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Puppy growth and behavior (aka Am I doing something wrong??)
We have a Pug puppy who will be turning 5 months next week. We have
two puppy books and various web pages that we've been using as a reference on being sure we are doing the right things to raise and train him. The problem with these resources is that you can't ask them questions! Anyway, I have two questions about puppy behavior. The point of reference I'm using is when I lived with my parents growing up, we raised both a Flat Coated Retriever and a Golden Retriever (at different times) from puppies. Housetraining: He is semi-housebroken. When we take him outside, he knows what he's supposed to do out there. Usually after about 10 seconds of walking around on the grass, he'll go. The problem is, while he knows that's what outside is for, he won't necessarily wait to be outside to do it! We have vertical blinds which are in front of the door we use to go out. Usually he lets me know that he has to go out by walking back and forth through the blinds. The problem is that the frequency with which he does this is highly irregular. Sometimes he doesn't do it for 5 hours, and sometimes he has to go 3 times in an hour! (This is only for urinating...) Obviously, the more often he goes, the less he actually urinates each time. We've had him to the vet several times, so I don't think it's any sort of urinary tract infection. I sometimes just think he wants to go out because he knows that if he does do it outside, he gets a small treat afterwards. Another thought I had is that he does it if he's bored. Just the same, I don't want to ignore him when he does this, because sometimes that leads to him going in the house -- which is definitely something I don't want. Whenever I let him out, we only go to the bathroom and never have playtime in the same trip. Is this just because he's still a puppy or are we doing something wrong in training? I'm coming from a family which had full grown dogs which only ever had to go out 4 times a day, and they would wait until we took them out, as opposed to them telling us when they had to go, so this is all new to me. Leaving him alone: When we leave the apartment, we put him in his crate and he just sleeps the entire time. However, if we're in the apartment, we let him out and have him confined to one room. The problem is that we HAVE to be in the room with him. If we leave him alone, he always ends up getting into trouble. Either he'll start barking at things outside the window, or he'll start digging in the side of the couch, or he'll jump up and try to grab things off the coffee table. If we're in the same room with him, all he ever wants to do is play. Now, of course, I realize he's a puppy and all they ever think about is playing, but is this much activity normal for a puppy his age? Keep in mind that I'm used to have full grown dogs that do nothing but lay around until you're ready to take them out to play. I mean, it's a bit taxing because whenever my wife and I are home, we hardly ever get to do ANY of the same things we did in the apartment before we had a dog. One of us always has to be the in same room with him, and if we're together in that room trying to watch TV or a movie, he's always jumping around, trying to get us to throw his toy for him. I realize that we could put him in his crate for a while if we need a break, but I don't want to have him spend TOO much time in there. I guess the ultimate problem is just that whenever we're home, we have to spend almost every minute either watching the puppy, playing with the puppy, or thinking about the puppy. I knew they were a lot of work, I guess I just didn't know they were THIS much work. I guess my parents did a lot of work with the puppies when I was growing up and wasn't paying attention. My overall question is this: I realize that it varies from breed to breed, and even from puppy to puppy, but is there some sort of general timeline for the behavior development of dog? Like I said, I'm used to adult dogs which only have to go out 4 times a day and can be pretty independent without getting into trouble. Our puppy right now doesn't allow us to have any time to ourselves when we are home. I just want to know if this is normal for a puppy his age, or if we are doing something wrong. Is there any particular age when any of you experienced dog owners usually stop thinking about him/her as less of a puppy and more of an adult dog? Luckily, obedience classes start tomorrow. Thanks for your help! |
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From: Aaron
We have a Pug puppy who will be turning 5 months next week. The point of reference I'm using is when I lived with my parents growing up, we raised both a Flat Coated Retriever and a Golden Retriever (at different times) from puppies. Big puppies are very different from little puppies. The bladder control of the average retriever puppy is much, much higher than a little pug puppy! Housetraining: He is semi-housebroken. When we take him outside, he knows what he's supposed to do out there. Usually after about 10 seconds of walking around on the grass, he'll go. The problem is, while he knows that's what outside is for, he won't necessarily wait to be outside to do it! I sometimes just think he wants to go out because he knows that if he does do it outside, he gets a small treat afterwards. Another thought I had is that he does it if he's bored. Just the same, I don't want to ignore him when he does this, because sometimes that leads to him going in the house -- which is definitely something I don't want. Whenever I let him out, we only go to the bathroom and never have playtime in the same trip. Is this just because he's still a puppy or are we doing something wrong in training? Personally, I'd skip the treats and use verbal and physical praise only. May but down on the "get a treat" trips. That said, I try to gauge frequency needed by activity. Sleeping puppies need to go out as soon as they wake up, active puppies every 1.5 or so if they are little (young or small breed). Even if it's just a little, it avoid urination in the house, which is a very big deal. By not having urination in the house, he doesn't think it's ever ok. Vigilance and an eagle eye. I'm coming from a family which had full grown dogs which only ever had to go out 4 times a day, and they would wait until we took them out, as opposed to them telling us when they had to go, so this is all new to me. But you have a baby small breed now - very different! Leaving him alone: When we leave the apartment, we put him in his crate and he just sleeps the entire time. However, if we're in the apartment, we let him out and have him confined to one room. The problem is that we HAVE to be in the room with him. Of COURSE! He's a social being - he BELONGS with you, under a watchful eye of course........One of us always has to be the in same room with him, and if we're together in that room trying to watch TV or a movie, he's always jumping around, trying to get us to throw his toy for him. I realize that we could put him in his crate for a while if we need a break, but I don't want to have him spend TOO much time in there. Use a leash when he needs to chill out - I do this from day one - teach settling at my side, whether that's at the dinner table, the computer, or TV. I guess the ultimate problem is just that whenever we're home, we have to spend almost every minute either watching the puppy, playing with the puppy, or thinking about the puppy. YUP. I knew they were a lot of work, I guess I just didn't know they were THIS much work. I guess my parents did a lot of work with the puppies when I was growing up and wasn't paying attention. You're a classic, if that makes you feel any better! An awful lot of my clients are young couples with their first dog who didn't realize how much work it was. It's good prep for parenthood if you're contemplating that! ;-D Our puppy right now doesn't allow us to have any time to ourselves when we are home. Time by self? Huh..... I don't know what that's like! I have a lab mix and a flat-coated retriever by my side (or in the same room with me) every moment I'm home. The 2 cats are generally with us as well. Their choice, we hang out together whether in the house, outside the house, etc. That's why they're COMPANION animals. Luckily, obedience classes start tomorrow. Good! Have fun! I have 3 pug puppies in my puppy preschool clas right now. One should have been named Jaws, but he's very sweet otherwise! ;-D Janet Boss Best Friends Dog Obedience "Nice Manners for the Family Pet" Voted "Best of Baltimore 2001" - Baltimore Magazine www.bestfriendsdogobedience.com |
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