are surprised by the types of incidents you described. Dog parks are public places where lots of people and lots of dogs go, so there is naturally going to be a certain percentage of poorly behaved dogs and rude owners. Is a dog park really the best place for retrieving drills? The problem with this individual is that this has been a consistent problem for several months now. I have been going to that park for a number of years, and restrict my activity to early morning when most of the delinquents are still asleep. And yes, ideally I would train the dogs in my 500 acre estate, but until I get the estate, the dog park is part of our training routine. No need to get snide. I don't have a 500 acre estate or even 5 acres of property, but I wouldn't go to a dog park to work on training. If the dog park is absolutely your only other conceivable option for doing retrieving drills, I guess you'll just have to put up with the other people who go there. |
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On Tue, 23 Mar 2010 04:38:39 -0700 (PDT), Angry
wrote: On Mar 23, 4:45*am, "Jon Danniken" wrote: So I've been going to my local municipal dog park for about five years now. We (myself and my two canines) get along with pretty much everyone, and I take care to see that my dogs are well-trained and not abusive towards anyone else's experience. For the past six months or so, unfortunately, there is a rather clueless woman with a one year old husky. *She has absolutely *no* control over her dog, which likes to steal the ball I use for retrieving drills with my dogs. Now, occasionally a dog will come over and take a ball, and with everyone else, they call their dog, get the ball, and give it back to me. Except for the husky owner. She tells the dog to come and drop the ball, but it's like she does it like she is talking to a human, instead of commanding her dog to obey. The dog, meanwhile, plays keepaway from her, which she seems to think is fun. Of course, this is about as far from fun for me as it gets. Why are some dog owner's so damn clueless about animal behavior, to the point of having no control over a husky? Jon If some harmless ball stealing is the worst thing that happens at your local dog park then I want to take my dogs there!! Seems to be quite a few unruly huskies around though, maybe they should be designated as a dangerous breed and kept muzzled or on a leash at all times. Sure, absolutely, let's designate all untrained dogs as dangerous so their lives are in danger. Idiot. |
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Angry wrote:
If some harmless ball stealing is the worst thing that happens at your local dog park then I want to take my dogs there!! Seems to be quite a few unruly huskies around though, maybe they should be designated as a dangerous breed and kept muzzled or on a leash at all times. Yeas, I guess in the grand scheme of life, this is not armaggedon. It is still very frustrating that it is a continual problem with this person, who is too clueless to realize she is clueless. This is compounded by the fact that it is indeed a husky, one of the breeds which needs solid boundaries in it's life. I have seen this particular dog fight with another dog, because the other dog went to retrieve it's ball, and the husky fought the other dog over a ball that was not the husky's. And yet, despite this happening time after time after time, the owner does nothing beyong telling the dog to obey as if she was relating a brownie recipe to someone over the phone (ie, has no clue how to train or communicate with a dog like a husky). And of course, I could have probably handled it better than losing my cool, but I have only so much time to work with the dogs. I think the next time this happens (which will likely happen the next time I am in the park) I am going to suggest that she needs to physically restrain the dog for the 10 minutes we train in that area, because she has no control over the animal. Politely. Jon |
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sighthounds & siberians wrote:
And yes, ideally I would train the dogs in my 500 acre estate, but until I get the estate, the dog park is part of our training routine. No need to get snide. I don't have a 500 acre estate or even 5 acres of property, but I wouldn't go to a dog park to work on training. If the dog park is absolutely your only other conceivable option for doing retrieving drills, I guess you'll just have to put up with the other people who go there. Yes, sorry 'bout that, but it is frustrating when I cannot use a public space, that my taxes pay for, because someone is a clueless idiot. I should not have to modify my behavior to accomodate people who are abusing their responsibility to maintain contol over their animal. Jon |
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